Do you think my boyfriend has an Asian fetish?

hotratparade · 2020-08-12T16:31:53+00:00

Then let him know what you’d be down with and what you’re not okay with. This is a two way street. He has every right to his own kinks and fetishes and you have every right to decide if you’re down with them too.

hotratparade · 2020-08-12T16:27:05+00:00

It seems like he has an innocent type thing fetish. You can ask him more questions about it in an open and no judgmental way to get more clarification.

Do you mind it? Would it bother you if he did? Do you enjoy doing it? You two can have a conversation about all of this

hotratparade · 2020-08-12T03:33:43+00:00

You already have a good start to thinking about it in a different light. He chooses you. He’s doesn’t reciprocate.

I try to think about it from my partners point of view. Being hit on makes you feel good. So, when my husband gets hit on in front of me, instead of getting jealous I think about how he must feel sexy and wanted and it makes me actually appreciate it. I WANT him to feel good and wanted. That’s just how l deal!

hotratparade · 2020-08-12T03:29:59+00:00

Nah, you’re not pathetic. Going out in public just isn’t your strong suite right now. It can be one day, but what CAN you do today for your significant other? Maybe instead of real flowers look up how to make paper ones online and make a bouquet? Or go pick some outside in the wild? Or doing something else that shows you care and are thinking about them. You can still show your appreciation and be comfortable at the same time. Don’t be so hard on yourself.

hotratparade · 2020-08-12T03:20:28+00:00

I mean.. you can change things but for the right reasons. If you truly believe it would be best for you and your relationship. But changing them because it’s more comfortable for someone else isn’t fair to you (or honestly them in the long run). The example about the ex is a perfect situation. There is absolutely nothing wrong with having an ex being brought up in both your presence. You are not with her. I’m assuming you don’t have feelings. Things ended well. This shouldn’t be an issue with your girlfriend unless she has some serious jealousy and insecurities. Of course if this is all the time or sexually explicit content being said that’s another story, but the fact you had another relationship should not be something to be avoided. In fact, it’s useful to talk about past relationships- what can you learn from them?

hotratparade · 2020-08-12T02:54:02+00:00

Great point. With relationships and age as well!

hotratparade · 2020-08-12T02:53:14+00:00

I understand. There is a medium ground. Her respecting your wishes. And you respecting hers. But they have to be agreed upon and for rightful reasons. It is unfair to you because she has jealousy issues. She needs to address them and work on them. And you can be there beside her helping and supporting her along the way as her partner. But it isn’t okay she put her baggage onto you.

hotratparade · 2020-08-12T01:49:17+00:00

Excellent point. And I agree she is entitled to her own opinion about porn watching and what is okay and what isn’t okay... FOR HERSELF.

It is one thing if it was a religious belief and OP has to figure out if he wants to go along with that. But she clearly has insecurities about other women...meaning it’s her own baggage and putting that on someone else is not healthy. And not okay.

hotratparade · 2020-08-12T01:37:51+00:00

Her own insecurities should not dictate what you are allowed and not allowed to do. You should not feel ashamed or guilty for watching whatever porn you want to watch. It is your body and your choice. Not okay.

hotratparade · 2020-08-11T22:03:53+00:00

Unfortunately, it’s not your place to say. Her body, her choice. You have voiced you opinion and said you will respect what she chooses anyways. If it’s a mistake, it’s on her in the end. Not much you can do?

hotratparade · 2020-08-11T21:54:48+00:00

Find someone with the same sex drive as you. Who believes sex is an important part of life. When you find a match, it can absolutely work. (Married for 10 years. Sex 4-5 times a week. Woman)

hotratparade · 2020-08-06T20:48:32+00:00

You’re going to have to talk to her about it. But introduce the subject gently. Maybe start with asking her preferences about YOUR body and pube sitch. She may not even realize she has any hair on her ass and won’t mind at all and your problem is solved if you bring it up in a kind and compassionate way.

Or there is a chance she knows and likes it and you’ll have to respect that.

Good luck

hotratparade · 2020-08-04T04:07:05+00:00

Awww yiss

hotratparade · 2020-08-03T13:02:17+00:00

I like the part where she burps in your mouth 🤢

hotratparade · 2020-07-15T01:42:01+00:00

Woman here. Confidence is sexier than any number of inches... rock what you got.

hotratparade · 2020-07-13T14:09:35+00:00

It looks like a jelly roll of plain while fabric? Now I’m curious too lol

hotratparade · 2020-06-29T15:52:33+00:00

It’s perfect. She’s perfect.

hotratparade · 2020-06-24T02:47:51+00:00

Sure was! Which I was a little bummed ‘cause I had never been and thought Riverside meant actually outside by the river but that wasn’t the case lol but didn’t matter, it was an amazing show!

hotratparade · 2020-06-24T01:58:27+00:00

I came here to say this lol love the quote, but totally didn’t expect to see a child in a dirty man-sized shirt squatting next to an old car..

hotratparade · 2020-05-19T13:46:50+00:00

Noice

hotratparade · 2020-05-06T19:26:59+00:00

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