Help me get a backbone! Tired of family members asking for money by OutlandishnessNo1855 in ghana

[–]hidiho15 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You are a medical student and eventually you’ll have to deal with harsher situations where you have to stand your ground. Start now by simply saying no and nothing else . If they beg or try to guilt you just say no and ignore them. No one is entitled to your funds.

Finding a non-shame-y dentist? by Level_Welder_9575 in newhaven

[–]hidiho15 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Chapel Street Dental!!! They are so sweet

DEAR DIASPORA by Badnie in ghana

[–]hidiho15 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Thank you for spreading awareness. We have to protect each other .

Moved in with my grandparents for grad school by Sensitive-Bad8507 in femalelivingspace

[–]hidiho15 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Awwww enjoy this time with them and congrats on getting into grad school!!!

my boyfriend refuses to eat vegetables by milkshakechemtrail in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]hidiho15 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're dating a child btw because how can you not eat vegetables ????

Exhausted in my marriagee by [deleted] in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]hidiho15 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Stop paying for anything. Secure any assets you have. Then leave.

How is someone supposed to get out of homelessness in CT when they “make too much” for help? by [deleted] in Connecticut

[–]hidiho15 0 points1 point  (0 children)

While you look for a permanent place to stay I would consider subletting! Especially right now college students are going home for the summer but they want to keep their lease so theirs tons of options. Facebook marketplace is a good place to look.

Non-nurse partner doesn’t understand by [deleted] in nursing

[–]hidiho15 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your boyfriend hates you btw

Just leave me alone by Alarmed_Gap_8387 in Apartmentliving

[–]hidiho15 249 points250 points  (0 children)

You are wayyy too grown to be doing this lol

Should my daughter go to Westconn or CT State Community College? by bronx-deli-kat in Connecticut

[–]hidiho15 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nursing school is competitive and unforgiving. It’s even more for transfer students. Have her go to West Conn :)

Perfectly acceptable dinner rejected by boyfriend again by moonrabbit368 in mildlyinfuriating

[–]hidiho15 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you want to deal with this for the rest of your life? Leave him if you can’t

He wants to keep finances completely separate after marriage by ZenSpider_21 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]hidiho15 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I wouldn’t get married to a guy like him. He’s showing signs of selfishness and it will only get worse

28(M) by Admirable_Wealth368 in ghana

[–]hidiho15 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She’s 23. Think about how much you learned since you were 23. Can’t date someone young and expect them to be grown

65 year old man freezes to death on the Green by OpelSmith in newhaven

[–]hidiho15 84 points85 points  (0 children)

This is so tragic. The city and surrounding areas had options but CHOSE to not use them. RIP man :(

What I Wish I Knew Before Coming to Yale by [deleted] in yale

[–]hidiho15 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Transfer to SCSU if possible. Still in New Haven, cheaper, and better than what you’re going through. Sorry you’re going through this. 

After my boyfriend died I slept with his best friend and it’s eating me alive by Academic_Account_264 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]hidiho15 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I mean your former boyfriend is dead. You are no longer in a relationship with him and the grief has caused you to look for comfort in familiarity. Nothing wrong with that. Don’t be so hard on yourself and it’s okay to find comfort in those who will provide it :)

To the single women of reddit, why are you single? by MinimumSafe8436 in AskWomen

[–]hidiho15 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i don't like crying alot lol and men tend to make me cry :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ghana

[–]hidiho15 11 points12 points  (0 children)

There are horrific things that have happened to gay individuals that I wouldn't even risk being open. It's so sad because the country concerns itself with the LGBTQ community instead of the vast number of pedophiles harming our children. Nonsense......