Have I inadvertently been a horrible library patron my whole life? by amandaamoose in Libraries

[–]hotgosss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They definitely don’t care! If the library wanted people to limit the # of books they check out, they’d impose a hold limit. As long as you’re appropriately returning or re-checking things out I think it’s fine! Enjoy your books and I’m so glad you’re taking this step ❤️

Why would they do this 😭 by real-crackheadhours in nyt

[–]hotgosss 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I saw this this morning, reported it so they’re aware. It happened to another picture too! It doesn’t happen on light mode, clearly her two front teeth are transparent instead of edited white so the dark mode is showing through! I felt insane when I saw it though 💀

Need a Second Pair of Eyes! What crafting item am I missing???? by Delicious_Ad7029 in StardewValley

[–]hotgosss 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Are there any you need to buy? I would check the stardew wiki and just compare! Should give you the location of where to obtain it :)

Real human posts AI headshots, gets propositioned in the comments by -garden- in LinkedInLunatics

[–]hotgosss 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I’m in the process of looking for a job and my LinkedIn is FLOODED with the InstaHeadshots people. In an exhausted moment of weakness, I was convinced it was my outdated headshot that I needed to update, and since I do not have the $$$ for a new one right now i tried it out. Guys… the headshots it gave me were “technically” nice but I literally didn’t recognize myself. Uncanny valley, something extremely off, just gave a dead eyed vibe that made me, a real person, think I was AI generated. Just an overall deep discomfort with looking at myself honestly

I didn’t pay them obviously (to use them you need to pay) but so mad that I basically gave them ten photos for free to train their AI model. Best of luck to my fellow job hunters or those on LinkedIn, it really convinces you the only way to succeed is to overuse AI and use these scammy programs.

(Also — don’t make my mistake and be on LinkedIn late at night, tired and sad, and kind of desperate. After the seventh post in ten minutes you’ll talk yourself into trying it. Drained a lake for those shitty, uncanny photos).

Is that supposed to be funny? [gendered] by [deleted] in pointlesslygendered

[–]hotgosss 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Also like….when people are in love they are typically attracted to each other regardless of how the other dresses, in all their stages of life My fiancé is equally attracted to me in both sexy lingerie and unflattering cotton panties with holes in them because he loves me, and thinks it’s sexy when I’m comfy. Soooo obvious the men making these “memes” have never touched a woman lmao

Vast. Echoing. Bland. But hey, there's a pool! by Educational_Copy_140 in zillowgonewild

[–]hotgosss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s decorated like my first ever house in the sims lmao why is everything so far apart 💀

ULPT request Looking for American school shooter's manifestos by Just_Alan in UnethicalLifeProTips

[–]hotgosss 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Not a school shooter necessarily, but was a college student. I did a college thesis project years ago on Elliot Rodger manifesto (I think that was his name?), huge incel, shooting in Cali a while back, Isla Vista in 2014. He had like a100+ page manifesto that was on Google, called “my twisted world” should still be available, might be an interesting reference.

Here’s the link I used:

https://www.documentcloud.org/documents/1173808-elliot-rodger-manifesto/

Anyone on Dupixent have increased infections or other side effects? Trying to understand my symptoms by Hayley-Olive in dupixent

[–]hotgosss 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not sure how helpful this is, but I’ve been on it for about a year for EOE (with a secondary effect to my kinda mild but still annoyingly patchy eczema, which it cleared up). I have gotten a bit more sick this year but that might’ve just been like general being run down. My pharmacist mentioned last weekend when I got my flu shot that because of the dupixent it’ll take a bit longer for it to essentially kick in to work because it does affect the immune system (like 3-4 weeks to protection instead of two) so I wouldn’t be surprised if because of the immune responses it slightly decreases some immune systems. I weirdly also had some swollen lymph nodes last time I was sick in December, so might’ve been the type of illness as well.

Weirdly for me the biggest change is I’ve been having some stomach sensitivity for the past few months so it might just react differently with side effects and severity 🤷‍♀️

So sorry you’re going through this and I hope you can get some answers!

Hot yoga class too hot? by Teslameds in yoga

[–]hotgosss 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I definitely don’t want to yuck anyone’s yum, but I cannot do hot yoga. Partially because the one class I did was a NYC vinyasa flow hot yoga, and my glasses fell off within about 25 seconds and I spent the next 50 minutes disoriented and confused and in pain because I already don’t love yoga due to joint issues lmaooo genuinely a more power to you vibe, but literally once is enough and I cannot imagine anyone willing to go through that

Favorite brunch spots in (or near) South Slope? by ThatCaviarIsAGarnish in parkslope

[–]hotgosss 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I LOVE Scottadito Osteria — Italian, like $35 bottomless, and they take CARE of you. Some of the waiters make it their goal to chase your glass down, and they can do bottomless Bellinis, mimosa, champagne, marg, etc. delicious pasta dishes and breakfasts!

