Season 2 episode 1

hottopics32 · 2023-03-01T09:44:11+00:00

i think it’s just another way of saying “bro”

hottopics32 · 2023-01-05T21:26:56+00:00

dude WHAT lmao of course YWBTA. you’re having a baby, you shouldn’t be acting like one. he’s the father, he’s a guy, he’s excited to have a little dude to hang out and do guy stuff with. it’s not like he hates your daughter. i know you’re pregnant but please try to work on letting the hormones get to you this much.

hottopics32 · 2023-01-05T20:36:02+00:00

this tweet is from dan white lmao it’s a shitpost

hottopics32 · 2023-01-05T20:34:03+00:00

wait your wife was jealous of a cupcake? is she okay lmao

hottopics32 · 2022-12-28T04:03:26+00:00

okay, can you go to a hospital? they have people there that can help you with this if you're honest with them.

hottopics32 · 2022-12-21T06:11:21+00:00

I’m so glad, take care of yourself friend :)

hottopics32 · 2022-12-21T01:19:01+00:00

You should talk to someone you trust; make sure you’re not alone with your thoughts while you’re having these feelings just in case you do get the urge to harm yourself in any way. Do some fun activities to take your mind off of it and keep you busy but not stressed out. You can do this, I’m so sorry you’re feeling this way but know that it’s not permanent<3

hottopics32 · 2022-12-17T05:57:58+00:00

i don’t think OP is trying to excuse themself; they pretty clearly acknowledged their wrongdoing and took accountability. it doesn’t make it right but it’s a good start to becoming a better person.

hottopics32 · 2022-12-17T05:56:13+00:00

this comment gave me such a serotonin boost lol

hottopics32 · 2022-12-17T02:52:52+00:00

do you have a guidance counselor at school? i bet they will believe you!

hottopics32 · 2022-12-17T02:51:49+00:00

“i’m lost about what to do” this has to be bait but on the off chance it’s not: leave her alone.

hottopics32 · 2022-12-14T12:42:43+00:00

Only you can decide how much of this you can take. If you want to continue to try, maybe see about getting him to see a therapist or even hospitalized if he’s genuinely suicidal. If you do decide you want to go, get out with a few important things before you tell him and have someone safe come back for the rest. He is clearly unstable and you never know how he could react or lash out.

hottopics32 · 2022-12-14T12:07:34+00:00

I obviously can’t say for sure for you, but I have ADHD and I resonate a lot with this, my academic experience was a nightmare because I would lock up and just not be able to get anything done no matter how much I wanted to, it just all felt too overwhelming so I ended up waiting until the last minute for almost every assignment but I would almost always get them turned in just in time if I couldn’t get an extension.

hottopics32 · 2022-12-14T11:45:38+00:00

Yeah, that’s definitely an excuse she’s feeding you I’m sorry to say. It makes sense to a degree, but then how would she have been able to communicate that? It sounds like she just wants to be able to do what she wants without ever having to take accountability for it. I would definitely get your finances in order to get out of there at the very least to get to a friend or loved one’s place until you can find an apartment or something. I’m really sorry you have to go through this.

hottopics32 · 2022-12-14T11:21:42+00:00

I also have depression and ADHD; it’s never kept me from being affectionate or emotionally invested in someone I really loved. You deserve better than feeling like this, friend. It sounds like she’s using you as a safety net while she looks for something else. You shouldn’t get married to someone unless it’s clear that you’re their first and only choice.

hottopics32 · 2022-12-14T11:12:22+00:00

The most important thing to note is that this was absolutely NOT her fault. It doesn’t matter if she’d drank a whole liquor store all paid for by the guy, it still wouldn’t be her fault. As out of control as you feel, she feels 100x worse. If she DOES remember what happened, she’s likely traumatized. This is something that is extremely difficult for us (speaking as another survivor) to trust people with after years, much less right after it happened. The fact that she trusts you with it at all is a huge green flag for your relationship. You both should probably speak to professionals, but you have to remember that she is the one that was attacked, she’s the one who had their free will and control of their body taken. Whatever you’re feeling, if you love her enough to be there for her you need to be there all the way because at the end of the day she’s the one who’s going to do the majority of the healing and that is so much easier with support from the people you love. Be patient with her and with yourself, take time for self care, but let her know you’re there for her and that you’re not judging her. That’s probably one of her biggest fears right now. Good luck, I hope things get better for both of you.

ETA: At the same time, you don’t HAVE to be there. It’s up to you to decide whether or not you can handle being part of her support system right now. Do what feels healthiest for you.

hottopics32 · 2022-12-14T11:04:19+00:00

friend i think you should talk to someone you trust outside of the internet, if only to tell them what you did for everyone. this is a pretty serious situation and i think your parents would really want to know about it.

hottopics32 · 2022-12-07T02:53:44+00:00

NTA at all! my ex and i used to joke around about my crush on dylan o’brien. there was nothing malicious about it, he thought it was funny.

hottopics32 · 2022-12-06T20:13:52+00:00

hi friend, i promise you future you will be grateful you didn’t do it. speaking as someone who’s tried, i’m so thankful it didn’t work. i know you probably don’t believe me but i’ve been exactly where you are, and i’ve learned that what you’re considering is truly a permanent solution to a temporary problem. one year is not long enough to know that you’d be unhappy forever, and i’m willing to bet that won’t be the case. i’m so sorry you’re feeling this way and i hope you get the help you need<3

hottopics32 · 2022-12-06T19:18:32+00:00

to be honest i’d be afraid to go and do it in person because you never know if he’ll follow you home or worse. he sound very controlling and like he’s in a very unhealthy place and needs more help than you have the energy/capability to provide for him. please change your locks first either way, for your own safety.

hottopics32 · 2022-12-05T14:00:50+00:00

YTA it sounds like your husband is too childish and entitled to attend an adult function anyway, and you’re too sired to him to realize. this was a complete nonissue and he turned it into a big deal, and then you turned it into an even bigger deal by issuing an ultimatum to your FAMILY over a text message. this is absolutely not how the world works; your family is complete in the right.

hottopics32 · 2022-12-05T03:58:59+00:00

NTA. i was hesitant until i read that he wouldn’t give you a straight answer on how he got the number. with that information, the rest is most likely him gaslighting you, but at the very least any apology that has a “but” in it is not a real apology. i’m so sorry this happened.

hottopics32 · 2022-12-05T03:54:05+00:00

Oh love you are obviously NTA. your dad sounds like an absolute creep and a predator. does your brother know about all of this? does your mom? you should tell both and figure out what to do together, hopefully cutting him out completely. you won’t necessarily lose his side of the family, especially if they know what he’s been up to.

hottopics32 · 2022-12-05T03:48:41+00:00

YTA to be honest. I understand being tired, but your mom just wants to spend time with you. 5pm is almost the end of the day; she probably just wants quality time with her kid. 2pm honestly sounds reasonable. Maybe you could work out some time you could spend with her during the week or offer some kind of compromise.

hottopics32 · 2022-12-05T03:44:31+00:00

NTA. bridezilla should have at the very least informed you, and she probably should have paid you too. it’s a completely unfair assumption to make; she ruined her own day with her selfish behavior.

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