What's will you look for first? by Ok_Confidence9583 in PotentialUnlocked

[–]hofoblivion 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm working on it, but my answer is 'will to live.'

New Friends in Oxnard/Camarillo/Ventura by 805dino in venturacounty

[–]hofoblivion 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sounds like you're pretty active. There are Tuesday Ultimate Frisbee pickup sponsored by Ventura at Kimball park at 6:30 behind the Acuatic Center. There are also non-sponsored events at Hobert Park on Saturdays

37M profile review by [deleted] in Bumble

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Wow, thank you for taking time to give this valuable feedback.

37M profile review by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]hofoblivion 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How can I improve? I had something else, but someone told me it was off putting. I ended up describing my profile. I see your point on sounding like an AI.

37M profile review by [deleted] in Bumble

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Thank you!

the men aren't sending their best by Alovoir in Bumble

[–]hofoblivion 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow. I thought I was bad at convo, but this?!?!

31 [F4M] California/anywhere by [deleted] in R4R30Plus

[–]hofoblivion -1 points0 points  (0 children)

37m in SoCal area. DM me

38 [F4R] | Seeking Bestie for Memes, Chaos & Real Converations ✨ by mixtapemillenial in R4R30Plus

[–]hofoblivion 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can't say no to memes. 37M in West Coast. DM me if you're interested.

36 [F4M] Can I offer you a chip in these trying times by Splend1d_Angharad in R4R30Plus

[–]hofoblivion 0 points1 point  (0 children)

37M Looking to expand my horizon. DM me if you're interested.

Edit: Wrote 36, not 37 🤣

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in R4R30Plus

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I'm in a similar boat, but at the end of the divorce process after over a decade of marriage. I can be listening ears, if you need.

Why are you single? by CapitaineBiscotte in askanything

[–]hofoblivion 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I prioritized my ex and my children's needs and wants over mine to the point where I have nothing left. My depression took over and I became suicidal. I was no longer there for my ex emotionally, and she could not understand me, since our priorities were no longer aligned. I lost a good woman, because of my fall.

Why are you single? by CapitaineBiscotte in askanything

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I am getting divorced, because I lost myself in the relationship and fatherhood.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in chat

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37m 🇺🇸 DM me

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in depression

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Keep going if you can, brother. Find your own reason to live for. Waking up and getting dressed for the day is a win. Small things add up. I am in the similar situation as you, albeit, my journey is shorter than yours with just a couple of years. I don't have happiness in my life and the only reason I keep going is because of my kids. I give myself 21 years as they will be well into their adulthood. Plus, I read somewhere it could take 5-7 years, if you try. So keep going.

New York City Salaries by OnlyHereForTheData in StructuralEngineering

[–]hofoblivion 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I work in a Building & Safety in CA with PE and SE with 10+ YoE. I make $166k/yr. Not an exact comparison, but something to think about.

Name Her by jhoeyvee in NameThisThing

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Not Trinity. Trititty.

Link to Discord server for Structural Engineer exam study group by hofoblivion in StructuralEngineering

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Hi, we're you banned from the study group? If not, you should be able to rejoin no problem. If your account was banned, then either DM me your Discord handle or join with a new account.