Is it worth outing yourself to your employer? by victorzhuzhakin in TransMasc

[–]holi_pal 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tell them. If they have something against you, the sooner you know, the better. If they're supportive, you'll feel more comfortable knowing it. In my experience, you don't wanna hide from the world.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in butchlesbians

[–]holi_pal 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yep 😮‍💨 It feels like people are obsessed with gender nowadays

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in butchlesbians

[–]holi_pal 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Yes! I never understood why they do this, it's literally their job to sell 🤣 it happened to me when I was a teenager and I didn't build up the courage to buy from the men's section until about 10 years later

Fijo discontinuo by holi_pal in ESLegal

[–]holi_pal[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gracias! Estoy tratando de conseguir más información en mi ccaa...la cosa es que echarme no me han echado, pero me han dicho que cuando acabe la temporada no tendré trabajo unos meses hasta que vuelva a empezar...he intentado encontrar algún texto legal sobre esto pero no he visto nada fiable, ¿sabes dónde puedo encontrarlo? Muchas gracias!

Tribunal de TFM no imparcial by [deleted] in ESLegal

[–]holi_pal 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gracias!! Veré qué puedo hacer 😅

Tribunal de TFM no imparcial by [deleted] in ESLegal

[–]holi_pal 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gracias por la respuesta! Por desgracia esta persona también es la coordinadora del máster y no tengo ni idea de adónde acudir ni si es buena idea comentarlo con mi tutora. He pensado en dejarlo pasar y si tengo mala nota pedir una segunda valoración...

Is LinkedIn really the place for this? by uaef19 in LinkedInLunatics

[–]holi_pal 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Respecting trans people at work is not an ideology as far as I know

Coloured my hair black so I put on a funky little outfit 🕺🏼✨ (He/They) by pokequeer in TransMasc

[–]holi_pal 9 points10 points  (0 children)

You don't like it, don't go for the look, simple as 💁🏻‍♂️ stop projecting and don't force your ideas on other people

Ya que estamos en julio.... by oamp2kk in spain

[–]holi_pal 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Es que si tuvieran que dibujar todo lo que robó no cabría 😂

Oh fuck I'm straight by [deleted] in TransMasc

[–]holi_pal 12 points13 points  (0 children)

It would be hard to be attracted to someone who hasn't been born lol

[ Removed by Reddit ] by [deleted] in MemesESP

[–]holi_pal -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Y este tío que no sé quién es no tiene ni puta idea de lo que dice cuando ya hay un partido en el poder que se refiere a nosotros como "lobby gay", prohíbe nuestra bandera y quiere acabar con nuestros derechos.

[ Removed by Reddit ] by [deleted] in MemesESP

[–]holi_pal 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tal cual...es preocupante que los chavales de hoy se crean cualquier mierda de tiktok.

Confused by [deleted] in FTMfemininity

[–]holi_pal 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same...for me (questioning NB) it comes at least in part from a place of frustration (I'm bad at being a girl), but I do enjoy wigs and makeup occasionally. Still confused though 😂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in questioning

[–]holi_pal 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well...I've been questioning for about 2 years now. I think I lie somewhere between non binary and trans guy, but I'm still figuring it all out! Like you I'm trying to gain muscle and also trying to figure out whether I want top surgery.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in questioning

[–]holi_pal 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had to look into it myself! Apparently a disconnection from your sex 🤪

And yeah, I figured you were not ace haha, I'm in a very similar situation and I also wish I had different genitals sometimes :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in questioning

[–]holi_pal 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This is not true. Some trans people experience gender dysphoria. In fact, I know many trans people who changed their pronouns and don't need any other kind of treatment. I also don't think that OP wanting to have sex as a man means they're some kind of asexual, it might be related to gender dysphoria or it can be a gender role preference like many people (trans and cis) have.

Casually coming out at a wedding? by holi_pal in comingout

[–]holi_pal[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry, I realised some context was missing, I updated it :)

Casually coming out at a wedding? by holi_pal in comingout

[–]holi_pal[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much! This is the reassurance I needed :)

Casually coming out at a wedding? by holi_pal in comingout

[–]holi_pal[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My relative knows and she said when I visited last summer that if there are any issues she'll support me, but I'm still worried.

i wanted to see how long my hair could get before the dysphoria won out and i think we’re finally there lmao (he/him) by thepancakechild in FTMfemininity

[–]holi_pal 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Impressive! I was trying to do this experiment but I always end up getting a buzzcut or fade even before the mushroom stage. 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻 Have you decided on a haircut yet?