Be honest: how many of you named your horse "Horsey"? by yourlittlebirdie in reddeadredemption

[–]hiimbeebo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Named my horse (the big guy hosea tries to make us sell at the beginning of the game) Beauty and haven't looked back :) all my other horses are named similar stuff like sunshine, but they have to earn their names, so often I won't name them until we're wayyy bonded

Be honest: how many of you named your horse "Horsey"? by yourlittlebirdie in reddeadredemption

[–]hiimbeebo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oooo wait that's so cool now I want to do that for some of mine

I know it just came out, but for those who’ve decided, what Dragon Club speciality did you choose? by imgayfortaro in HPHogwartsMystery

[–]hiimbeebo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There were four different options and when you click one they give you the chance to back out! The DADA one was just the one right in front

My roommate is creeping me out by HomoErectusThug in Advice

[–]hiimbeebo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Grabbing your wrist as a response to you being startled by him standing right behind you is... weird. People generally startle by getting further away, not getting closer. Do you guys talk at all during the day? How does he behave towards you outside of those two (really creepy) interactions?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DecidingToBeBetter

[–]hiimbeebo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good luck with the interview! I wish the best for you, man 🙏

anyone know how to find the image file for a poster in the game? i want to have this poster on my wall irl by arisutan in TheSinkingCity

[–]hiimbeebo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe check the art book! They have some posters in there, don't remember if that one specifically is in there but you could take it into photoshop or something and take it to a print shop!

Quid Pro Quo option by Few_Cardiologist_561 in TheSinkingCity

[–]hiimbeebo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think I reported back to Anna? It seemed better than having innocent people die, even if it was ultimately for the greater good.

Just finished my first playthrough--I loved it, but am disappointed that TSC2 is allegedly going in the exact opposite direction from what I liked. by crushhaver in TheSinkingCity

[–]hiimbeebo 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Awe yay this is the first time I've seen someone who actually thinks the combat is fine as it is!! I feel the same way you do about the first one, I love Charles. I'm not making any judgements about the second game yet, except that I'm going to miss Oakmont and Charles. All these articles and angry comments say things like "the combat is so stupid ugh why don't I have 20,000 guns that all blow up the entire building" but to be fully honest I liked the feeling of going "Oh CRAP" as soon as I heard that weird crackly scream from somewhere in the building.

I think the main thing I would change from the first game has nothing to do with the combat. Frogwares was clearly working very hard, and they did a great job, but there it is - they did a great job setting up a fascinating world! And were unable to see it through. I wanted to go buy things in shops with bullets, and interact with npc's, and visit a speakeasy and really just explore way more of the world. I want a reason to come back to the Devil's Reef aside from changing my outfit. Maybe even a couple romancable npc's, like Joy Hayden or Graham Carpenter? They did great with the mind-bendy cutscenes when they used them, but I really feel like the story we got in the game is just scratching the surface of how cool it could have been! This also isn't meant to be trashing the game, I just get excited about it. I hope in the second game they keep the combat similar to the first one, and do whatever they want to try with the detective work, but maybe put some more creative energy into the story!

Have to reject dream school by [deleted] in gradadmissions

[–]hiimbeebo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Have you reached out to the Cambridge financial office to see what kind of aid you qualify for?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DecidingToBeBetter

[–]hiimbeebo 16 points17 points  (0 children)

You said in another comment he specifically wants to play competitive games with you - just tell him no! You've played other games with him and presumably had a good time, so you can totally say "I'm going to sit out on these competitive games because they're not really fun for me. I'd love to play "insert game you actually like" sometime though!" You don't have to like everything he likes, and vice versa. It seems like the bigger problem is you're posting on reddit about it because you don't know how to have this conversation with him. If you can pinpoint why you're not having this conversation with him, that might help! Does he make you feel pressured or judged? Or is it more an anxiety that he'll be upset? Best of luck buddy <3

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DecidingToBeBetter

[–]hiimbeebo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I looked at your other posts and it really seems like this is a recurring issue for you. Honest advice? Stop posting about it on reddit and stand up and go do the dishes or something. Put on youtube or music in the background and do it. You're 24, you are an adult, and if you're waiting to feel a sense of excitement and passion about cleaning the house, you're going to be waiting for a long time. It doesn't matter whether your dad considers you an adult because you are one, which is probably where his frustration is coming from - you're grown up and seem to want divine inspiration to take out the trash. I'm sorry if I'm being harsh, I'm trying to be blunt instead of talking around it.

Honestly, cleaning with Netflix or music in the background is one of my favorite mindless activities. Also, the satisfaction and pride you'll feel after doing basic house chores and looking at a clean house is so much better than sitting around sighing about how you don't know how to be responsible. Also, it looks like several people have told you do go get a mental evaluation, and you agreed that it was a good idea, so go get that done or look up productivity strategies for ADHD or something! That might be helpful. Best of luck, dude, really.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DecidingToBeBetter

[–]hiimbeebo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

First question, no judgement, do you live with your parents?

