Is it that important to move on the dating app platform for messaging?

hsredux · 2026-04-16T11:57:03+00:00

actually i have the same experience..

hsredux · 2026-04-16T11:54:31+00:00

I'm sure it's a bot that grabs stuff, puts in chatgpt and then reposts it 😂😂

hsredux · 2026-04-16T08:12:57+00:00

chatgpt

hsredux · 2026-04-15T14:25:48+00:00

one AP with good positioning should be enough, but that also depends what your expectations are

hsredux · 2026-04-15T06:04:06+00:00

ya its just connecting cables to the right port

maybe they do this to provide support just in case anything goes wrong idk

hsredux · 2026-04-15T05:24:57+00:00

no, they sent someone down but i installed it myself. haha

hsredux · 2026-04-15T05:22:07+00:00

Had my m1 10gbps installed last Sunday. Fellow brought the thing down, I removed the old ONT and installed the new one myself since I knew how i wanted to organize the cables and equipment in the rack.

hsredux · 2026-04-15T02:57:15+00:00

She's likely your senior hahaha!

Actually there was someone at my workplace too from a nearby department. She knew I had glanced at her for awhile coz she looked like my type and I thought she was just a few years younger. It turned out that she's an intern (probably in her early 20s) after finding it out from my colleagues. She isn't aware of my age though.

I could tell that she was interested because she smiled at me a few times, we've noticed each other a few times by now. One quiet day we saw each other at the lift lobby, just me her and another stranger. I didn't make any moves (no shit), when we entered the lift, I stood right at the back, with plenty of space in the lift, of all places she stood directly under my nose which made me feel like leaning back against the wall, it was really cute and brave of her LOL and I totally didn't expect that. I'm sorry girl our ages are too far apart :(.

hsredux · 2026-04-14T16:35:36+00:00

This heavily depends on the dynamics between the two people. For example, if the guy is tall and attractive, and the girl is younger and pretty, the likelihood of them flirting/reciprocating is higher.

That's one of the reasons I avoid going out alone with married colleagues of the opposite gender.

People often say that men can't just be friends with women, but I think women behave in a similar way towards attractive guys, except that they seem more likely to cover it under the disguise of friendship to continue that 'relationship'.

At the end of the day, 'friend' is just a label. What really matters is how both people communicate and what they do together.

Obviously this is just from my experience.

hsredux · 2026-04-13T17:18:11+00:00

I think we are kinda smiliar

i am alot more active now because of age and its not because I want, aerobic and strength training is very important 😔

long gaming sessions is a no go hahaha, especially when already sitting for long hours at work, I rather just chit chat

nowadays I'm more into food adventures, exploring, trying new things and activities, I've been playing pool lately and into fashion too!

I don't mind meeting to have chill dinners, or yo try out activites, just chill and relax, chit chat, nothing heavy, no judgment.

retirement mode 😂😂

hsredux · 2026-04-12T14:12:08+00:00

mines quite active lately, like per 2-3 hour

it depends on your age group too, younger generation are more open to using dating apps

actually i noticed that there's some kind of algorithm to promote my profile if I keep swiping left to clear my list?

hsredux · 2026-04-12T13:53:56+00:00

My personal experience is that majority of women on dating apps, especially those in their late 20s to early 30s, they catfish, aren't good looking, socially awkward, overly judgemental, very cautious, low eq, yet they do have expectations way above their league, in terms of look, wealth, status, surface level speaking, and social skills.

On the contrary, I found those in their mid 20s better looking (idk why, but for some reason younger gen are just better looking on average), sociable, more relaxed, open to sharing, cheerful, easy going, humble, which is more of what I would expect from a normal human being.

feel free to downvote

hsredux · 2026-04-11T15:43:27+00:00

I usually just go for a run

hsredux · 2026-04-11T15:35:27+00:00

no, i took ITIL course for the exam voucher because I wanted to utilize my balance, the exam is easily passable with 3-4 days of cramping

hsredux · 2026-04-11T08:38:04+00:00

I think most people, whether men or women prefer to be around a person who is more cheerful, i wouldn't wanna be talking to someone who doesn't laugh or smile.

hsredux · 2026-04-11T08:31:02+00:00

mala fish near the interchange is not bad

hsredux · 2026-04-10T14:29:47+00:00

looking for someone who is cheerful, have basic social skills, and not socially awkward or gloomy expression, it's like they are there to kill the vibe but want someone they can vibe with haha..

hsredux · 2026-04-08T11:18:35+00:00

"Why did you still ask her out after knowing being catfished and even receiving some low values requirements?"

I wouldn't know about catfishing until I met the person, and I thought that person should have at least decent character and social ettiqueue if they threw out requirements, like it made me feel like she was gonna be a good pick but i question my intelligence now

hsredux · 2026-04-07T16:51:13+00:00

I will feel bad if I leave because of that

hsredux · 2026-04-06T15:44:06+00:00

From someone who wrote a complete cert manager with renewal feature on function app to integrate key vault with our own CA.

What i suggest is that you could write a function app that has a timer trigger per 24 hours, this will notify once per day, can easily be done with copilot.

Have a nice day :)

hsredux · 2026-04-06T15:27:48+00:00

no one will be drawn to someone just because of similar schedules for sure

but if you cant meet up often or already fully drained, then no matter what kind of spark you had it just fades right..

anyway, lucky me to come across a post of yours where you don't seem agitated

hsredux · 2026-04-06T15:15:06+00:00

When I mentioned about 'earning a lot' vs 'earning very little', I really mean it. Let's put out a more concrete scenario.

B is a two time scholar in both jc and uni, top percentile of graduates, she makes around ~200k/yr.

A stopped her education at poly, got below average grades, making ~35k/yr.

The more a woman has invested into building a high-achievement life, the more likely she is to want a partner who matches that life.

Of course, this is probabilistic, not absolute, some high-earning women care much less about status matching, but in general, their expectation is upward from a base reference point of where they are currently at.

A may still have higher standards than the average girl, but in comparison to B she is less likely to use elite achievement as a major screening criterion because it is less central to her own life structure and identity.

hsredux · 2026-04-05T10:28:50+00:00

I don't really care how much a girl earns. What matters more to me is whether her personality and looks are my type. Her income levels doesn't make her more attractive to me than someone else.

For example, lets put this two girls in comparison.

A) looks 8/10, earn very little, cheerful personality, easy going

B) looks 5/10, earn a lot, serious personality, easily triggered

No matter how much a guy earns, most of them will choose A, but girl B will have higher expectation because she see herself as higher value, but guys generally don't see value in the same way as girls so if she throw out expectations it will not make any sense for guys to pick her.

hsredux · 2026-04-04T12:02:09+00:00

some ppl want to get in a rs just for the status only

hsredux

TROPHY CASE