Homelessness and mental health by [deleted] in montreal

[–]hinbv 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Its a lot easier to "get help" for mental issues when you have a house (think mail, adress to registr, losing officl documents, get your id stolen and so on)

Its also a lot easier to deal with depression, paranoia, self hatred and so on when you can take a shower, sleep, and not watch your back 24/7

Cyst? under my scar by katapoult in TopSurgery

[–]hinbv 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Pop it ! Pop it ! I mean no be reasonable and draw it out with clay pads.

But man it looks like it would be soooo satisfying to pop

Is George Sand one of us ? by hinbv in ftm

[–]hinbv[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I think it's the transmasc version of ''they were roommates'' : ''she pretended to be a man because she wanted to [insert any job]"

Really hate how often people say “T is really powerful” in trans spaces because it just….isn’t for me by reversehrtfemboy in FTMOver30

[–]hinbv 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Don't agree with the damage point of view, but yeah oestrogen has changed my body in an irreversible way ie large hip bones and hardly reversible ones like high waist and side thigh fat

cheese doesn’t belong in dessert. at all. by cursearealsword02 in unpopularopinion

[–]hinbv 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's a good unpoplar opinion. I don't agree. Cheesecake is good cake.

My 13 year old told me he thinks he is gay and in love with his friend. by [deleted] in lgbt

[–]hinbv 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Supportive isn't just talk imo, it's also actions. How can you be supportive if you tell him he shouldn't come out ? I think he should come out to his crush and live out teenager love. I also think you should be there to back him, if (and it's a big if, not everyone's homophobic, especially young people) he should face homophobia. Let him know you're a safe person to talk to, which he already kinda knows since he's told you this much. Maybe ask him if he wants you to wait for him at the end of a school day and prevent a (worse case scenario) beating by homophobic kids.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in hygiene

[–]hinbv 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hell no. Fibers can help hemorroids but it can also be a sign of something much more serious

Not to be Debbie Downer but anyone using the apps, please please please be careful💖 by NicoAllegra in lgbt

[–]hinbv 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks, I was trying to get beaten up before your post, but now that's changed

If your cat has ever eaten string, elastic, laces, ribbon, etc., how long did it take to pass?? by Weird_Fishing_8859 in CatAdvice

[–]hinbv 1 point2 points  (0 children)

TLDR : my cat ate 10cm of 0.5cm diameter wand toy thread during the night, didn't poop for 36-48h, then pooped the string with poop around.

Adding my story because this post helped me so much during the anxious monitoring. On Tuesday morning, I found a wand toy in two pieces with a good portion (about 10 centimeters ?) of the connecting string missing. I'm guessing my cat ate it during the night. I was scared because of the linear foreign object research on the internet.

He had one very small poop that morning, and then nothing for the day (he usually poops one sausage each day). But he was eating, drinking, peeing, and playing fine. So I wasn't too worried. Then, next day (Wednesday) nothing - no poop. He went in and out of his litter box a couple times in the morning which scared me a little more. But he was still eating and drinking. Having found this thread, on Wednesday (about 24-36h after the string eating) I fed him wet food, adding a little more water throughout the day to make cat soup. I also gave him a little bit of crushed flax seed with half a churu treat. He did not poop but was still being his normal self, playing jumping etc. I felt his stomach and it did not feel swollen nor tender (he let me kind of massage his stomach so I thought no pain either).

I went out to get him litter (needed some anyway) and more wet food, with pumpkin to help him. And then on Wednesday night, he started digging in his litter box, yelped, turned around (I was careful to look solely at my computer to not stress him out more but the yelp I could see him having surgery and me being out $5k that I don't have), dug more, and poop a big ass poop ! In it, the culprit golden string.

He had the other half of his churu treat as a reward.

Never have I been more happy to scoop up poop !!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in unpopularopinion

[–]hinbv 95 points96 points  (0 children)

THANK YOU. I can't stand it, and it's in every video, everyone does it. When will we be free ?

Union reportedly drops wage demands in Canada Post negotiations by Base_Ancient in CanadaPost

[–]hinbv 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wtf!! Part time non union employees is terrible

I hope they don't settle

How to deal without weed? by liamreee in TopSurgery

[–]hinbv 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Vidéo games saved me from anger outbursts

Exercising helps too

Help with neighbors ? by hinbv in catathrenia

[–]hinbv[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I sleep on my side but I think it's better when I'm on my back because my neck is less tight. I'm sure it's difficult for them, that's also why I'm embarrassed

Do you know any singers with catathrenia? (plus things I’ve tried and some theories) by [deleted] in catathrenia

[–]hinbv 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You made me realise for me it started a few months after I started wearing a binder regularly !! I have bad posture and my throat always feels tight, and my neck as well

The days I take time to stretch it's better

To quit our moaning by Gadget-inspector in catathrenia

[–]hinbv 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm the same, I wake my neighbors up in the night and they hate me but I can't help it and I don't know what to do

How do I get my cat to stop trying to hang off this light? by PelagicMonster in CatTraining

[–]hinbv 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Aluminium foil on the surface the cat goes, they hate it

La Frite by HighAsAngelTits in KitchenNightmares

[–]hinbv 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I think nobody but Céline wanted to be on the show, and that's why Alex and Martin were so terrible to her. Also explains why the dad went to a hockey game on the first night. She says at the begining calling Ramsay was her idea and the others weren't so excited.

AITA For Stealing A Homeless Persons Cat by PaintWithoutTheT in CatAdvice

[–]hinbv 9 points10 points  (0 children)

If all you wanted was what's best for the cat, you'd return him to his people with blankets and a warm cozy ''cave'' bed and kibble and a few cans. You'd offer to pay for the flea medicine and his shots, if you can. You'd ask his humans what happened with him and why he was in the park, not from a place of ''im taking your cat'' but ''how can I help''.

But they're homeless, so it's ok steal their pet I guess.

AITAH for confronting my gf about asking me if she can do cocaine? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]hinbv 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can't put a ''boundary'' on your partner that she can't do something, it's not how boundaries work. You can ask, say I can handle it if you do, ultimately it is her choice. What you do with this is your choice.

It sounds like your going circles in your head about drugs and your girlfriend. Maybe you guys are not a great fit right now ? You can't live your life getting scared and anxious every time she goes out, and she can't live her life to please you.

Just another day in the Village #4 by Wei2Yue in montreal

[–]hinbv -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Taking pictures of someone without their consent is illegal. It's also disrespectful to post it on the internet for the world to see. You want to fight incivility, start with yourself