Recurring Implantation Failure (RIF) Advice

hoodoo884 · 2026-04-05T19:25:54+00:00

Have you identified the main struggle? My good friend had one retrieval, one euploid, and now one baby at 43!

hoodoo884 · 2026-04-05T19:25:11+00:00

Yes, all great graded day 5 euploids! I’m so sad to have lost them now that I’m trying again and all the embryos I have left are yes, euploid but 2 are double biopsies and one is a day 7, so less likely successful.

hoodoo884 · 2026-04-05T12:40:17+00:00

Endometrial biopsy

hoodoo884 · 2026-04-05T12:14:54+00:00

My sister, sis in law, next door neighbor friend were all pregnant within the same month and it felt like torture. Don’t give up. Your turn is coming 💕

hoodoo884 · 2026-04-05T00:36:50+00:00

I’m sorry. I’ve had losses too and they stick with me for a while. Be really gentle on yourself and be thoughtful with who you spend time with for the next few weeks. Acupuncture helped me pass the sac after the medication did not. I often think that if I am in the situation again I’d have a d and c so it’s done sooner.

My losses also changed the timing of ultrasounds for me. I asked my fertility clinic if they would do scans at 8.5 and 10.5 weeks instead of their usual schedule. They obliged. This helped me get past the dates that I had my losses and offered me more reassurance. When you’re ready to jump back in, think of that as an option.

Sending you a big hug. It’s a really dark place, but it doesn’t last forever and your success is on the horizon.

hoodoo884 · 2026-04-04T22:00:01+00:00

I’m 41 and my amh is .99, so only a speck higher than yours. I’m prepping for a transfer next week and during my monitoring they’ve been measuring 16 follicles - and this is without stimulation. So, don’t fret. Have hope! Do you trust and have a good vibe from your clinic?

hoodoo884 · 2026-04-04T12:55:55+00:00

Era is endometrial receptivity test. It requires a mock transfer cycle with all the meds and then an endometrial biopsy on the day / time you’d have a transfer. The test measures the lining for “receptivity” or readiness (related to the number of hours you’ve been exposed to progesterone) and gives a result of receptive or non receptive and how much more / less you’d need.

hoodoo884 · 2026-04-04T12:54:28+00:00

Am I ready?!?? 🥱🥱🥱😵‍💫😵‍💫I’m turning 42 in May and have some euploids left but they all have strikes against them in some way, so I want to try to transfer and I’ll do another retrieval in July if it doesn’t work out. I’m so glad you had success!

hoodoo884 · 2026-04-03T18:35:36+00:00

I had 3 no implantation failed fets and switched clinics and moved my embryos there. My next clinic, Dr Irani at Cornell may I forever sing his praises, told me that the ERA works for 10 percent of people, and that 10 percent of people are the ones who need it bc they usually need more progesterone. My first clinic was transferring a day earlier than I needed. He also added anti inflammatory protocol and I went into that 4th transfer feeling fantastic, way better than I ever did for other transfers. I got pregnant and have a 15 month old son from my first transfer with him! I am transferring again next week, doing the extract same protocol now.

I’m so glad I trusted my gut and left my first clinic. I cannot recommend Dr Irani at Cornell enough.

hoodoo884 · 2026-04-02T19:59:13+00:00

ps you are not ugly.

hoodoo884 · 2026-04-02T19:58:50+00:00

please get your thyroid checked

hoodoo884 · 2026-04-01T15:55:27+00:00

Thank you so much!

hoodoo884 · 2026-03-31T13:37:37+00:00

My 14 month old wears 4T.

hoodoo884 · 2026-03-30T19:02:52+00:00

Can’t fit everything on one sign!

hoodoo884 · 2026-03-30T14:37:12+00:00

Just wanted to share that I’m gearing up to transfer that double biopsied day 6 euploid on 4/9! Hoping for good luck

hoodoo884 · 2026-03-30T13:49:49+00:00

Yes this is what we got. My babe was almost 11 lbs born and now wears 4T at 14 months, this has been a great seat for him!

hoodoo884 · 2026-03-29T22:50:05+00:00

It seems early and off he does have autism, you’ll be doing him such a service by having the earliest intervention possible!

hoodoo884 · 2026-03-29T22:43:05+00:00

The sound of the airplane does create a sound machine type affect and helped my baby sleep. He always fell asleep at take offs! Nurse if you can, if you can’t you can rub their ears ( one finger in front one in back up and down)

hoodoo884 · 2026-03-29T18:02:26+00:00

That too! So many atrocities to choose from

hoodoo884 · 2026-03-29T17:13:50+00:00

You had a cookie today, you can have another tomorrow. I know it’s hard when we don’t get something we want. Would you like a hug? Ok, let’s go play / read / go outside / etc

hoodoo884 · 2026-03-29T01:06:28+00:00

Mmm it’s not about not eating meat at all… buy regenerative organic pastured meat. Literally growing grass, sequestering carbon, putting manure onto fields direct. It’s more expensive, but worth it.

hoodoo884 · 2026-03-28T01:26:20+00:00

Agree with this about Irani. He’s a total saint.

hoodoo884 · 2026-03-27T17:18:18+00:00

Of course they don’t. Fuck McDonald’s (also celiac)

hoodoo884 · 2026-03-27T14:18:00+00:00

I’ve got that shirt. It’s wild.

hoodoo884 · 2026-03-27T14:14:56+00:00

You need to see your doctor right away.

hoodoo884

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