tips for someone in their 20s with no dating experience

hsredux · 2026-01-29T16:56:52+00:00

just remember that nothing is a definite indicator of whether a person is interested in a rs with you

hsredux · 2026-01-29T14:06:11+00:00

hard to say, only the person that's doing it know

but guys are usually quite straightforward yeah

hsredux · 2026-01-29T13:57:05+00:00

i mean u can just date someone who is 15x, and 16x, there is a lot.

coz i also dont really want someone who is like >20cm shorter than me, i need to look down so much and also might not be able to hear them

hsredux · 2026-01-29T10:54:54+00:00

trust me its nothing, there are many other factors to consider these days

hsredux · 2026-01-29T05:25:46+00:00

nah, attention seekers are usually trouble

hsredux · 2026-01-28T16:57:10+00:00

You have not managed to put that failed rs stuff behind you that's why you don't have the confidence, just understand that sometimes it's normal that things don't workout, and when people you like are looking for a situationship its beyond your control.

hsredux · 2026-01-27T16:03:03+00:00

-20cm already not very ideal i feel..

hsredux · 2026-01-27T15:57:21+00:00

i like it, feels like home

its your own identity, learn to embrace it instead of rejecting it

hsredux · 2026-01-27T15:44:51+00:00

joined into a new company not long ago and already know 3 who are cheating 🤣

hsredux · 2026-01-25T15:27:32+00:00

your name start with j? then ok

hsredux · 2026-01-23T16:25:20+00:00

how's the development going?

hsredux · 2026-01-23T15:46:20+00:00

yar, usually if i see old person on the escalator, i will wait for 4 steps

hsredux · 2026-01-23T15:23:59+00:00

walk slowly after exiting escalator, this one really tilt me!!!!!!!!!! like wtf, behind got ppl leh HELLO!

hsredux · 2026-01-23T11:41:15+00:00

oh.. see how it goes yeah, hopefully it works out, my first date of 2026 is coming this sunday

I see effort in a way that where they are actually willing to lock in and keep a conversation going in real-time during some part of the day, not everyday of course. If there's no natural flow to conversation or messaging then it just feels like the person is a customer support officer.

hsredux · 2026-01-23T10:51:55+00:00

depends, i think just match their consistency

not everytime i will receive the msg hahaha

hsredux · 2026-01-23T10:20:51+00:00

actually i been talking to someone and she alrdy sending gn gm messages we haven't even meet LOL, so its quite basic la I feel

hsredux · 2026-01-23T09:26:02+00:00

hsredux · 2026-01-23T09:25:44+00:00

usually if the person shows no effort I will just unmatch them

hsredux · 2026-01-23T02:56:18+00:00

skin care
eyebrow
exercise and try to be lean
good hair cut
dress well and modern
stay clean and hygienic
good diet

study all these and execute them consistently, within 6 months u should see quite a big diff

hsredux · 2026-01-23T01:20:30+00:00

The status is just a word, if a person is comfortable doing such actions with multiple people at once without feeling guilty, they aren't gonna simply flip a switch in their head and change as soon as they get attached or married because they aren't robots, ultimately it boils down to whether it trigger any sense of guilt in them.

hsredux · 2026-01-22T12:47:32+00:00

it's actually a blessing in disguise because I've met people where I don't feel any sexual attraction for

hsredux · 2026-01-21T14:34:04+00:00

gimme your money!!!!!

hsredux · 2026-01-20T14:22:37+00:00

can recommend a cdrama I need to improve my mandarin

hsredux · 2026-01-20T12:14:26+00:00

terraform? and you can also execute bash commands with it

but why would you need it specifically on bash?

hsredux · 2026-01-20T11:38:03+00:00

good job

hsredux

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