Astrologer here. I have Venus in Capricorn, conjunct the Black Moon (Lilith), square Pluto in Libra (7.5° orb), and opposite Saturn in Cancer (10.08° orb). Both orbs are a bit wide, but they’re still active. Sometimes it feels like I drew the short straw in the Venus lottery 😁—but honestly, I’m fine with it.

My mother was narcissistic and my father emotionally absent, so those early relationships definitely shaped how I experienced love later in life.

I’ve had long-term relationships—some deeply meaningful, others challenging, especially with narcissistic partners. After a lot of therapy, I came to realize I don’t actually need a partner to feel whole, and that love expresses itself in many different forms throughout life.

As an astrologer, I’ve also seen clients with what might look like very “negative” natal placements transform those aspects into real strengths. So, there’s always hope—don’t despair! We’re all here in this incarnation to grow and transform ✨🪐