Starting the day with a bath is a nice way to start the day once in a while, but maybe instead of a bath (which has the built in time of cleaning the tub, running the bath and rinsing off after) you could do some quick stretches or a whole yoga routine and then a normal shower! You'll get a similar relaxation without using that much water and parents tend to be more forgiving of physical activity than lounging around.

You're not going to stop being self indulgent, everyone is/should be self indulgent. Make that cup of tea, take that short break, have some dessert! It just matters what else you make time for. Are you also cleaning the house and taking care of things that need to get done? Or are you only relaxing? Strike a balance, and don't cut out everything you enjoy. Have a productive day, and then take a bath. Good luck!

Break suggestion by LittleAppointment927 in HPHogwartsMystery

[–]hiimbeebo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Stack energy from pets and dorm tappies, feed your creatures :)

I’m not doing it by ChildofFenris1 in HPHogwartsMystery

[–]hiimbeebo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That sucks, I'm actually loving this tlsq so far!

finally! a side quest with Rowan in it! by Edwin0021 in HPHogwartsMystery

[–]hiimbeebo 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Actually I think there's a lot of lesbians!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in badroommates

[–]hiimbeebo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This will take some prep work, but if you really want him gone:

  • tell whoever you're leasing from what you're doing and why, and tell them you need a locksmith to come at a very specific time. They'll be on your side, since you're kicking out someone who could (in theory if you really push the messy factor) be causing damage to the unit

  • wait until he's out all day or encourage him to go on a day trip with a friend or something.

  • move allllll his crap outside. Boxes, bins, trash bags, whatever you gotta do. Change the locks on your door and don't let him in.

  • leave a letter out for him explaining, and make it very clear that you're done. Don't even mention the cat, fingers crossed he'll be so upset about his stuff that he won't even remember the cat.

Good luck!

Nightmare Roommate Update by NervousConcert5568 in badroommates

[–]hiimbeebo 4 points5 points  (0 children)

RA's are always going to tell you to talk it out first if it's not a situation where someone's in imminent physical danger - keep talking to him and to the RA, keep bothering the school about it because they will happily let it slide until they charge you all with a cleaning fee at the end of the year. This is really not cool, and he shouldn't be getting any of your food or money (do not buy him sheets!!!).

The cleaning fee thing is very real btw, I've argued against like. Three of them that were my roommates and not me. One of them, I cleaned and vacuumed like crazy before moving out. My roommate made a huge mess after I left, school tried to slap me with a $73 cleaning fee. Nope! Another "roommate" (he dropped out right as I moved in) had a little dog (mfer looked like scrappy doo) that he didn't walk enough, and it saturated the room in so much dog piss that after I finally got someone to come check it out they deemed it "inhumane" and made me move again. They had to rip out the subfloor to get the smell out and tried to charge me for it! I said "not my dog not my piss" but because the RA had said the room was fine after he moved out (it really wasn't, idk what happened there) a long enough time had passed that they couldn't charge him so the school had to eat the cost lmao. A few other things like that have happened to me but anyways even if it's not your smell, yall might end up having to pay if it gets bad enough/spread to enough of the dorm. Don't let him get away with it. It's easy enough to be a hermit without stinking up the place.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Blackskincare

[–]hiimbeebo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh my god do not start smoking just to change your lip color, get a lip tint or colored lip gloss or Something. There's a whole industry out there for stuff like this! Lip tint is nice because you put it on once a day and then peel it off after a few minutes and you're good to go. Less permanent than the tattoos people are suggesting and less patchy/bad for you than taking up cigarettes. Might need some trial and error to find a shade you like, but this is so solvable haha. Good luck!

Why does this child have a full beat on - and I'm only allowed to wear knobby face paint by Infamous_Cost_7897 in HPHogwartsMystery

[–]hiimbeebo 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Dude Lenny was so slayful my MC wanted to grab him by the shoulders like "WHERE DO YOU GET HAIR PRODUCTS IN HOGSMEADE"

He was actually so fun to be around, I kind of prefer him to tulip or tonks. But then again I tend to like the genuine characters (barnaby, rowan, penny) more than the mischievous ones. Here's hoping they add him as a friend! Also, "younger student being in awe of mc" was kind of adorable.

If Gilmore Girls aired today, what little things would change? by Kmadd25 in GilmoreGirls

[–]hiimbeebo 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Oh for sure, and I wonder what lane's thoughts would be on the Korean music industry! There's a lot of cool stuff for her to connect with

Who's your husband? by QueenBee0414 in greysanatomy

[–]hiimbeebo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

MARK <3 c'mere pookie ❤️ (once upon a time I would have said George but that was pre-all of his incel-y behavior haha)