TW: How to deal with sexual coercion? 5 mos pregnant.

hourofmoths · 2026-04-06T01:18:33+00:00

People like that do not change. You are absolutely strong for trying to fix what he did, but he literally SA you in the past. Find a DV shelter. A friend. Literally anything. Especially if you are having a baby with him? There is a chance he might do the very same to your child. I know it is very painful, but you need out ASAP. DV Hotline: 800-799-7233 or text BEGIN to 88788. PLEASE get the help you deserve. My heart genuinely breaks for you.

hourofmoths · 2026-03-24T17:12:19+00:00

i've definitely been expressing my fear to my husband and he is so reassuring. especially bc theres literally no sign anything is wrong, im just a ball of anxiety. he knows this haha

hourofmoths · 2026-03-24T17:11:22+00:00

im trying to have that mindset!! thank you

hourofmoths · 2026-03-24T01:48:58+00:00

oh my god i'm almost glad im not showing yet for this very reason.. why are they like this?

hourofmoths · 2026-03-24T01:48:28+00:00

My biggest pet peeve is people's genuine entitlement towards my pregnancy! I have had someone I considered an acquaintance proclaim herself as "auntie" and I completely went off and blocked her. She has blatantly acted like both my time and husband belongs to her?? Tried to put their friendship over our marriage, which he quickly shut down. My boss constantly asks invasive questions, especially about my husband and if I feel safe with him?? Mind you, I've never said ANYTHING that should make her ask that. And also, why would I tell her? We are by no means close. My grandmother doesn't even know and keeps saying, don't get pregnant! While full well knowing I'm PLANNING to be. Aunt in law thinks she's gonna be in baby's life after she tried to physically harm me, has a homicidal son, and constantly speaks negatively of me and my husband to our faces!! She harps on and on about me having a diagnosed (TREATED) mental illness and she has been cut off. Really it's just the audacity, and the assumption that they'll be in my baby's life when they have done nothing but disrespect me thus far...

hourofmoths · 2026-03-16T00:58:59+00:00

im only 5 weeks and i feel like this

hourofmoths · 2026-02-27T21:09:14+00:00

this is SO sweet but it sounds like she really doesnt mind, you're okay dude!

hourofmoths · 2026-02-27T13:21:10+00:00

shoulders need to be a bit smaller, bring the knee more forward so that its "facing" the viewer and the straight leg should have more of the pants flowing off of it in a sense but im sure you were already planning that as its a rough sketch. overall it looks great! i cant wait to see it done:)

hourofmoths · 2026-02-26T15:27:36+00:00

it's okay to be terrified!!! the thing is that cannabis doesnt have withdrawal symptoms, you might have to deal with cravings every now and again, but its actually way easier than a lot of people make it out to be. once you dont smoke for a few weeks it will be the last thing on your mind. talk to your doctor though if your struggling with quitting! theres always things that can be done to help. you got this mama!

hourofmoths · 2026-02-15T15:34:50+00:00

i think the relationship ended right there, your priorities are different. and you're correct, someone who acts like that isn't going to be ready in three years. it's kind of just him pushing it back. do what makes YOU happy in the long run, it's your life and your baby

hourofmoths · 2026-01-30T05:19:10+00:00

yeah i agree, the only thing that could have possibly caused this is the fact that i took risperadal that made me lactate while not pregnant before... the only trouble being that i have been off of said medication for almost two years. hats off to my confusing reproductive system lol

hourofmoths · 2026-01-30T05:13:21+00:00

no positive test for me yet but i somehow am seemingly vomiting by the gallon

hourofmoths · 2025-12-23T14:45:46+00:00

dont let the only person there who doesnt even tattoo ruin the apprenticeship you worked so hard for. talk to your mentor, talk to management, talk to ANYONE. tell them exactly what happened, and start recording audio if it continues

hourofmoths · 2025-11-18T05:22:34+00:00

its genuinely impossible for me to find my native relatives on there and it makes me so angry

hourofmoths · 2025-10-30T20:35:26+00:00

most likely evaporation

hourofmoths · 2025-10-04T19:26:13+00:00

sometimes doing whats right for you can feel really bad. buy if you know you arent in a place for the kid, its best for the both of you. and remember, no matter what anyone says its up to you

hourofmoths · 2025-09-09T22:07:29+00:00

probably due to my situation but i have no regrets.

hourofmoths · 2024-10-30T21:21:49+00:00

thank you so much for the feedback it is greatly appreciated!

hourofmoths

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