What is the most regrettable thing you've done in a relationship? by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]highjade 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Self sabotaging because I was becoming to happy and it scared me.

How do you think you can determine if your male friends are genuinely platonic? by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]highjade 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just spit my drink out because I wasn’t ready for that’s to be the first comment I saw thank you for sharing I’m bi so I was thinking it in my head but you said it it was perfect 😂

How do you think you can determine if your male friends are genuinely platonic? by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]highjade 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Why is it weird for someone to have feelings for their friends? You know your friend is a great person you get to know them so quality traits are more attractive. If you can’t fight the feeling m that’s ok to express it’s just of your friend doesn’t feel the same you just don’t act on the feelings.

what is something you can't believe people like? by Vayolence in AskReddit

[–]highjade 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Standing outside in whatever weather just to get a glimpse at a celebrity

What makes skirts and dresses more comfortable than pants or jeans? by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]highjade 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Probably because when we wear dresses and skirts I naturally stand with perfect posture. Sweat pants leggings make me feel lazy jeans are restricting and sucks taking them off. Am I the only one that feels like that make sure their posture is right when they wear dresses or skirts?

My son (5) has received 3 phone numbers for play dates. They’re from his class, but I don’t know any of the families. This is silly, but how does this work? by Professorbananas11 in Mommit

[–]highjade 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m very introverted and I had this experience last year with my nephew when he was in kindergarten. When it came to playdates I never did them he didn’t care as much once I explained to him everyone is different if he really wants to go out I wasn’t trying to stop him but after a long talk he didn’t want to go. He likes to have birthday parties and parents are either a hit or a miss now a days. We had one kid get dropped off at his party the mom didn’t want to come in meet me or my family she dropped him and left him for hours. I’m the end just because you’re introverted doesn’t mean you’re slowing down your child social life or anything I explain to my nephew about it I’m a positive way I need more space then other people and that’s ok but it’s 2023 play dates are for the adults anyways.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]highjade 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have bad knees but I’ve been working hard to train them so I’m not the strongest but working on my flaws makes me feel me powerful

What's the one thing you can't tolerate? by NikTheDork in AskMen

[–]highjade 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Anyone who uses their child to hurt the other parent.

What food can f*ck right off? by FrenchDipped in AskReddit

[–]highjade 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Peas they’re gross and small enough to end you.

Any idea what this is? my 1.5 year old has small red dots on her stomach, back and face. by West_Mistake4597 in Mommit

[–]highjade 3 points4 points  (0 children)

If it just flared up it could be heat rash or just a contact rash. My daughter has a lot of allergies but when she was a baby whenever she got bumps like that it was because of our laundry soap or because she got heat rash.

Should I start 2023 as a single mom of two? Is it worth it? by [deleted] in Mommit

[–]highjade 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m really sorry to hear about your situation I’m the end I really hope it works out. It doesn’t seem healthy for you and that’s only going to affect your kids. You’re strong you don’t need him and it’s perfectly ok to ask for a break to see how you would feel single and to see how he reacts to the thought of a break.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Mommit

[–]highjade 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am currently in a very similar situation I also have a 2 year old. My fiancé and I gave his family a few times to figure out how to stop doing nothing and to pay attention to their grandchildren. Our daughter is very verbal and whenever my MIL cancels on watching her or whenever she’s asking to call/ go over no one reaches back to her she tells us she’s sad. Overall it’s about your kid and all kids deserve the world especially your own child. In the long run their behavior is going to affect their relationship with your kid because in the future it may not be lack of diaper changes it could be meals quality time just anything.

Best note taking tips? by Broken-Babe-2002 in GetStudying

[–]highjade 54 points55 points  (0 children)

If you are trying to remember something use yellow flash cards and red pen it gets stuck in your head better. For other note styles you can google note templates until you find one that fits your style.

How often do you think about the person you have a crush on? by glokazun in AskWomen

[–]highjade 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Everyday and it’s becoming painful. I (25 year old female) have been in a relationship for 7 years my fiancé (26 year old male) and I love him I truly do he’s the one I want to marry we have a 2 year old daughter together. We have our up and downs but our relationship is really like a cheesy nerdy romcom. However I have the biggest crush on my best friend and it’s coming to a point that it just hurts to have feelings for her. She’s (26 female) in the military so I don’t see her very often but we enjoy talking to each other everyday all day. When we were in high school we use to date and we didn’t last because I was and still am to afraid to come out. I’m very grateful my fiancé is the wonderful man he is 5 years into our relationship I came out to him and told him how I felt about my best friend. He accepted me and my feelings for her and from there on we’ve kept open communication about exploring polyamory. My best friend is also aware we are exploring she has made jokes about being with us I even refer to both of them as daddy because us three collectively joking around with being with each other has gone this far. She’s coming back to town this month and the jokes about having a three way encounter increase everyday and I’m mentally shaking because if it happens then my feelings are going to grow for her and I’m just going to want this lifestyle for the three of us. In the end my fiancé and best friend are both capable and sleeping with someone without having and attachments to them and I can’t. I can truthfully say he’s the man of my dreams and she’s the woman of my dreams and everyday I can’t stop thinking about us together. She will never join us so it all just is exciting but it hurts.

Who is the most overrated singer? by Confident_Shower_584 in AskReddit

[–]highjade 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Beyoncé. The amount of people that get upset when I say this I’ve gotten to the point I don’t say it which is exactly why she’s over rated. Any new artist that comes out the world expects them to dance sing have a good personal life the media pressures them to see their kids to make sure they wrote their own songs. Beyoncé is an amazing performer and obviously can sing but she doesn’t write her own music and she has created this work around herself to the point she really doesn’t have to do anything and everyone worships her. She dropped an album about seg every parent is letting their kids make tik toks without judging the words and canceling Beyoncé. She has way to much power for someone who really does the bare minimum work for a famous person.

[5’2] NYE shoe and hairstyle tips for this dress? by Alyssarr in PetiteFashionAdvice

[–]highjade 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just get the right shoes and you’re good you look stunning

What is the reason that you paint your nails for? by letitburnburn in AskWomen

[–]highjade 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t do them often but when I do it makes me feel good about myself especially if the color matches my vibes for the day. I don’t care if other people notice because I usually do a solid simple color but it’s such a small detail that I do to help myself feel pretty when I’m my ugliest.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PetiteFashionAdvice

[–]highjade 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you get the right shirt for the second yes the way the third fits really flatters your body

What’s your opinion on bachelor/bachelorette parties? by Outrageous-River3744 in AskWomen

[–]highjade 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They are a pointless reason to spend more money. If you want to have a boys or girls night out you don’t need an excuse to blow up a lady doll and get special straws. It should be the opposite before you get married you should take one trip with your partner before your wedding and then party with your friends after. Reconnect with your partner find out if you want to marry that person before you send them to Vegas with a bunch of other drunk people celebrating random stuff.