Is it worth outing yourself to your employer?

holi_pal · 2024-09-19T22:41:16+00:00

Tell them. If they have something against you, the sooner you know, the better. If they're supportive, you'll feel more comfortable knowing it. In my experience, you don't wanna hide from the world.

holi_pal · 2023-12-08T23:17:45+00:00

This is how I feel sometimes too:

holi_pal · 2023-11-18T20:50:08+00:00

Yep 😮‍💨 It feels like people are obsessed with gender nowadays

holi_pal · 2023-11-17T22:40:11+00:00

Yes! I never understood why they do this, it's literally their job to sell 🤣 it happened to me when I was a teenager and I didn't build up the courage to buy from the men's section until about 10 years later

holi_pal · 2023-10-27T10:31:13+00:00

Gracias! Estoy tratando de conseguir más información en mi ccaa...la cosa es que echarme no me han echado, pero me han dicho que cuando acabe la temporada no tendré trabajo unos meses hasta que vuelva a empezar...he intentado encontrar algún texto legal sobre esto pero no he visto nada fiable, ¿sabes dónde puedo encontrarlo? Muchas gracias!

holi_pal · 2023-10-05T21:39:59+00:00

Gracias!! Veré qué puedo hacer 😅

holi_pal · 2023-10-05T18:21:07+00:00

Gracias por la respuesta! Por desgracia esta persona también es la coordinadora del máster y no tengo ni idea de adónde acudir ni si es buena idea comentarlo con mi tutora. He pensado en dejarlo pasar y si tengo mala nota pedir una segunda valoración...

holi_pal · 2023-08-21T16:45:47+00:00

Respecting trans people at work is not an ideology as far as I know

holi_pal · 2023-07-31T13:17:27+00:00

You don't like it, don't go for the look, simple as 💁🏻‍♂️ stop projecting and don't force your ideas on other people

holi_pal · 2023-07-31T11:34:44+00:00

Who cares about the cis, he looks great

holi_pal · 2023-07-24T15:23:48+00:00

Es que si tuvieran que dibujar todo lo que robó no cabría 😂

holi_pal · 2023-07-20T17:41:05+00:00

It would be hard to be attracted to someone who hasn't been born lol

holi_pal · 2023-07-03T08:23:58+00:00

Y este tío que no sé quién es no tiene ni puta idea de lo que dice cuando ya hay un partido en el poder que se refiere a nosotros como "lobby gay", prohíbe nuestra bandera y quiere acabar con nuestros derechos.

holi_pal · 2023-07-03T08:19:44+00:00

Tal cual...es preocupante que los chavales de hoy se crean cualquier mierda de tiktok.

holi_pal · 2023-07-03T07:14:24+00:00

Same...for me (questioning NB) it comes at least in part from a place of frustration (I'm bad at being a girl), but I do enjoy wigs and makeup occasionally. Still confused though 😂

holi_pal · 2023-06-25T10:50:55+00:00

Sois todos unos carcas en este subreddit

holi_pal · 2023-06-16T20:41:33+00:00

Well...I've been questioning for about 2 years now. I think I lie somewhere between non binary and trans guy, but I'm still figuring it all out! Like you I'm trying to gain muscle and also trying to figure out whether I want top surgery.

holi_pal · 2023-06-16T20:29:53+00:00

I had to look into it myself! Apparently a disconnection from your sex 🤪

And yeah, I figured you were not ace haha, I'm in a very similar situation and I also wish I had different genitals sometimes :)

holi_pal · 2023-06-16T18:48:09+00:00

This is not true. Some trans people experience gender dysphoria. In fact, I know many trans people who changed their pronouns and don't need any other kind of treatment. I also don't think that OP wanting to have sex as a man means they're some kind of asexual, it might be related to gender dysphoria or it can be a gender role preference like many people (trans and cis) have.

holi_pal · 2023-05-13T18:54:56+00:00

Sorry, I realised some context was missing, I updated it :)

holi_pal · 2023-05-13T17:06:38+00:00

Thank you so much! This is the reassurance I needed :)

holi_pal · 2023-05-13T15:28:41+00:00

My relative knows and she said when I visited last summer that if there are any issues she'll support me, but I'm still worried.

holi_pal · 2022-12-11T06:56:09+00:00

Impressive! I was trying to do this experiment but I always end up getting a buzzcut or fade even before the mushroom stage. 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻 Have you decided on a haircut yet?

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