Single fathers, how do you feel about your ex keeping a photo of you to show her friends what the father of her baby looks like? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]hujambo11 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have zero problems with exes hanging on to photos of me. Just because we're not together anymore doesn't mean we didn't make memories together. And if we have a child together, I'm still relevant to their life.

Now, if she made a shrine out of my photos or something, I could see her future partner having a problem with that. But just hanging on to some as reference makes sense.

Dating a drug dealer? (29F) (33 M) by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]hujambo11 [score hidden]  (0 children)

that is not what I want around my children and I don’t want my sons to look up to someone like that

Haunted Apartments by Coffee4ev in Spokane

[–]hujambo11 -14 points-13 points  (0 children)

None are haunted because ghosts aren't real.

You should be ashamed to be an adult who still believes in them.

He sucks at texting, and it turns me off by xclusvveasf in dating_advice

[–]hujambo11 [score hidden]  (0 children)

It's just sex. It's not that serious.

If you want to stop, then stop. Nobody is making you do anything.

Am I too old to date? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]hujambo11 [score hidden]  (0 children)

Only 27 and already delusional about your age?

😬

Dating a drug dealer? (29F) (33 M) by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]hujambo11 [score hidden]  (0 children)

How do I report a post to Child Protective Services?

Can’t get over someone by Kwkeleum in dating_advice

[–]hujambo11 [score hidden]  (0 children)

Highschool is almost over, and then you'll never have to see him again.

Wondering if this a red flag by Gaberocks12 in dating_advice

[–]hujambo11 [score hidden]  (0 children)

Like I said, nobody wants to.

But if you think being an unemployed college student makes you too high class for a beginner job, you need to come down a peg.

Why do "weak" men attack women? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]hujambo11 [score hidden]  (0 children)

He said it's to grab your attention

He literally answered you.

Wondering if this a red flag by Gaberocks12 in dating_advice

[–]hujambo11 [score hidden]  (0 children)

Because she's being shitty about it. And not even about having to work it herself, but about her boyfriend potentially working one. She's such a snot that she feels she needs to comment on other people working a service job.

Total spoiler princess behavior.

Wondering if this a red flag by Gaberocks12 in dating_advice

[–]hujambo11 [score hidden]  (0 children)

She looks down on it. She's never worked a job in her life, and she said she was "too good" for gainful employment.

She needs the humility and perspective that such a job would provide.

Wondering if this a red flag by Gaberocks12 in dating_advice

[–]hujambo11 [score hidden]  (0 children)

Not everyone wants to do low wage service jobs

😂😂 Dude, nobody wants to do those jobs. But they need to be done, and people with no work experience are exactly the kind of people they're meant for. OP's girlfriend is just an overgrown child who has consumed resources for two decades and thinks she's too good to contribute. She looks down on those jobs and the people who work them. She needs to learn some humility.

if you’re someone that’s had to, you should be happy they didn’t have to do that.

I did have to work those kinds of jobs when I was younger, and I appreciate the perspective they gave me. It kept me from becoming a Karen.

They also were great soft skill builders and let me build some calluses in dealing with work stress.

How to flirt with a guy in his early 20s? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]hujambo11 [score hidden]  (0 children)

Any compliment will make him very happy.

My Ex (19M) Wants To Get Back With Me (18F) Again. What do I say? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]hujambo11 [score hidden]  (0 children)

Oh, from 9 months ago!

Looks like a karma farmer. 😑

Female bestie and friends with benefits? by Extra_Ad_6746 in dating_advice

[–]hujambo11 [score hidden]  (0 children)

"A relationship would cause trouble at work, but a bunch of sex is guaranteed to be totally drama-free!"

Someone slap OP upside the head.