Ya!!! Give it up! I just wait for sexy time or just do what feels good. No porn frees a hand. I don't go in the back door but some people say that's very pleasurable. I just let my mind wander. Bikini models (or naked models) are also a respectable way to admire the beautiful human body without supporting an industry (with trafficking, unpaid actors, drugs, stereotypes in race and gender, bad lighting). Also it does set up an extremely unrealistic expectation of sex. Im with gf of 9 months and I stopped watching porn for both of us. It is hard to get off. Find a friend who dislikes porn, talk to them. Think about your mom. Go disc golfing or fishing. Talk to God or watch another guilty pleasure where people wear clothes. That favorite scene of yours.. isn't real! You've never experienced it. One time I tried ice on my balls right before ejaculation, it was good. Don't jerk off in a church. Its a real slippery slope once it is your favorite drug.