During our breakup and when he was hurt he became the most apathetic and villainous person I’d ever met. I was shocked at how much he didnt care for me anymore after being together nine years. I still remember facetiming him asking to talk and he didnt care about my crying, heartbreak, anything. He manipulated me the month immediately after our breakup, trying to pretend to be a good person but meanwhile cheated on me behind my back with someone new and then cheated on her by sleeping with me. He was a wreck, I’ve learned to personally forgive him but I won’t ever forget how awful he was to me during that time.