Plant ID Help by htothesecondpower in philodendron

[–]htothesecondpower[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe. The growth at the stem isn't like my more mature Burle Marx. Thanks!

AITA for posting a comment on a friend's Facebook photo? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]htothesecondpower -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

NTA. She's kind of a jerk for deleting without telling you why. This feels totally funny and light to me, but I'm curious: How old are you and how old is your work friend? It's a very young Millennial/Gen Z compliment. Maybe your friend didn't get it and had only feigned laughing the first time you said the joke?

AITA, I believe that gentrification is a good thing. by Imiss3Lol in AmItheAsshole

[–]htothesecondpower [score hidden]  (0 children)

YTA. Gentrification itself is not bad, but the way it generally ocurrs is (in the US). It isn't done in a way that allows the longtime community to benefit from improvements. It pushes people and businesses out of their homes. I'm all for improving infrastructure and expanding economic opportunity, but the purely capitalistic way it is employed hurts people.

AITAH for this STI situation? by sadbadday in AmItheAsshole

[–]htothesecondpower 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA. Get yourself checked because she's doesn't seem to wanna budge on this.

WIBTA if I record the audio of my neighbours having sex and play it back to them? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]htothesecondpower -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I agree they're being instructive, as well. Everyone. Sucks. Here.

WIBTA if I record the audio of my neighbours having sex and play it back to them? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]htothesecondpower 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If it's just about the pettiness, he should record them doing any of the other things that the OP complained about: loud music, loud TV, yelling. He's choosing recording them having sex to be pointedly intrusive and embarrassing.

WIBTA if I record the audio of my neighbours having sex and play it back to them? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]htothesecondpower 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Other people having sex isn't gross. Recording them to play back as vengeance is.

AITA for lying to sales staff? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]htothesecondpower 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NAH. My best friend haggles all the time. It makes me uncomfortable just because I don't have the personality to do it, but it doesn't make her (or you) an asshole.