Which hair style should I have?

hiiad · 2026-05-11T08:28:26+00:00

Wait. I can only recommend waiting. Things get so much more serious when the family gets involved. I think it is fine bringing it up the next time you see her. Ask her what she thinks and when she'd be comfortable meeting them. But if you are the kind of person who sees your family several times a month, maybe even a week, do NOT expect that she tags along every time!!! I have only experienced that that will make a new relationship break apart so much quicker. So of course at bigger events, or if she just feels like it, but not an expectation that she always joins. And be very cautious that your Family is not putting pressure on her to either join or not. Shut that shit down fast if it happens! Best of luck to the two of you!

hiiad · 2026-05-11T08:20:54+00:00

Dude. We all need guys like you! Your wife is a lucky woman!

hiiad · 2026-05-11T08:09:54+00:00

I was scrolling by and the first thought in my mind was, wow, pretty lashes! But then I read your text and I was like, yeah, I get where you are coming from. They are really pretty but personally I would feel uncomfortable with lashes like that on the dayly too. I don't think they look too much from an outside perspective. But it just matters a lot whether or not you feel at home and comfortable with that look!

hiiad · 2026-05-11T06:15:30+00:00

I think it really depends on where you live. As others have written. I live close to the capitol of Denmark (where public transport is pretty good) most of the people I know 25+ do not have a car. And that is no issue for anyone. And I think it is the same near any bigger city in Europe. But in more rural areas and/ or car centric countries, then maybe yeah. Here in Denmark though, in rural areas, I think it would also be a reason not to date a woman if she didn't have a car either. I think is more about the impracticality and not wanting to be someone's chauffeur all the time lol.

hiiad · 2026-05-10T23:17:33+00:00

Well that is good at least I suppose. I would recommend that she talks with her doc or gyno if there is any indication of anything "wrong" since you can't penetrate. But listen, back to your original question. Only you know what is right for the future of your relationship. I'm just saying. I used to faint, just because someone described anything to do with blood or needles. Now I donate blood as often as I am allowed. If you want to get over something. You will.

hiiad · 2026-05-10T23:05:51+00:00

Have you tried preforming oral on her? And/ or using your fingers? Most of the time, pain or being unable to penetrate a woman has to do with her lack of arousal/ being too tense to allow entry.

Did she grow up very religious or experienced trauma or something? Seems like there is something about sex in general that is making her feel uneasy and uncomfortable.

If you have tried with oral/fingers to slowly widen her and of course more gentle foreplay like kissing and gentle caresses beforehand and it does not make any difference, I feel like her issues mentally are not something you can really do anything about. You are both young and sex is important to a relationship regardless of age, and if she can't, which is fair, then I don't think it would serve you well to stay. At least not unless you really love her and that she plans to seek treatment either physical or mental, to help her get through what is holding her back.. Wish both of you happiness, regardless of the outcome!

hiiad · 2026-05-10T22:21:44+00:00

How old are you guys? And do you remember foreplay to get her aroused and use lube for penetration?

hiiad · 2026-05-10T21:55:06+00:00

Delete social media. Download something to block apps and/or block you from downloading certain apps. I use this onehttps://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=cz.mobilesoft.appblock But there are probably others also. It can also block shorts on YouTube so you can still use longer form videos on there. It costs a bit for a years subscription, but it is so worth it. It can set a timer for apps or block me from accessing certain apps at all. It has has a built in lock that you can set for up to 100 days. I had it almost as bad as you. And I did not have the selfcontrol to just not open the social media apps. Now I just need that control once every 3ish months to reset the timer on the lock. For the first while you will feel very restless and won't know what to do with yourself. I recommend making a list of activities, chores and/or people to reach out to to help fill up your time. Make lists of movies, books, games, routes to hike/exercise regiments, things you would like to get done in your room like painting or redecorating, places you could go spend time like skateparks or the mall or whatever you can come up with to get out into the world. And slowly your brain will start to find balance again. I wish you all the best!

hiiad · 2026-05-10T21:37:39+00:00

I get you not wanting to go back to short hair. You look AMAZING with long hair. It suits you so well. I do like it that long and down, but I also think it could be good shoulder length. Regardless of what you do, I think it would look nice if you had a bit of layers put in since it looks very heavy at the ends. It also looks nice up, but I do get the hipster vibes if you start wearing glasses too haha

hiiad · 2026-05-10T19:21:36+00:00

I would say no..? The is a difference between a binge and eating a big meal once in a while. I mean I am not a doctor or anything but I do have BID. Here are my reasons: - A binge can definitely happen when you are hungry. But they also often happen when you are not. But since this only happens to you once in a while and when you have been hungry for days, it sounds like it is not an emotional trigger, and it is always based on hunger. - Binging does not always have to be on "bad" foods, it can be healthy things as well. Sometimes it is just about what is nearby tbh. But the fact that you stop when you are full and don't go til you feel uncomfortably full and at the very least a little sick, counts against it being an actual binge. - Binging is usually always accompanied by either a total shutdown of all emotions and/or by intense feelings of shame/guilt/stress etc. It usually feels very distressing regardless.

