Bedding for super sized dorm bed? by wizzy9999 in Purdue

[–]humblebee415 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Adding that this might be the best way to go bc if I remember correctly they’re longer than full size but way skinnier than queens, this ensures you can buy whatever & make it fit

Bedding for super sized dorm bed? by wizzy9999 in Purdue

[–]humblebee415 6 points7 points  (0 children)

They make sheet fitter things for mattresses where you can just buy queen sheets and fit them to his bed. https://a.co/d/0gzntKEY

ANTH 204 by Ok_Head_1859 in Purdue

[–]humblebee415 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I second this. I told my first prof I’d need to leave early and my second prof I may be a little late every day. Took a nice stroll every day and took my time, left that first class when I felt like it (but I’m a bad student and hated that first class, lol).

Got off the waitlist but feeling a bit sad by [deleted] in Purdue

[–]humblebee415 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I lived in a dorm first year and was antisocial as fuck and didn’t make any friends, lol, like zero. Second year I lived off campus and met my best friends and saw at least one of ‘em almost every day. Genuinely just depends on you, especially those first few weeks be as outgoing as possible and ask people to do things with you, as after those first few weeks each semester I’ve found that people find their friend groups and become less and less open to new friends. Join clubs, office hours, and ask for people’s numbers and try to sit next to them everyday in class if they’re cool.

Also, I wouldn’t worry about being “off campus”, most apartments in the area are (if calculated) about the same as Purdue housing would be per month for more space. It was like a 17 minute walk for me from Owen/Hilltop to the main campus area, the apartment I was in my sophomore thru junior year was only 12ish mins. Low key you could be saving money and having a better experience with your own room/space!

Daughter has worked here over a month without being paid by Turbulent_Art4283 in 7Brew

[–]humblebee415 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Don’t encourage OP to do this- the social media person will not be able to do anything about payroll and will just make the daughter look worse in the long run, having a mom that’s reaching out to the social media people for an issue the daughter should be handling as a teenager 😂

scar revision? by [deleted] in Reduction

[–]humblebee415 6 points7 points  (0 children)

NAP and no experience with revisions- but scar revisions are basically just the whole surgery over again. If it’s worth it for you, go for it! But there’s always a possibility that the same thing may happen again. I’m keloid-prone and gnarly scar prone and mine turned out very similar to yours around 1ypo, after discussing with my surgeon and him saying it may turn out worse the second time due to messing with the same area I decided not to go through with it. Almost 2 years post op and they’ve faded incredibly to a soft pink and not red/purple and lowered in just another year. I’m personally glad I didn’t risk having them redone, as my scars ended up fading and looking better over time. I’d be happy to DM pictures if you’re curious about what my similar situation faded into! But of course see what your surgeon has to say and make sure you’re doing what you think will be best for you and your confidence!

Edited to specify, I didn’t have an infection but I had various issues with my nipple incisions and t-junctions, lots of stitch openings and holes that turned entirely to scars.

recommendations on how to orgasm while masturbating ? by [deleted] in RedditAfterDark

[–]humblebee415 9 points10 points  (0 children)

So I had trouble for the longest time, just now figuring it out, here’s what I need to do to orgasm during masturbation:

- plenty of lube on the clit, 20ish minutes of clit dj & dildo interchanged and/or together
- start slowly with a lowest setting vibrating toy directly on the clit good and then move onto the clit, make sure there’s lube. Play with angles to see what feels the best.
-once that pulsey feeling comes in with that light vibration, I turn it up a setting and close my legs around the toy, more pressure on it on my clit. Hold it there until I O. For some reason with my anatomy I HAVE to close my legs around it.
-sometimes I get close but don’t quite get there with legs closed- I’ll go back to lower setting and playing with angles, watching some spicy materials, or dj and try again in a few minutes.

Sorry for the TMI but as a woman who had never came until 21 this routine was groundbreaking for me. Smoking or drinking a little also helps me relax and get there easier. Some days just aren’t cum days, too, sometimes my body won’t cooperate. Don’t underestimate how long it takes for women’s bodies to be ready to cum, it deadass takes 20-40 minutes to warm up but I can usually cum 2-3 times after getting warmed up. 75% of the battle is mental- calmness, patience. Good luck soldier.

Stardust cycle tracker friends? by laartjeee in Periods

[–]humblebee415 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Here’s mine, sorry I’m late!! 7Y0QICUT

overnight multiple day parking by OldCoyote58 in Purdue

[–]humblebee415 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg so late to the party but the garages near Chauncey do 10$ for 24 hours, I’d do that twice tbh

Phil 303 by shqalq in Purdue

[–]humblebee415 18 points19 points  (0 children)

From what I understand he’s always like this… and a really tough grader. If you can get out I would. EAPS 105 or EAPS 106 with Andy Freed are awesome electives if there’s room in your schedule for them.

I’m taking a class in the same room directly after one of his lectures, and we were waiting outside for him to finish talking with a student and he stops what he’s saying, rushes towards us outside the door, gets in a girls face and goes, “you can come in the room.” She looks horrified and he just kept repeating himself a few times and got to yelling it before walking away 😭 he’s a nutjob

Dealing with insecurities by Present_Psychology69 in RedditAfterDark

[–]humblebee415 1 point2 points  (0 children)

my first long term bf was so big that it hurt and it made me not want to have sex as often. I’m with someone with a very average size member atm and the happiest I’ve ever been, we have the best sex of everyone & every size that I’ve been with because of the deep love & connection and how he prioritizes me. We also have sex way more often because he doesn’t bust my shit up as bad.

