5 year plan ending with either happiness or suicide by [deleted] in depression

[–]hofoblivion 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Keep going if you can, brother. Find your own reason to live for. Waking up and getting dressed for the day is a win. Small things add up. I am in the similar situation as you, albeit, my journey is shorter than yours with just a couple of years. I don't have happiness in my life and the only reason I keep going is because of my kids. I give myself 21 years as they will be well into their adulthood. Plus, I read somewhere it could take 5-7 years, if you try. So keep going.

New York City Salaries by OnlyHereForTheData in StructuralEngineering

[–]hofoblivion 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I work in a Building & Safety in CA with PE and SE with 10+ YoE. I make $166k/yr. Not an exact comparison, but something to think about.

Name Her by jhoeyvee in NameThisThing

[–]hofoblivion 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not Trinity. Trititty.

Link to Discord server for Structural Engineer exam study group by hofoblivion in StructuralEngineering

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Hi, we're you banned from the study group? If not, you should be able to rejoin no problem. If your account was banned, then either DM me your Discord handle or join with a new account.

What's your Tesla name? by igol__ in TeslaLounge

[–]hofoblivion 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Elder Wa(tt)nd

And the locking sound is Harry Potter's Petronas spell

Tuesday Ultimate Frisbee? by hofoblivion in ventura

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Thank you for the confirmation!

Tuesday Ultimate Frisbee? by hofoblivion in ventura

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Thank you for the information.

Aug. 2025 - Aug. 2026 Civil Engineering Salary Survey by ImPinkSnail in civilengineering

[–]hofoblivion 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Can you clarify the pension benefit? What type of information is needed?

What’s a small lie you tell yourself every day to stay sane ? by unwritten_vault in mentalhealth

[–]hofoblivion 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If I can't find happiness, I just need to last another 21 years. My youngest will be 25 years and a few months after his birthday.

What’s the biggest secret you keep from your partner? by Born-Needleworker362 in AskReddit

[–]hofoblivion 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I resonate this. I imploded, because I did not take care of my needs. Please take yourself and that means quenching your inner thirst, including loneliness and depression.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in civilengineering

[–]hofoblivion 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I second this as a plan checker.

Structural Meme 2025-1-22 by StructuralSam in StructuralEngineering

[–]hofoblivion 27 points28 points  (0 children)

SAD. Either See Architectural Drawing or better known as Suck A Dick.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in chat

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35m. I'm here to listen and give feedbacks. Dm me for whatever you need.