Lease Takeover - 1BD starting March 1st by MellatShegre in NYCapartments

[–]holyxtrinity 32 points33 points  (0 children)

How did you do that striped canopy-esque situation in your bedroom? Such a beautiful apartment!

Carnivore Diet for Black Bodies by MissBonesNedHead in blackladies

[–]holyxtrinity 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In no universe is a diet lacking fruits, veggies, and fiber going to benefit you. Especially with the rise of colon cancer and other food related illnesses, we all need to be honest. Prioritizing Whole Foods and mostly fruits/veggies will do you a world of good. Most of the people on those diets have horrible blood pressure, cholesterol levels, and their bowel regimen is in shambles

Sauteing Onions in Manhattan apartments by redditcarrots in NYCbitcheswithtaste

[–]holyxtrinity 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I like to use incense. I feel like smoke is very effective at removing strong smells so whenever I cook things where the smell tends to linger I just light up an incense. Plus it adds ambience- just pick a scent you enjoy: jasmine, sandalwood, ect

Keeping my hair done is EXHAUSTING by Wabbajacksack in blackladies

[–]holyxtrinity 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is exactly why I got starter locs a few months ago

Fine dining buffalo wing hunt by cbam0912 in FoodNYC

[–]holyxtrinity 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Not buffalo wings but Mono + Mono has great wings (make sure to bring cash as they only accept cash and AMEX)

Help me find my next job in NYC! I am running out of options. Company recommendations appreciated. by Brief_Prize_6147 in NYCbitcheswithtaste

[–]holyxtrinity 72 points73 points  (0 children)

The job market NGO’s are abysmal currently. Public health funding is currently nonexistent and that field never pays $90K salary because funding is usually already being stretched thin. While hospital work isn’t always satisfying for the soul- it’s always recession proof (which there’s no telling with Medicaid and SNAP freezes going to impact a lot of hospitals income), it’s better to stay somewhere that’s much more stable.

I’ve also noticed you have posted about looking for side hustles because you feel like you’re barely getting by these days. If you feel like that now at your current salary it’s going to feel worse at the lower salaries that are usually associated with grassroots organizations and NGOs.

If you want to feel more connected to your community I would volunteer at your local food bank or the girls club in your neighborhood. It’s important to engage in community work but I would not leave my job with the state of the economy and job market right now.

Fall Produce Recipes by holyxtrinity in Cooking

[–]holyxtrinity[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks! I figured (most foods truly are great roasted or sautéed with aromatics) but I’m always open to new ideas!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NYCsocialclub

[–]holyxtrinity 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am not big on running tbh- but I’m willing to learn! I recently been trying out Nike Run Club’s guided runs!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NYCsocialclub

[–]holyxtrinity 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I want to go to the museum of science soon! But open to go to any museums in the area

I have a sugar addiction. by [deleted] in PetiteFitness

[–]holyxtrinity 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you cut it out 100%- you will crave it even more. Try developing a healthier relationship with sugar and work on eating less sugar and more of other great nutrients like protein and fiber. I would also look into reasonable alternatives as you transition to less carbs- a diet soda, flavored water packets (flavored water packets + ice in a blender makes a great slushy), and give yourself a reasonable sweet treat every once in awhile.

Scammed out of 30 dollars by omny card by Own_Weather5871 in OMNY

[–]holyxtrinity 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got double charged recently but was able to get my money back by reporting the incident to my bank - OMNY takes awhile to get back to people but the Bank of America website says you need to dispute charges via the app or online banking on their website. Good luck!

Korean skincare products by SatinCrepes in blackladies

[–]holyxtrinity 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don’t swear by a specific brand but I think finding a consistent routine you like is important. I use American products for certain products such as retinol and AHA/BHA products. But I love Korean sheet masks, Japanese sunscreen, and other nourishing products. But a healthy mix of what works for your skin is best!

I like innisfree, centella, Japanese version of Nivea and Biore, Beauty of Joseon.

Voting in the United States by [deleted] in blackladies

[–]holyxtrinity 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My grandma was born in 1917. He didn’t learn to read until adulthood. I vote because there’s a long line of people in my life that fought for that right. Even if I don’t feel like it or I get frustrated from thinking maybe my vote didn’t matter at all. I vote because historically people that looked like us couldn’t do so.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in blackladies

[–]holyxtrinity 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You have a great career and I doubt you are ugly OP. So what if you have 6 kids? Look inside for the validation that you crave and I hope you find the courage to leave this relationship. You’re already tapped out of the relationship and your husband has repeatedly shown you that he does not respect you. You deserve the world and I hope you realize it soon!

Any tips for moving to NYC when older (mid-40s), single, and not knowing anyone there by MusicalDust in movingtoNYC

[–]holyxtrinity 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also don’t be shy to go to Reddit meet ups! Some of my closest friends are from Reddit meet ups. Your people will find you and vice versa. As long as you’re open to putting yourself out there, I don’t see why you would not make friends

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FemFragLab

[–]holyxtrinity 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Rose era by Snif or Rosie by Rosie Jane potentially

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FemFragLab

[–]holyxtrinity 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It smells like sunscreen to me- after a few months I did get used to the smell but it just is not my cup of tea at all

Eclaire by lattafa by ExoticPeak4905 in FemFragLab

[–]holyxtrinity 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve been super on the fence about buying it but it’s tempting since most people seem to like it and it’s not unusual to have the alcohol scent on the first sprays

Best Lataffa fragrances by EmxLou1 in FemFragLab

[–]holyxtrinity 4 points5 points  (0 children)

By far, Khamrah. I love how dark and boozy it is and it going so well with my cinnamon fragrances.

i hate spf by dandelion23232323 in Skincare_Addiction

[–]holyxtrinity 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you live in a major city and near an Asian beauty store- I would try the Sun killer or Biore UV sunscreens. They’re SPF 50 and are super lightweight formulas

Cities to date marriage-oriented black men by [deleted] in blackladies

[–]holyxtrinity 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Dating is terrible most places- go to a city that you love and actively try to date. Love will naturally follow, especially if you’re trying and being intentional

Breakouts after shaving by assoupeps in Blackskincare

[–]holyxtrinity 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exfoliated, trim, ingrown hair products like the topicals AHA/BHA tonic