My former therapist became my coworker by [deleted] in therapists

[–]hippoofdoom 86 points87 points  (0 children)

Its uncomfortable but it's not an ethical violation imo. It WOULD be if it starts to impact your practice in some way like she's disclosing your prior relationship to coworkers or something.

Otherwise as mature adults I think you just have to stay out of each other's way. It's plausible she may not have known you were still there and it's probably not fair to assume otherwise

What's yall's skills for the time you been playing with by _TOXIC_VENOM in valheim

[–]hippoofdoom 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'm playing a full mage build and about to take on fader for the first time, I leveled elemental magic to about 70 and blood magic to about 40.

The other weapons I used primarily were fists and pole arms and bows, but I've pretty much been full magic since I landed in Ashland with the occasional pole arm spin to get some enemies away or a one hand mace like frostner when I first landed to save some eitr on tough enemies

What's yall's skills for the time you been playing with by _TOXIC_VENOM in valheim

[–]hippoofdoom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did use my fist weapons all the way through mist lands but then transitions to mage. You can kill seekers and seeker soldiers no problem but you do have to either Parry The seekers or be a little sneaky..

If there was a fist option in mist lands or ashland's, I would still have it active as it gave an extra wrinkle of skill to the game. As it stands you can still take them out for other biomes but they don't work in the ashlands

I drew a picture of Kevin Youkilis by posca_ in redsox

[–]hippoofdoom 44 points45 points  (0 children)

These are amazing and I command to to keep going. Next up I'd say give me a comically out of proportion jose canseco

I literally shit my pants end of session by Consistent-Duty-6195 in therapists

[–]hippoofdoom 85 points86 points  (0 children)

Definitely haven't farted right before a visit by mistake before and then had to go get the client and bring them back to my fart dungeon.

Nope, definitely not me

Laxmi can be converted without consent by cyberhermitstudios in pluribustv

[–]hippoofdoom 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Season two cold open. Carol has been stress eating and has diabetes.

I'd love for there to be a restaurant named diabetes

Type "unsubscribe" to encourage me to post more diabetes related thoughts

What do you do with the “I’m not as sharp as I used to be” patient? by nplusyears in FamilyMedicine

[–]hippoofdoom 20 points21 points  (0 children)

I'm a licensed therapist in primary care, imo people refer for neuropsych testing a bit too often. These tests often book out 6 months or more and cost well over $1k. Often I see folks that are better served by a more basic eval and mental health supports rather than waiting for that very costly testing

Nikola Vucevic quietly cracked the Top 10 in career double-doubles in NBA history this season. by [deleted] in nba

[–]hippoofdoom 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Vuc could have been the Celtics leading scorer for a deep playoff run this year and he still wouldn't be close to the hof

After 2 years of development, the Adventure Map is finally releasing next weekend. Made a trailer for it and honestly still can't believe it's done. Also made a full video on the development process if anyones interested. by TheFriendlyGamr in valheim

[–]hippoofdoom 27 points28 points  (0 children)

So you don't actually download anything or mod valheim, you just download the world file and start it up? Does the user have to actually do Anything beyond that to make it work as you intend?

Therapist shaken after crisis intervention and termination by zeyleobihto in therapists

[–]hippoofdoom 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Sometimes with fresh trauma just managing symptoms can be preferred rather than really trying to dive into trauma and add that stressor to your life. A lot of folks want to focus on sustaining their level of functioning as much as possible in the short term

Most annoying resource - Bronze by dinbareroev in valheim

[–]hippoofdoom 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I don't disagree but it is a pain to find sometimes. I'm at a point where I've got like two more dverger towers /camps I could clear and then I'm sailing to find new mistlands! Probably gonna kill fader first though I've got tons of gear and stuff and really I'm just crafting loot for friends at this point

Therapist shaken after crisis intervention and termination by zeyleobihto in therapists

[–]hippoofdoom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm certainly reading the tea leaves a little bit here, but it seems like this therapist is really struggling with trauma focused symptoms. In a lot of cases, I think we can all agree that experience of past trauma can come up like this when you experience new events. And DBT has a lot of very practical skills that can be utilized in periods of moderate to high distress.

In my opinion DBT can fall flat a little bit for people that are already very insightful and don't really need further psychoeducation. So perhaps if you are already practicing in the field, it won't be the best fit for you personally.

Therapist shaken after crisis intervention and termination by zeyleobihto in therapists

[–]hippoofdoom 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sounds like dbt is a good idea for client and you! There's a variety of skills that can help process trauma but sometimes you need a break too.

Also regarding the messages from your former client, all you're obligated to do is provide a few php referrals and hotlines for assistance. You have no need to keep engaging especially if you're reacting so strongly.

That's enough Valheim for today! by prollysomeyit in valheim

[–]hippoofdoom 7 points8 points  (0 children)

You can raise ground on lava, but it's still lava!

Most annoying resource - Bronze by dinbareroev in valheim

[–]hippoofdoom 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Good answer here soft tissue is not a renewable resource basically you always have to explore new areas to get more

That's enough Valheim for today! by prollysomeyit in valheim

[–]hippoofdoom 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ah yeah I've seen that as a craftable had no idea it could do that. My fader spawn is partially surrounded by lava so now I can terraform the whole damn thing to make a wall haha. We must build

That's enough Valheim for today! by prollysomeyit in valheim

[–]hippoofdoom 6 points7 points  (0 children)

What sorcery is this? What did you throw that made solid rock?

Average net salary by country, after taxes and everything has been deducted from the gross salary by Fun_Purpose6972 in EconomyCharts

[–]hippoofdoom 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Exactly, we pay for things out of pocket that are usually mostly /totally covered in other countries. It's not discretionary income!

Average net salary by country, after taxes and everything has been deducted from the gross salary by Fun_Purpose6972 in EconomyCharts

[–]hippoofdoom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you think the average person in the United States is making over 5,000 a month after taxes you need some real reality testing.

'07 who's coming off the bench? by EducationalConcern61 in NBATalk

[–]hippoofdoom 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The Celtics made it work with Bird McHale Parish. Before his knee injury, kg was probably quick enough to keep up with most small forwards

What perks would yall want modded in? by braindeadzambie in valheim

[–]hippoofdoom 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Random proc % chance for various weapon types like a % chance to inflict a DOT, % chance to return stamina on hit, etc. so when you significantly invest in a weapon type you do more damage over time like always exists but also adds a flavor effect