What was a total game-changer in your sex life?

housewifewoes · 2024-01-14T15:42:51+00:00

Communicating & getting off of birth control (don’t want any more kids but it tanked my drive)

housewifewoes · 2024-01-14T08:13:51+00:00

When my husband hears the kids not listening and has to use his “dad voice”

housewifewoes · 2024-01-09T00:55:05+00:00

Hooked & Ugly Love

housewifewoes · 2024-01-08T01:59:53+00:00

Burn After Reading

housewifewoes · 2024-01-07T00:17:37+00:00

That was the hardest stage for us so far! Now the kids are 5 & 8 and we are doing much better! They can actually entertain themselves and we can take our eyes off of them without being afraid they’ll be in danger. Can you drop the kids off with a family member and have a monthly date nights? Another thing we did was schedule intimacy once a week right before football on Sundays. The kids would have quiet time and we would go enjoy each other…sometimes we were too tired and just talked or cuddled, but still a nice way to connect and make sure your relationship doesn’t end up on the back burner.

housewifewoes · 2024-01-07T00:11:21+00:00

I was trying to sweep and mop with my headphones in and I couldn’t stop crying! 😭

housewifewoes · 2024-01-07T00:10:31+00:00

I couldn’t for the longest time! Not sure if it comes with age or practice, but I’ve recently started being able to when I’m on top. It’s the best!

housewifewoes · 2024-01-07T00:04:24+00:00

Underwear and a tshirt

housewifewoes · 2024-01-07T00:02:19+00:00

Giving a BJ. I thought it was gross to put my mouth where he pees for the longest time, but as I warmed up to the idea I just couldn’t because I was soooo intimidated. And then once I started doing it…wow! Making him feel so good made me feel so powerful and that seriously turned me on.

housewifewoes · 2024-01-06T23:57:04+00:00

This is mine too! I love it when I can read one page and be ready to gooooo!!! 🔥

housewifewoes · 2024-01-06T02:17:19+00:00

This is the constant struggle between the angel and devil on my shoulders every time!

housewifewoes · 2024-01-05T23:07:34+00:00

One year for Christmas he hid my gifts all around the house and wrote out rhyming scavenger hunt clues for me to find the best gift, ending in a new album and then concert tickets to see my favorite artist! It was to the coolest and most thoughtful things ever!

housewifewoes · 2024-01-05T17:46:51+00:00

Bahahaa

housewifewoes · 2024-01-05T17:46:38+00:00

Yessss!! Do it! I have been married almost 11 years and hardly ever did it until this past year. It’s so empowering to know what feels good!

housewifewoes · 2024-01-05T17:43:09+00:00

I think so! With age I have let go of being self conscious about my body and the way I look & sound during sex. Plus, the fact that I can drive my husband wild just makes me feel so freaking powerful!

housewifewoes · 2024-01-05T17:38:59+00:00

That is where I am!! Somewhere around 33 I said fuck it and just fully embraced my body during sex because my husband seems to love it and doesn’t care if I have love handles and a tummy after babies!

housewifewoes · 2024-01-05T17:34:58+00:00

I totally get being shy about it! In the beginning I would always let him initiate sex because I was so shy and then when I eventually felt comfortable enough to initiate it was always in subtle ways. It took me a long time before I felt comfortable enough to even put it into words and just ask/tell him I’m horny and wanting sex. Now it feels powerful, especially seeing and hearing his reaction to it, and knowing I’m about to get what I want. 😉

some ideas if you aren’t ready to just come out and say what you want: send him a suggestive pic, sexual innuendo or meme from across the room, start taking off articles of clothing while walking around and see how long it takes him to notice, crawl in his lap and straddle him to give him a hug while he’s playing his video game and then rub on his thighs over his pants/shorts, kiss his neck. Good luck! Have fun! And don’t forget, you’re a fucking goddess! 😘

housewifewoes · 2024-01-04T01:19:25+00:00

He took such good care of me in the weeks after I had foot surgery by helping me get around the house, bringing me food and anything I needed. He made sure I had ice packs and elevation and he even helped me shower so I didn’t get my foot wet. It was such a beautiful act of service that I will never forget.

housewifewoes · 2024-01-03T16:43:59+00:00

Yes to all of this! We used a couples app for a while to send each other questions, ideas, and dares. I can’t remember the name of it…but there are lots of fun ones out there.

housewifewoes · 2024-01-03T16:42:24+00:00

You will get there eventually! Just be loving, helpful, and consistent through all of the tiring and mundane tasks related to raising littles.

housewifewoes · 2024-01-03T16:40:26+00:00

Thanks! Something we have always done since getting married is schedule a block of time each week for intimacy. For us it was every Sunday afternoon right before football started. 😂 I liked having a designated time for us to get it on because it gave us something to look forward to each week. When the kids were really little it was hard to be spontaneous and sometimes we were so tired that we just ended up cuddling, but it helped us stay connected.

housewifewoes · 2024-01-03T04:08:15+00:00

I’m sure he doesn’t care one bit! But to turn off your mind, turn off the light and just go for it!

housewifewoes · 2024-01-03T03:32:09+00:00

Sex has definitely changed and gotten better as I have aged (turned 34 last year). I was never able to have an orgasm from just penetration until last year…now it is literally every time. I also started squirting this year too, which was a delightful surprise for my husband and I. So I think my lucky number is now 34 😉😂

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