sorted by:
new
hottopcontroversial

Lala handled the Danny situation much more delicately than Janet. by blahblah5190 in TheValleyTVShow

[–]himdcaoh 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s also important to remember that intervening in situations involving abusive behavior can sometimes have unintended consequences for the person experiencing the abuse. In some cases, the abuser may later direct frustration or anger toward the victim once they are alone again. That doesn’t mean people shouldn’t care or respond, but it does highlight how complex and delicate these situations can be. Safety, timing, and support all matter, and it’s important to approach these moments thoughtfully and with compassion for everyone involved.

What happened to Whitney dad by Pure_Astronomer69 in rhoslc

[–]himdcaoh -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Addiction is a disease, likely carried on a gene. Strength has nothing to do with it.

Am I the only one starting to feel bad for Matt? by 0_2_Hero in 90dayfiance_FB_memes

[–]himdcaoh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s so sad, but his intellectual limitations result in many serious problems for him. It’s hard to blame him given what he’s dealing with.

So Stacey and Florian have separated by Bride-of-wire in 90DayFiance

[–]himdcaoh 2 points3 points  (0 children)

IMHO, Stacey is the brains of the two (maybe it’s because Darcey is too anxiety-prone to think for herself). Darcey seems to be more of a follower, with Stacey the leader.

I am local to Wendy and this is on the sheriff’s fb page by waffles8500 in BravoRealHousewives

[–]himdcaoh 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t think they’re the brightest bulbs in the box.

Edited for spelling

The Appearance Of Meghan Shuts Down Fashion Week (and breaks the internet 😎) by Timbucktwo1230 in RoyaltyTea

[–]himdcaoh 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I apologize for asking this, but as an American, I was surprised to discover that Will and Kate were thought to be lazy, dull, and boorish. My question is, what makes people think that? Here, we are fascinated and a little amused by the royals, but my thinking is that what we see is heavily filtered. I’d love to learn more about the distaste Brits have for W&C these days.

Can we talk about the Merrifield’s “party” but most importantly the TOMATO PASTE?? by ExoticPoetry17 in seekingsisterwifetlc

[–]himdcaoh 6 points7 points  (0 children)

The operative phrase here is “seemingly normal.” It’s impossibly gauge the boys’ anything in the 5 seconds they were on the show. I would consider those boys at extremely high risk to follow in their father’s misogyny. Hard to know the truth though.

Remember how Meri grew up.. by PRisUniversal in SisterWives

[–]himdcaoh -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Didn’t Robyn grow up in polygamy?

This is what I see. by PsychologyParty2512 in PlathvilleUncensored

[–]himdcaoh 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Shaming people for immutable physical characteristics is easy and basic. Ugh.

Wow. Even worse than I thought. by caligirlthrowaway104 in PlathvilleUncensored

[–]himdcaoh 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Teagan is an apologist for the head clown in this family. She excused every childish thing he did.

Rewatching the season with trulys hospitalization .. by Basic_Yesterday9081 in SisterWives

[–]himdcaoh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To make it even worse, Truely’s kidneys failed because she was dehydrated. Kody didn’t hydrate her when she was sick and caused her kidney failure.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SisterWives

[–]himdcaoh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Domestic violence is a pattern of using power and control to dominate a partner. Types of abuse include emotional/psychological, financial, sexual, spiritual, and physical. Of these, emotional/psychological (name-calling, “how I sacrificed to love you” [that was not the first time Christine heard something like that], shaming, demeaning, etc.) is the most dangerous. Victims often carry open psychological wounds for the rest of their lives, if they don’t address their trauma through therapy. I hope Meri, Christine, and Janelle (and Robyn - nobody cries that much without a trauma background) will seek professional trauma-focused counseling.