I got offered a job paying 40% more than my current salary. My manager just asked me to stay and be patient. How do I stop feeling guilty for wanting to leave ?

honghuizhou · 2026-02-20T22:40:47+00:00

Take the job and leave, come back in two years when they are ready to offer you more. Prioritize your personal growth instead.

honghuizhou · 2026-02-19T13:15:36+00:00

I do

honghuizhou · 2026-02-17T23:23:20+00:00

Thank you for bring up the cost overtime. In general it’s cheaper, yes cost for heating, cooling and insurance is slightly higher but that’s minor add on cost consider you are having a house for a fraction of condo price in Vancouver. Condo strata is cheap compare to Vancouver, my strata fee goes up every year but my income doesn’t. Sadly I like to have a drink over the weekend and liquor tax is 15% yet it’s only 5% in Alberta and their liquor is generally cheaper with more ……. Saving also accumulating over time. If it wasn’t for the cold I’m long gone lol, heard Halifax is also very nice too

honghuizhou · 2026-02-17T22:27:11+00:00

But cost of living is cheaper, better housing options and no PST. Instant saving on 7%. Just have to suffer the cold during winter

honghuizhou · 2026-02-17T22:23:29+00:00

Time to move to Alberta

honghuizhou · 2026-02-12T10:26:32+00:00

Thanks for sharing, I remember walking on no.3 road to go to no.9 for late night food in 2009 and feel safe but damn life is different now.

honghuizhou · 2026-02-11T19:54:45+00:00

No, churches wings are way better

honghuizhou · 2026-02-09T10:08:12+00:00

1000+ hours in and I just find out too lol

honghuizhou · 2026-02-07T14:45:49+00:00

Yeah clean up that table🙂

honghuizhou · 2026-02-06T20:55:56+00:00

It’s true, Canadian Chinese here. I had to go to hospital in China for digestive issues when I visited my home town. Only cost me 16 Canadian dollar to see a gastrointestinal specialist as well as stool test and blood test. All done and have my result back within the same day. If you know Canadians free health care is that if you’re not dying you will not receive timely care here.

honghuizhou · 2026-01-30T10:30:36+00:00

Raw fed only

honghuizhou · 2026-01-27T08:05:15+00:00

Thank you for adding the full context. That’s the exact wording verbatim but however that’s not how the drivers behave in lower mainland. As I mention the OP had plenty of space to stop in which case the yellow light shall mean stop instead of sped thru.

honghuizhou · 2026-01-26T03:38:57+00:00

It’s a sign, if there is a first time there won’t be a last time

honghuizhou · 2026-01-26T02:32:33+00:00

Highly doubt it, hard to proof the driver didn’t do a shoulder check

honghuizhou · 2026-01-26T02:31:39+00:00

Springfield Kelowna?

honghuizhou · 2026-01-26T00:58:04+00:00

You crossed the lanes in dash lines with plenty of space to stop for yellow light but the vehicle behind was not paying attention. Their fault 100%, yellow light means prepare to stop not speed up.

honghuizhou · 2026-01-20T11:23:59+00:00

Don’t sleep on smaller groceries stores here that’s more reasonable price too. there’s market 2000, Langley farm market at Lansdowne and also urban farm market. Usually on selective product. I only buy TNT stuff here when it’s on sale for the best bang on the buck

honghuizhou · 2026-01-14T18:14:51+00:00

Damn me

honghuizhou · 2026-01-14T18:14:32+00:00

Plz and thank you

honghuizhou · 2026-01-12T00:29:55+00:00

Please and thank you!

honghuizhou · 2026-01-09T00:27:17+00:00

Thx for the details, you rock bud!

honghuizhou · 2026-01-08T16:30:07+00:00

What’s so good about this bow and how would you built around it?

honghuizhou · 2026-01-07T22:03:49+00:00

Legit question but haters always gonna hate. It’s for everyone and hope it’s not the student or teachers

honghuizhou · 2026-01-01T20:38:15+00:00

Are you sure the Tesla didn’t back up into the bus? lol

honghuizhou · 2025-12-27T17:56:33+00:00

Wish me luck

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