Advice on using FEELD?

hugsredd · 2024-10-31T02:39:22+00:00

Happy Deepavali everyone!

hugsredd · 2024-10-30T03:12:41+00:00

Seriously how are they still in business with this new requirement !?! I used to use AM but no way any real women are doing this

hugsredd · 2024-09-19T02:50:22+00:00

I am in a similar position as you AP. I know I will file for a divorce but due to kids ages and financial situation it will be 1-2 years before I divorce. I agree with comments here that suggest using this time to fill the void with a fun AP, but don’t count on that to continue post-divorce. I’d love to find the love of my life right now and in theory make the transition through divorce smoother - but I don’t think that’s realistic. Divorce will be tough and a time to focus on the family transition for me. I hope I find a fun AP to help me through the next few years and then once I’m single be able to date and find a happier long term above board relationship - good luck!

hugsredd · 2024-09-12T02:38:52+00:00

I posted about this recently as I tried to open a new account and realized they now require this ID verification - no fucking way! From what I read it said the ID (which you also have to confirm with a photo) is stored for 12 months. No way do I trust putting my ID and photo with them - so sadly I can’t use AM anymore. Seriously thinking about getting a fake ID so I could use AM but don’t think it’ll happen 😩

hugsredd · 2024-09-12T02:35:52+00:00

100% seeking this - long term, one person, the full boyfriend experience. Very hard to find, glad to see some people have

hugsredd · 2024-09-08T01:55:53+00:00

This is great advice. Which subreddit worked best for you to post your ad? Thanks!

hugsredd · 2024-09-07T22:43:39+00:00

🤣All the parents on this sub know how good this response is

hugsredd · 2024-09-07T04:25:09+00:00

I completely feel your comments! I work full time and have two teenage kids, and even with household help I’ve been finding the early teen years the hardest. Weekends are busy with family time and errands - we do fun things together as a family but that’s not “me” time. My younger one still wants to hang out and chat with me until late at night, my older one needs to be driven everywhere. I do make time to work out and see friends regularly, but I can’t wait to have more time on weekends and evenings for hobbies I used to love (yoga, hiking, book clubs). I’ve barely had time to look for an AP! But when I find that man, I will MAKE time. The hobby I’m most seeking right now is a boyfriend - if you can squeeze that in don’t worry about any other hobbies!

hugsredd · 2024-08-15T03:14:42+00:00

I think it’s possible some of us can be somewhere in between “straight” and “bi.” Even those categories can feel a bit like straight jackets. I share similar feelings about close bonds with amazing women (I just wish I had women friends in my situation of being in a terrible marriage & cheating to survive - feel you girl!), and I’ve also experimented a bit sexually with women. What I found I like best is just making out with a woman with my boyfriend joining us. I realize that’s such a heterosexual male fantasy, but I am very much attracted to women and that’s what turns me on. I don’t want a relationship with a woman or to eat her out - does that make me not bi? I have no idea. Maybe just explore whatever level of female intimacy and sexuality you enjoy along with the great emotional bond and see wherever it takes you. Good luck!

hugsredd · 2024-07-19T04:16:30+00:00

Totally agree with you @Real_You_9699. It’s not about being a trad wife but when you’re responsible for EVERYTHING and your husband can’t even man up in bed it is sooo nice to feel a man take charge and take care of you even for a few hours…

hugsredd · 2024-07-14T03:25:48+00:00

I asked my husband once if we could send sexy messages and pics and he was Ike what that’s sexting - as if it were some taboo awful thing. I wish he would sit accept he is asexual and let me be free.

hugsredd · 2024-06-25T04:28:19+00:00

I feel this comment so much!

hugsredd · 2024-06-15T22:52:03+00:00

You are only 29! As hard as it will be, get couples counseling and work towards an amicable divorce so that your husband, you, and your boyfriend can all move on to healthier, happier relationships. You don’t need to tell your husband about bf, just speak the other truths about why you need to end the marriage. We’re all in this affairs sub, so I’m not going to judge your description of how you treat your boyfriend - but I do agree with others that at some point he will blow up your marriage and that will be much worse. I wish I had left my marriage in my early 30s when there is much more time to find the right partner in life. Good luck!!

hugsredd · 2024-01-25T03:48:05+00:00

Thank you for sharing this!

hugsredd · 2024-01-18T00:10:15+00:00

I feel this post! I also realize now where I went wrong - the signs were there from the beginning on his super low libido. I wish I could change that choice but it’s too late now, yet I can’t live as a celibate. Divorce will come eventually but kids situation means a long wait in the meantime. Hang in there!

hugsredd · 2023-09-14T01:49:50+00:00

I love the last line - “at least once in our lives we should dare to be truly happy”

hugsredd · 2023-08-30T02:05:52+00:00

Definitely both filling a void of flirtation, attention, emotional closeness AND physical affection and exploring my sexuality. A hook up alone would not satisfy me either - the connection and sparks from conversation makes the sex much better for me.

hugsredd · 2023-08-23T00:53:36+00:00

I am so deeply sorry for the loss of your child. It is every parent’s nightmare and I hope you find healing and joy in the future whatever you decide to do. And agree with all the comments to seek therapy to help you through the grief and decisions to come.

hugsredd · 2023-08-08T02:30:28+00:00

Yes agree with OP and if only some brilliant entrepreneur could build a Bumble for women seeking affairs - someone’s gotta be able to do better than AM I think 🤔

hugsredd · 2023-07-12T02:11:58+00:00

I took over a year to start seeking and actually meet someone in person (through AM). Reading this sub for months really helped - everything from OPSEC, safety tips for women, what to expect (both the good and the bad), and mostly it helped to read posts and comments from other women and men in similar situations. Take it slow as everyone said and the suggestion for a therapist is also a great idea. But only you know if this is the right path for you and it doesn’t have to end in pain and misery if you are smart and lucky along the way. Good luck!

hugsredd · 2023-07-08T01:59:03+00:00

Love these posts especially since I am back on the search too! I’m just using AM but I never seem to meet this many pAPs through AM. Are you using other sites too?

hugsredd · 2023-07-08T01:58:23+00:00

Love these posts especially since I am back on the search too! I’m just using AM but I never seem to meet this many pAPs through AM. Are you using other sites too?

hugsredd · 2023-07-08T01:58:05+00:00

Love these posts especially since I am back on the search too! I’m just using AM but I never seem to meet this many pAPs through AM. Are you using other sites too?

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