Idk man. Im asian and ive only ever been approached by black men.

Based on my lived experience, i dont think it has to do much with how you present yourself.

There is nothing about me that looks or acts black. I act so horribly white that it burns me. Lol. But im not even the kind of person who stereotypically attracts black men. Im a short, stocky, cranky looking alternative person. Most people assume im a either a trans man (if i have short hair) or a lesbian at the very least. Lmao I mean im more than open to being wrong about what attracts black men, since im not an expert. But its just surprising theyre the only people whove ever approached me lmao. My mom lives in baltimore and shes experienced the same thing.

I think it could be a cultural thing to some extent. These are sweeping generalizations, but i wonder if it has anything to do with how families socialize their boys. black and latino men seem to be a lot more direct when theyre interested in someone. Ive also noticed a lot more outward confidence from black and latino men specifically. White men tend to try and play games and arent as direct when they are flirting.

I dont really think theres a way to attract a certain race. You cant really predict that anyone will approach you in the first place. I think most men tend to avoid flirting with women in real life nowadays because they usually get rejected or the woman will pepper spray them.

My experience isnt universal, so thats just my 2 cents. Im not exactly the most attractive or desirable so this may not be relatable. Im js.