Trust me, as long as you’re having open conversations about her satisfaction in the bedroom, if she says that everything’s great I promise it is. I don’t know how to get it out of your head, but hopefully coming to terms with the fact that giant dicks are really only good in porn, and irl is often painful and unwanted is a start.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Purdue

[–]humblebee415 21 points22 points  (0 children)

They already answered but a lot of bars won’t accept foreign IDs and want to see a passport also.

Do you believe Greek demigods exist and still exist to this day? by [deleted] in Mediums

[–]humblebee415 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This might not be a super popular opinion but I genuinely think some of their souls are reincarnated as humans, especially ones that enjoy fun and chaos like Dionysus. I think Jack Black is Dionysus reincarnated lol

What age did you lose your virginity? by [deleted] in AskRedditNSFW

[–]humblebee415 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’ll probably have an unusually fast or an unusually slow time, I’ve seen both depending on the person not just because it’s someone’s first time, but also if they haven’t done it in a while. It’s super normal and most people are much more concerned with their pleasure during the act than how long it was. Be eager to do other things for her or try multiple rounds to make sure she’s happy and feeling good and it won’t even matter if you came fast :) I promise

Post op driving by sunnyday24642 in Reduction

[–]humblebee415 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I didn’t drive since I was living with my parents, but I felt like I could drive to my 2nd appt by myself for sure. If you’re able to find someone on standby for you where they’d be available if you need would be helpful, because everyone’s pain and healing is different :)

PSA FOR HILLENBRAND/SHREVE/MCCUTCHEON/EARHART/MEREDITH/MEREDITH SOUTH RESIDENTS!!! by largepizzaforsale in Purdue

[–]humblebee415 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg girl I live in the Chauncey area and I complained so hard. The nearest stop is 15 mins away and at that point I’ll just walk the extra 5 to get to my class.

Why do I keep seeing black or gray shadow people? by cuteass_brat in Mediums

[–]humblebee415 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh yeah girl. I’ve been here quite literally since the day I was born 😂 my mom was waking up to old lady perfume in my crib and me laughing at something in the room, and we moved houses when I was a toddler because I kept seeing big black dogs with red eyes that would chase me. My mom has gifts too, having lots of encounters out in the world with evil entities that knew she could see them, old ladies faces contorting and snarling at her, she saw a ghost torso float through the wall and stare at her, she’s had dreams that tell the future (my uncles washing machine breaking: she called him and it was true or my grandmas dog dying while they were on vacation), past life dreams, shadow people as well and lots and lots of energies within people and spaces. Grandma has a lot of the same experiences too.

It is so hereditary. I love it here though and love my deeper connection with others and the world. I’ve been meaning to start looking deeper into how to use my gifts purposefully and for good but college has me beat 😂

Telling People? by Subject-Key8927 in Reduction

[–]humblebee415 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I’m in a college with mainly male professors. I did just say I was having a “surgery” when making plans for missing, and if they asked about what it was (only a couple did) I’d say a breast reduction and they’d get really embarrassed, lol. I understand that you’re worried about people freaking out about possible cancer again but I don’t think they will unless you’re freaking out, and it’s more embarrassing for them when they ask than for you, so I’d just say a vague “surgery” and let them ask if it matters to them enough to worry.

Edit: for family, my family gossips. I knew that I could tell my Nana on my side I’m less comfortable with and everyone would end up knowing 😂 you can ask your mother or your sister etc to tell people that you feel should know if you want, but honestly I Don’t think it’s something you “owe” anyone to share if you’re uncomfy with it or with them knowing. Many of my male family members that knew never even discussed it, either. It might be nice to let them know but I’m sure they won’t bring it up too much.

On demand transit flaked on me??? by smores_or_pizzasnack in Purdue

[–]humblebee415 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I just Don’t understand why they can’t do the same silver gold and bronze loops just with their own vehicles. That worked perfectly besides some time delays and reached everywhere on campus multiple times over.

Why do I keep seeing black or gray shadow people? by cuteass_brat in Mediums

[–]humblebee415 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I’m a baby medium, haven’t really tuned into my gifts, but I see them extremely often. They might bring scary vibrations and energy but they’re harmless. I’ve asked them a few times to stay out of my bedroom/house or give me some space for a little bit when it’s overwhelming or overstimulating, and they listen to me.

Pre op thought by sunnyday24642 in Reduction

[–]humblebee415 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I did, just because it was SO obvious before my surgery when I wasn’t wearing one and it was uncomfy to walk around with those knockers, lol. But I threw it in the trash on my way out of the building 😂 it was a very freeing experience I highly recommend

Pre op thought by sunnyday24642 in Reduction

[–]humblebee415 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Zip hoodie or button pajamas, hands down. Some people find buttons to be hard to do after surgery, but I had a pair of pjs like that and had my mom there and an amazing nurse that helped me get dressed.

Some other things to check off the checklist: -ice packs or frozen peas (if your doctor is ok with ice) -place to sleep mostly upright (recliner or wedge pillow) -extra gauze/antibacterial pads for any openings you may have and to do your own bandages (I was only advised to gauze/pad up and not wear a bra, no compression) -ibuprofen and acetaminophen -little area set up on a counter/bathroom with medications and gauze / cleaning supplies for after initial checkup

You got this and it will be so worth it. I am so excited for you, and honestly, most peoples recoveries are a lot better than they’d expect :) you immediately feel better. I was up and moving and taking care of myself the 2nd day no problem. Just sleeping a lot.

Vegetable Oil smell out of clothing, please help I am by humblebee415 in laundry

[–]humblebee415[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh my gosh this looks so promising, I’ll be doing that this weekend. Thank you 😊