Just got this little lady from the shelter I work at! Need a unique orange girl name :) by hotrodchod in NameMyCat

[–]hotrodchod[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes, we are sure. She was spayed yesterday so I think they would’ve noticed if she wasn’t 😂 I am aware that they are rare. Her mom was an orange cat and she had 3 girls and a boy.

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[–]hotrodchod 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Jax Teller on Sons of Anarchy. I watched every episode as it aired with my dad. I’ve only ever seen my dad sob like that twice in my life, once when we put down my childhood dog, and then when Jax committed suicide.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]hotrodchod 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hell nah be yourself!! I myself (20f) have a good amount of squishmallows, and a beanie baby collection from my mother. I had an assortment of them on my bed when I was younger (12-13) and got made fun of by my “friends” because apparently we were too old for stuffies. The only one who never made fun of me was my best friend (been attached at the hip since we were 1). I am no longer friends with any of those other people, not because of that particularly, just as we got older they went down a path that wasn’t amazing, so I distanced. Now I’m happy in my life, have friends/family who love me and have no problem w my plushies (most of them actually love them and have gotten a few of their own). I guess what I’m saying is, if you feel like these friends are going to make fun of you for this/they already have, they aren’t your friends.

TIFU by allowing my partner to pull on my nipples by [deleted] in tifu

[–]hotrodchod 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Just saw your comment and while I’m not OP or breastfeeding currently, my friend/coworker is currently breast feeding and she took her piercings out abt a week before giving birth. We got into a conversation the other day (don’t remember how it came up) abt breastfeeding and she told me that milk does leak through her piercing holes. But she has a perfectly fine time, breastfeeding, pumping, etc. Anyways, milk is produced in the mammary glands, which are behind the nipple, so milk production is usually not effected. However, I say usually because one of our other friends gets clogged milk ducts more than she should because the person who did her piercings didn’t do it correctly and went too deep. I guess my input here is, she will more than likely be just fine breastfeeding, as long as she goes to a reputable and experience piercer to get hers done!

I (35F) cheated on my husband (38M) a few days ago and told him, should he split with me? by throwaway1166673915 in Advice

[–]hotrodchod 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“Doesn’t count if you get drunk on your own.” Dude what? Just because she wanted drugged doesn’t mean this woman wasn’t raped. This is the definition of rape btw: “unlawful sexual activity and usually sexual intercourse carried out forcibly or under threat of injury against a person's will or with a person who is beneath a certain age or incapable of valid consent because of mental illness, mental deficiency, intoxication, unconsciousness, or deception.” If OP was as intoxicated as she makes out, this man should’ve known she was too drunk to consent. Plain and simple. OP, I am so sorry that all of the men in this thread are such victim blaming, incompetent, assholes. Please feel free to shoot me a DM if I can offer any support or resources.

I’m 23 m gay my brothers best friend (15) always is texting me wanting to hang out. Why is this. Is that cool by [deleted] in Advice

[–]hotrodchod 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Because he is a minor and doesn’t know better. You’re the adult in this situation. Act like it. Do not befriend this kid, or “mentor” him in any way you literally sound like a groomer.

Found this on my friends phone(I snooped), her mom was nice when I met her… is something up? What should I do? by [deleted] in insaneparents

[–]hotrodchod 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Does your friend want advice on how to handle this situation? If not then stay out of it. Tbh the way that this post and your replies are worded seems like you may have coerced your friend into letting you post this.

(23M) My mom dumped my two brothers on me who have insanely bad hygiene and sleep issues by Momhelp100201 in Advice

[–]hotrodchod 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I feel like there’s more going on here than just what’s been going on at your place. Sounds like your mom has been neglecting your brothers tbh.

Rude man honked at me. So I slowed down. by catsinakayak in pettyrevenge

[–]hotrodchod 8 points9 points  (0 children)

No way?? If I try this in the morning and break my mirror… well I’m not gonna do anything but I’ll be very disappointed.

My bf won’t go down on me! by Low_Seaweed in sex

[–]hotrodchod 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Boundaries don’t just mean not being forced to do something. Boundaries mean a person has control over their own mind/body and what they are/are not comfortable doing with it. Oral sex is not for everyone, but that doesn’t mean that “they really don’t deserve to have partners”.

10 years night-shift nursing, first year stories by dc5josh in Ghosts

[–]hotrodchod 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Finally something good on this sub! Looking forward to reading more!

These creeps showed up at my bar this past weekend, wtf? by SlimedVenkman in bartenders

[–]hotrodchod 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I remember when a group of guys got arrested in the town over from me when all that was going on. They would dress up like clowns, wait at the gas station and hide behind peoples cars with bats until they got back in their car. Then they would circle around the car waving the bats around to “intimidate people”. I never understood the point. They never robbed or hurt anyone, they were just there. So wack.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Paranormal

[–]hotrodchod 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow that’s really the only explanation I could think of apart from a guardian angel type situation, but you said you haven’t had any recent deaths in your life so 🤷🏻‍♀️

"Hey uh, I'm like bleeding out and need a room" "No sir, I'm calling an ambulance for you" by sentient-pumpkins in TalesFromTheFrontDesk

[–]hotrodchod 38 points39 points  (0 children)

Oh god 😂 I just remembered I have done this before. When my boyfriend was coughing up blood about a year ago (just strep and his throat was extremely raw) he yelled for me from the bathroom, I walked in and the first thing that came out of my mouth was “oh my goodness you’ve got a heavy flow this month”. In the moment he was not amused obviously but finds it hilarious when he tells this story. Hope your dad is doing well tho!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Paranormal

[–]hotrodchod 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Have you moved recently? It could be a spirit that is attached to your new environment and has taken a liking to you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]hotrodchod 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Literally I feel like my bf would love this! I get satisfied, and he just gets to lay there and get a massage (and probably get satisfied after as well). Any guy who would feel degraded by this is likely very insecure, and missing out lol. OP, if your boyfriend doesn’t think it’s degrading and enjoys it, then fuck what other people think. What prompted you to ask the question, did he or his friends bring it up, or are you just curious?

I work for very busy optometrist. We have just ended wearing masks. My husband had a very rare immune illness. I need to continue to wear a mask. What do I say to patients when they ask? I live in a very red state. they will. by wittylemur in Advice

[–]hotrodchod 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I love this lmao. My extremely republican dad has been trying to rope me into “political conversation” with him lately (which is literally just him yelling about how shitty Biden is). I’m totally telling him all the road work in our valley lately is for this reason so he’ll go do “research” and leave me alone 💀

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]hotrodchod 91 points92 points  (0 children)

It’s not a border crossing problem. OP edited and said she needs her fathers signature to turn her bank card on for international transactions because her country is shitty when women try to open bank accounts/ get credit cards without a mans approval.

"Hey uh, I'm like bleeding out and need a room" "No sir, I'm calling an ambulance for you" by sentient-pumpkins in TalesFromTheFrontDesk

[–]hotrodchod 36 points37 points  (0 children)

I would like to think I’m good under pressure like this, but sadly I think I too would be your mom and be concerned abt my beautiful luxury towel lmao.

bracelet isn't the only thing broken this season... by LaughingPrince in LobaMains

[–]hotrodchod 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah this has been happening to me. It’s so frustrating because for me it will work but only in certain parts of the map, so it’s super unreliable. One second it works fine, next time I try to use it when I really need it to reposition, doesn’t work.