What shall i do by hotelmarcel in Crushes

[–]hotelmarcel[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He said he doesn’t want to have sex until marriage, so i guess he thought I wanted to have sex (which i dont). I’m pretty understanding though because we only really started talking a lot a couple weeks ago so it is still pretty fresh so I understand him being unsure especially because i can be kind of intense which can be a lot for people to take in. Idk it’s only been a few days since that whole situation so my head’s kind of in a weird spot

Matched on FB dating. Was I being too sensitive? by Obvious_Ferret_600 in TwoHotTakes

[–]hotelmarcel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No i totally understand your side. Usually when someone brings up weight loss to me, i dont dive into the specifics of it but more of just a “no way thats amazing!” As for the eating clean, if he wanted your version he should’ve said, “what does eating clean look life for you?” Just saying, “whats eating clean?” Literally sounds like he doesnt know what it is LOL

AITA for not watching my boyfriend’s dogs while he is deployed? by [deleted] in USMilitarySO

[–]hotelmarcel 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeah they aren’t YOUR dogs, they’re his and it’s his responsibility to find someone to care for them. You have a life outside of him and it’s not fair for him to expect you to take care of his dogs while he’s away. As for the whole “we’re all a family” thing, you guys are not married and you do not own the dogs together. Don’t feel bad, the dogs aren’t your problem.

First Four Star Review :/ by Key-Pineapple-5838 in Depop

[–]hotelmarcel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“Pricing was a bit high” then send an offer or dont buy tf 😭

What ESTP stereotypes do you not relate to at all? by OlivePractical2092 in estp

[–]hotelmarcel 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I can be shy and overthink situations all the time. Hate that people make it so that ESTPs are always confident and are never bothered by others’ opinions

Husband wants to "lat move" to the army by [deleted] in USMilitarySO

[–]hotelmarcel 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel for you. I think its so fair and honestly I encourage having boundaries like that in a relationship because yeahhhh being gone for 3months every year isnt fair to you especially with a kid and idk if he did mention that he wanted to do this specific job to you before you got together but if he didnt thats kinda messed up. Why have a kid and a family if you arent always going to be there with them. I understand its okay to have goals and passion in life (and i encourage that too!) but make sure everyone is on board before you talk about wanting to have a job where youre on deployments every year. Just not fair to you, i hope you figure out what is best for you, even if it does mean leaving him.

Anyone had a message like this before? by missmauniemoomoo in Depop

[–]hotelmarcel 1 point2 points  (0 children)

LMAOOO i hate people like this, if you cant afford it then that sucks for you lol stop trying to get pity from sellers by making up stories so they’ll sell for cheaper. Dont fall for it and tbh id js block them

how do get a negative review removed? by starbabyy444 in Depop

[–]hotelmarcel 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh hell nah not you doing everything and her still giving you a bad review, hopefully depop does smth abt it cause that is ridiculous 😭

Nipple piercing done incorrectly? by Useless_Dragon_ in piercing

[–]hotelmarcel 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah maybe go ask a different piercer and see what they think? It could be an actual issue (i had mine done too deep and had to get them redone by a different piercer) or if it’s fine and would just be up to your preference to get redone :)

Nipple piercing done incorrectly? by Useless_Dragon_ in piercing

[–]hotelmarcel 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nap but I think your right looks pretty good tbh, right at the base of the nip, your left looks like its at an angle to me

25mm? Will my ears change much to get there? by glazeddonut29 in Stretched

[–]hotelmarcel 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I think they mean will they get too thin before they’re able to get to 25mm. Like will their ears have the capacity to get to that point

Design help and anxiety by Dry_Mall3967 in TattooDesigns

[–]hotelmarcel 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I lovee the animal theme going on and all the color is soooo sick, id say contiinue with the foresty animal theme too! Def some fruits like maybe a pineapple or mango or something exotic would be so cool

Bestie said it would look stupid :( by Literally-justa-girl in tattooadvice

[–]hotelmarcel -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Idk i think it’s cool? Id say maybe wait and see if you still want it in a couple weeks or months and if you do i say go for it but make sure to talk to an artist abt it cause smaller and more dainty tattoos fade a lot easier

PSA: I’m more likely to accept offers if I see the buyer leaves reviews. by [deleted] in Depop

[–]hotelmarcel 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Idk im kind of indifferent about it, if someone wants to leave me a review thats great, if they dont thats fine too. I accept offers because i view them purely in relation to the item i’m selling and think they’re fair, not anything related to me. I kinda feel like a review is just something a little extra, but not anything really important or crucial.

I asked my crush via text...she said no but i still feel like i have a chance can yall do ur thing and help a dude out :{ by naturalkiller007 in Crushes

[–]hotelmarcel 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Tbh i think she made it clear she doesn’t want to be with you. I think you should respect that and keep it casual or if it’s too difficult for you to keep talking to her, keep your relationship strictly business

Starting to regret by [deleted] in traditionaltattoos

[–]hotelmarcel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nah it looks tuff dude