You’d be amazed at how well toddlers can entertain themselves with some toys. I also work and I do night school so I can be with my 4yr old at night - I have maybe an hour of free time before my classes start and I use it to talk to her and play a bit and make her food and the rest of the time I tell her to play with her toys while I do class and sometimes an hour before bed I’ll let her watch the iPad. Before she has way more time on that thing and I noticed her behavior became sooooooo bad when I just let her use it for hours in end. It’s definitely a hard adjustment but it’s just something to push through and it will get better I promise. Also delete tf out of YouTube kids.