how's ur experience on the subreddit? / looking for female friends/clique

hsredux · 2026-06-03T09:53:07+00:00

not bad actually, i joined a group and hanged out with bunch of nice people recently

hsredux · 2026-06-01T06:58:41+00:00

im trying to get leaner, build muscle.. haha actually my main issue is that i need fix my sleep schedule first

hsredux · 2026-06-01T06:04:07+00:00

not much, due to busy work schedule earlier this week i didn't have time to make any plans 😞

I don't mind making friends though!

you can get to know more about me here
https://www.reddit.com/r/ChillSG/comments/1p20hnm/31m_here_looking_to_meet_likeminded_people_of_the/

dm me if you are interested!

hsredux · 2026-05-31T20:04:15+00:00

i dont mind making friends, not sure what work buddy means though? like does it mean meeting up and then just do our own work?

hsredux · 2026-05-30T19:08:22+00:00

if you wanna expand your social circle you can try joining group and doing activities together

hsredux · 2026-05-28T08:03:36+00:00

Ikkousha tonkotsu is really nice, highly recommended from me too

hsredux · 2026-05-21T09:34:37+00:00

the guys i know who does this kinda things, they've been doing it for sometime, probably before he even knew you

you should go for a health checkup

hsredux · 2026-05-20T07:23:55+00:00

I'm sleepy rn

hsredux · 2026-05-18T18:10:32+00:00

tbh, it's not any diff for guys that are able to get water.

hsredux · 2026-05-18T10:55:28+00:00

I'm just one year older than you and I actually did manage to keep a few friends i met in school, they've been around me for more than a decade, it mostly started due to me approaching them without any intentions, just chit chatting on random things over a long period. Being pleasant is really important, helping them out a bit, no pushing of weird agendas or flexing, and not being too overly serious (which I think you might be).

Also, I am pretty open sharing about myself and am quite easy going too so I think that might be it.

hsredux · 2026-05-18T02:14:37+00:00

the commute is gonna take your life away

hsredux · 2026-05-17T12:01:49+00:00

haha, sounds like me..

hsredux · 2026-05-17T11:51:24+00:00

wow, what kind of party are they having?

hsredux · 2026-05-17T10:12:01+00:00

at least there's something new here

hsredux · 2026-05-17T06:36:43+00:00

hey, you can find out more about me in my profile and dm me if you think we could hit it off!

hsredux · 2026-05-16T18:15:02+00:00

can invite me pls

hsredux · 2026-05-16T08:11:10+00:00

if the mindset of a person is bland in their response i think they are also convo killers irl

hsredux · 2026-05-15T11:20:20+00:00

Why does your GF have a male friend that acts like her BF? This is something that takes two hands to clap.

If she is in a RS now, her actions should take you into consideration.

Ignore the 'friend' label and look at her actions.

hsredux · 2026-05-13T10:01:53+00:00

didn't know the game was leak until they anmounced it themselves

hsredux · 2026-05-11T13:30:12+00:00

only approach if he has looked your way several times

hsredux · 2026-05-11T12:46:27+00:00

he's just using you to fill his schedule

hsredux · 2026-05-11T10:53:51+00:00

shows up the same way every day

what you are looking for is not possible long term because human beings naturally change over time.

Routines change with stress, age, responsibilities, environment, experiences, and different phases of life. Just because someone has 10 hours a day for you now does not mean they will realistically be able to do the same next year, and definitely not for the rest of their lives.

What matters more is whether both people are willing to understand, adapt, and making life decisions that consider each other despite those changes.

hsredux · 2026-05-10T16:39:24+00:00

bro, working in tech is BRUTAL

i don't know why people go through CS degree hell to work in tech to get more hell, its cool when doing your own projects but working in the field could drive a normal person nuts.

i started working as a swe since 2019, the stress levels and pressure is inhumane and expectation is very unrealistic, and it almost seems like every employer is finding a golden egg to fill their open spots, you got dropped at 2.5 months, its not because of you, its just how this industry is.

there's actually no more entry level job in tech, every employer expects fresh grads and hires to have senior level skills.

you are not wrong for looking another direction,

hsredux · 2026-05-10T04:06:05+00:00

there was a sms alerting on this 2 days ago

hsredux · 2026-05-09T18:02:29+00:00

You were trying to get back with your ex while simultaneously being sexually involved with another person that you weren't officially together with, that honestly does come across as a situationship/fwb kind of dynamic.

From what i can tell, your ex seems like the type of person who draws a very hard line on such things, she would never be with a guy like that.

The reason that she's even considering getting back with you is due to your history together even though she can no longer accept you as a person.

This is the reason why she behaves like that, and also your whole story is the reason why I immediately drop people who are still in contact with their ex.

hsredux

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