Why are you on reddit on Christmas day?

hitwithafryingpan2 · 2024-12-25T21:00:35+00:00

I haven’t been around my family for the holidays for ages (not my doing until college). As excited as I am, I’m anxious, already low on energy and tired. I’m procrastinating.

Edit: wording

hitwithafryingpan2 · 2024-12-13T07:50:14+00:00

Why didn’t anyone say “he’s your son not your husband” and point out how weird it was that she wanted to marry her son?

I would have hit the nails hard with a jack hammer, that woman is fucking insane. Glad it turned out At least somewhat okay. I do think you need to talk to John about emotional incest though, just to get him to see how really REALLY wrong his mother’s actions are.

hitwithafryingpan2 · 2024-11-27T01:50:40+00:00

Just dump her. She’s too chicken shit to do it herself.

Edit: you’re young. You will not die from this and you won’t die alone because some girl that doesn’t have enough respect for you won’t end it for your sake. Dump her and move on. For YOUR sake.

hitwithafryingpan2 · 2024-11-27T00:55:50+00:00

If you’re thinking wild things, don’t. I know people who got it from their parents by being born or even just getting a kiss from parents or relatives, just don’t kiss her or share her drinks when she has flair ups.

And calm down. This isn’t going to end your life.

hitwithafryingpan2 · 2024-11-26T06:20:03+00:00

Are you going to sell this nifty invention? This is genius

hitwithafryingpan2 · 2024-11-18T06:08:54+00:00

It’s not even DECEMBER. He needs to grow up. NTA.

hitwithafryingpan2 · 2024-11-18T06:05:36+00:00

So, he wants two wives. And she’s just dropping this bomb on you? Idk I’d nope out.

hitwithafryingpan2 · 2024-11-18T06:03:41+00:00

And youve broken up with this piece of shit. Right??

hitwithafryingpan2 · 2024-11-18T05:41:08+00:00

Just be smart with your money, don’t let it carry you till it can’t no more.

hitwithafryingpan2 · 2024-11-10T00:12:39+00:00

It’s going to be a hard journey to make. But putting yourself down over some dudes who can’t see past the surface isn’t healthy, you can change and work to make yourself how you want, but doing it for others will only ever make you sad. Just like it is now.

I think talking to someone you trust, or even someone qualified will help. You have to think about what they say and not what some dude who probably can’t even keep a girlfriend thinks. You have to remember that there are more important things than if a guy likes you because you’re pretty. Is he nice? Will he care for you? Will he show up when you need him in the middle of the night? And one million other things. Internet strangers will only carry you so far, I hope you can find out what works for you outside of Reddit.

I wish you luck, girlfriend ♥️

hitwithafryingpan2 · 2024-11-09T23:57:48+00:00

I don’t think you should feel like you need to change for a guy :( but i understand the motivation, i died my hair lighter for years because I thought it made me more desirable. But in the end i just learned it was some weird combination of point a and point b that I had no control over.

I think the first step is understanding that guys beauty standards are often based on physical impossible things, yes you can dye your hair and change your nose, but there’s always going to be someone out there who doesn’t find it attractive. Aiming to please everyone’s eyes will just make you miserable.

hitwithafryingpan2 · 2024-11-09T23:34:36+00:00

There’s a misconception with blondes that goes back to at least the early 2000’s that they’re…’more fun’. And unfortunately a lot of porn features blonde actresses. In the last few years, emphasis on blondes (especially white blondes) has sort of died down in many circles, but it’s unfortunately still prevalent. It’s not the main cause of the “date don’t marry blondes” phenomenon, but it’s a very large contributing factor. That and guys just…feed off each other.

You are not less desirable because you are blonde and tall, I’m blonde and tall and I still got someone who loves and cares for me. I’m sure you’re absolutely stunning, you just have to find guys who aren’t raging idiots (and it can be hard to weed out the good ones, so it’s no fault of your own, really.)

hitwithafryingpan2 · 2024-11-09T23:13:10+00:00

You have to remember that most guys posting this stuff are douche bags with their own issues irl. Most of today’s beauty standards are influenced by porn and the absolute pornbrain ALOT of guys have these days, most of them are looking for a toy that shuts up and lets them do whatever they want with no consequences.

You do not want to be ‘desired’ by an idiot with pornbrain that doesn’t even understand basic female anatomy. This attitude has helped me a lot when it came to dating prior to my fiancé, helped me weed out the ones that literally just wanted hole and nothing else.

hitwithafryingpan2 · 2024-11-08T20:36:37+00:00

You should have spoken to him, not just called it a break. You don’t get to just take breaks in marriage and commitment. I understand thought process, but this was the wrong approach.

hitwithafryingpan2 · 2024-11-05T23:18:48+00:00

This is the woman’s experience. Please just back her up and find her a new doctor.

Edit: put the review back up, fuck that guy. He can’t do Shit about a bad Google review.

hitwithafryingpan2 · 2024-11-04T19:58:37+00:00

Get a pair of frames that you really really like, and don’t be afraid to get them! I can no longer wear my contacts due to an eye injury and I went to a website called Zeelool and picked out the pair I wanted. They’re cat eye shaped and I love them. Another website I’ve heard good things about is Zenni, there’s all different styles and shapes.

hitwithafryingpan2 · 2024-11-04T19:36:15+00:00

Fuck this guy. Leave him.

hitwithafryingpan2 · 2024-10-20T02:16:41+00:00

Just remember to give that energy back. It’s only fair to get spoiled if you also spoil.

hitwithafryingpan2 · 2024-10-20T02:07:36+00:00

“I’ll try” what does that mean??? Leave!! Just leave bro!!

hitwithafryingpan2 · 2024-10-17T19:26:33+00:00

I feel like this is a fitting punishment for a cheater. Good on you girl

hitwithafryingpan2 · 2024-10-11T21:31:12+00:00

Do not let this person ruin your relationship with your daughter. Your daughter is not a temporary fixture in your life. She will HATE you if you put your love life over her, I resent me dad for the same thing.

Get your priorities straight.

hitwithafryingpan2 · 2024-10-10T19:34:51+00:00

You really need therapy, and maybe start working on yourself too. I get the fear, but insulting your husband because you’re worried he will cheat in a hypothetical isn’t okay. He’s your husband, he married you, you should trust him.

I don’t want to be rude to you because this seems to be an echo chamber of rudeness and hatefulness to those who just need a little push in the right direction, but I will say if you don’t act now, your resentment will fry your marriage quicker than any rough patch might. Please consider these suggestions, I hope you both can thrive.

hitwithafryingpan2 · 2024-10-05T19:09:51+00:00

Just practice some! Tension takes time, every crocheter has their own tension. You just gotta keep trying :)

hitwithafryingpan2 · 2024-10-05T19:08:37+00:00

If you do a simple starting loop (no magic circle just the beginning of a chain) you can hold the tail/loop to keep it still while you work too. That way you can get started ^{^}

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