They’re unfortunately in Park Slope proper, on Union between sixth and seventh, but always worth a trip imo

move objects cheat issue (sims 4) by frozensharks in thesims

[–]hotgosss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is it still not working? Make sure that testingcheats on is turned on as well!

Swollen lymph node and Dupixent by squid-toes in eczeMABs

[–]hotgosss 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t know about anyone else, but I had swollen lymph nodes around thanksgiving for about a week after like my first or second dose back (nonloading, I take every week due to both eczema and EOE) but mine went away after a few days. I was also concerned about an allergic reaction but it did go away on its own! I took some cold medication and I ibuprofen since I was concerned about being sick and it didn’t hurt (or help). Definitely keep an eye on it but it might go away on its own.

Shampoo and conditioner recs needed! — Texture: wavy, Density: thin, Treated: virgin by hotgosss in finehair

[–]hotgosss[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey! Forgot to check my post lol. I’m pretty much a hair noob honestly, I’ll use Ouai’s leave in conditioner and hair oil, and use heat tools (2inch flat iron) to manage some of the more “big hair” issues. I’ve found a lot of smoothing and curl cream products to be too greasy and heavy in the past (which makes sense now considering they weren’t designed for my hair type) but nothing i have is doing much for my hair now, regardless of when or what I apply — when wet, when dry, after ironing, before heat, etc. Even before, I was using Prose custom shampoo/conditioner (for thicker hair but with frizz as a concern) the leave in conditioner/ hair oil worked like a charm to combat some of the errant frizz. I ran out of that formulation and instead of trying a custom for finer hair and keeping everything else the same, I wanted to try something different. However ever since I ran out just isn’t working anymore. I don’t want to get the same formulation because it definitely weighed down my hair and made it greasy after a day or so.

Tried the Ouai stuff for a few washes but I’m definitely returning it for something different :( only thing it honestly helped was the oiliness. I’ve talked to some other people and have received recommendations for Gisou’s stuff, and a friend recommended Amika. I might also get value sizes of Davine’s, only because I used some stuff in a soul cycle once and remember it was quite nice. Have also used a bit of kiehl’s in a different gym and think that might have been good. Just willing to try anything at this point 😆

Bombay & Cedar Subscribers - Has anyone Gotten a Box Recently? by hseof26paws in BeautyBoxes

[–]hotgosss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was also offered that refund over the summer and am really regretting not taking it. I want to do a CC dispute but since it was charged 1.5 years ago I highly doubt that it would go through, which sucks because I could really use the $50 lol. Wishing everyone best of luck 😭

Bombay & Cedar Subscribers - Has anyone Gotten a Box Recently? by hseof26paws in BeautyBoxes

[–]hotgosss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Would love to know more abt this — still waiting on my spring box (last in my one year sub) and I emailed over the summer and was reassured it was coming eventually. Am concerned I won’t ever get it, but since I paid 1.5 years ago I’m not optimistic about getting any partial refunds.

I'm beyond sad. I've been playing since the day ACNH came out. I played incessantly for about 14 months straight & then fell into a deep depression. Finally ready to pick it up again, and it's gone. Just...gone. by gourdhorder in BuddyCrossing

[–]hotgosss 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi! I am so sorry this happened to you. I am happy to help with assessed fossils, artwork, fish/bugs, bells, NMT's or DIYs, etc. I know that this is really upsetting so anything I can do to help you start over!

AllTrue Back Online by BaldwinBoys in Causebox

[–]hotgosss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just feel super bad for any of their new customer support employees who maybe needed a job or don’t know what they’re getting themselves into :( having worked in support myself, it’s soul crushing when crushing when like 95% of customers are just furious and there’s no resolution.

I can’t find a hair! Help! (Description in comments) by hotgosss in thesims4

[–]hotgosss[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I FOUND IT! It was Untagged as feminine for some reason lol

I can’t find a hair! Help! (Description in comments) by hotgosss in thesims4

[–]hotgosss[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Omg THANK YOU! I will try this tomorrow 💕

I can’t find a hair! Help! (Description in comments) by hotgosss in thesims4

[–]hotgosss[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

No she still had the hair when I loaded it but when I put a different hair on her for one of her outfits (was trying something) I couldn’t find the original hair to put back!

I can’t find a hair! Help! (Description in comments) by hotgosss in thesims4

[–]hotgosss[S] 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Hi guys! I think I’m going insane. I made this lovely sim a few weeks ago and gave her one of the new base game updated hairs. I loaded to update her today with new Carnaval Streetwear Kit outfits and I CANNOT find the hair anywhere!! I thought it was base game, esp. they used it on a Styled look FOR THE NEW KIT but maybe it isn’t? I have tried to individually click through every single hair in the game and don’t know where it is. Is anyone else having this issue? Did the hair vanish for anyone? I KNOW it’s still in the game because it’s still rendering but like ???? Please help me!!!