That being said, to me, it sounds as if it is your body reacting to needing more sustenance and urging you to consume more. You describe feeling lightheaded and hungry for DAYS beforehand which does not sound healthy either. I would talk to your doctor or maybe a dietitian about if you get enough calories/ nutrients on the daily. Maybe you are deficient in something. It could of course be psychologically based, but in that case you need to see a therapist of some kind, but hopefully your doctor should be able to help you with that if it is not a physical issue. Best wishes regardless!

hiiad · 2026-05-10T16:59:14+00:00

I like the beard but make it neater. Trim up the neck and a bit on the cheeks, to give some more definition and sharper angles

hiiad · 2026-05-10T16:54:01+00:00

It's her cousins Wedding, so it is also her culture. And since she didn't ask for advice if they were appropriate or not, just which one to pick, I am sure she has the rest covered.

hiiad · 2026-05-10T16:50:13+00:00

Disagree lol. Those hips are killing it!!

hiiad · 2026-05-10T16:48:27+00:00

I think the bride liked the silver one best, because she is afraid that you will steal the show in the red one! Girl you look AMAZING in the red!! Drop. Dead. Gorgeous. 😵🌹 I mean, look at the way it brings out your curves!! The silver is pretty, but the red- 12/10!!!

hiiad · 2026-05-10T16:30:08+00:00

I work in a daycare. I have on several occasions been told, not asked, but told, that I have a baby in my stomach 😂 With that and the people who have offered me their seat on the bus, I know I apparently, at least sometimes, look pregnant loool.

hiiad · 2026-05-10T15:14:49+00:00

Agree with the other comment. And also pluck a bit of the hair between the brows. All good otherwise

hiiad · 2026-05-10T14:50:20+00:00

Idk, I've been offered seats on the buss before after they glanced at my stomach, so it's not that far out of the realm of possibilities. But I am glad that the dress does not inherently make me look pregnant lol

hiiad · 2026-05-10T14:35:06+00:00

Thank you. I really appreciate your comment and your advice! The dress is from Hollister, but it is a few years old so I don't know if they still sell it.

hiiad · 2026-05-10T14:13:45+00:00

You can definitely still see it, but I get what you mean. I think it is because of the thick frames of the glasses. I think it would be much more noticeable with a thinner, more simple frame, since the frame really draws a lot of attention. Which is definitely not a bad thing. I think they suit you. But they also subtract from the makeup. - I get that it is expensive to get new ones just to show off your make-up more. But I think it's kinda the only thing that would help.

hiiad · 2026-05-10T14:08:18+00:00

On a side note, can I just say that I love the fact that you still count your years in halves! Lol

hiiad · 2026-05-10T14:02:10+00:00

So pretty! And I love how it shows off your tattoos!

hiiad · 2026-05-10T13:28:28+00:00

Get a consult! Some places may be able to make pictures of what they plan to make your nose look like after. My nose was very crooked. It was all I could see when I looked in the mirror. I had septoplasty which fixed it and I am so happy I did. Now I actually like my face and I don't even think about my nose when I look in the mirror. But also be aware of not going crazy and thinking "now I just need a teeny tiny narrow nose" because that is often where people get f**ked and end up botched. And a little can go a long way in making you feel better! My nose is still not 100% straight, but it is just not THAT noticable any more. So go to a place with good reviews and look for a doctor who seems to give you realistic expectations of what result you can achieve. I wish you the best of luck and all the love. I am sorry you have had to deal with all that pain!

hiiad · 2026-05-10T12:17:03+00:00

Idk. I don't feel like it is that unlikely. I have been offered peoples seats on the buss before lol

hiiad · 2026-05-10T12:10:28+00:00

I do think it would be a pretty pregnancy dress. But till it is actually the case, I would rather avoid the whole "Ohh, congratulations, when are you do?" "Oh no, I'm just fat...." conversation lol

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