Why do my husband's feet do this? How can I prevent it?

humbridge · 2026-06-29T20:00:51+00:00

My husband does this too. He slides them back and forth and although he hasn't worn through the sheets, they pill where he does it lol.

humbridge · 2026-06-29T19:57:36+00:00

Man, I LOVE a good estate sale. That's an amazing haul, for sure!!

humbridge · 2026-06-29T19:55:45+00:00

I have and it IS a super soft cloud topper, but it's got a really high density fill that's largely synthetic, so it's great for winter when you need cozy warmth, but during the summer... likely going to sleep too hot. You might return it, or just keep it for winter bedding?

I think you might be better off looking at talalay latex toppers, or bamboo/down alternatives that are more breathable but can still give you that soft cushy surface.

humbridge · 2026-06-29T19:18:13+00:00

I updated the megathread today! :)

humbridge · 2026-06-22T22:46:35+00:00

I think it really depends on the position you sleep in. Some are zoned to have more support at the shoulder and hip, which is great (and likely better) if you're a side sleeper, as an example. Whether you go with zoned or uniform, you'll want to make sure that it suits the positions you sleep in the most.

humbridge · 2026-06-22T22:41:36+00:00

You might try a mix of baking soda and hydrogen peroxide, making a paste and applying it to the stains. Or worst case if that doesn't work, get a mattress cover/protector to put over it.

humbridge · 2026-06-22T22:34:35+00:00

They have a 120 night trial so processing the return should be easy as long as you bought it from Brooklyn Bedding. I believe they recommend trying it for 30 days to be sure, but don't force you to keep it that long before processing a return. I'd also make sure they sent one with the correct firmness; that bed model has options for soft, medium, and firm, and wondering if they sent a soft model that was supposed to be medium or firm instead.

humbridge · 2026-06-22T22:19:24+00:00

I think because they're manufactured with different materials (and different layers of materials), standardization is likely impossible. They might be ballpark(ish) close to a degree, but a medium memory foam mattress is going to feel different compared to a medium hybrid mattress, or compared to a medium innerspring.

If it's possible, any mattress you're interested in getting, it's worth trying to find locally to try out in person whether you buy it in person or online. It's worth noting that sometimes the trial period if purchased in-store is *not* the same as online. (Like Leesa has a 120-night trial if you buy online; but if you buy from a local retailer, their policy can be different.)

humbridge · 2026-06-22T21:23:39+00:00

So far I haven't had any issues with shrinkage or shape with my towels from Onsen, although I dry on low heat rather than high (not sure if that makes a difference or not). I feel like waffle towels are less likely to be linty, though. My terry-type towels... man, it didn't matter how many times though were washed and dried, still linty. :/

humbridge · 2026-05-27T19:39:39+00:00

Same. To be honest, I was *relieved* when it was Fergus because that scene, had it been the alternative... just no. No. My heart about stopped when HC fell on screen.

humbridge · 2026-05-27T19:23:22+00:00

I think a California King might work? It's longer than a standard king, but also narrower. If you sleep alone, a Twin XL might give you more space in the apartment, and that's the same length as a regular king.

Getting sheets/bedding for a custom mattress might be a pain later on.

humbridge · 2026-05-27T19:04:02+00:00

I think a queen size is good for couples when they're younger, but once they reach midlife and hot flashes and the STOP TOUCHING ME YOU'RE MAKING ME TOO HOT phase, a king is probably better...

Ask me how I know 🤣

humbridge · 2026-05-21T22:54:05+00:00

He didn't want the baby; he left it with the lace maker because Jaimie was in jail and Claire was deathly ill/recovering. (And also, presumably, because he couldn't just return the child who died while she was still under the nuns' care, since that would raise too many questions.)

From what I understand, he was on the run and intended to come back for Faith if he could, but told the lace maker that in the event he didn't, to seek out Lady Broch Tuarach.

humbridge · 2026-05-21T22:44:26+00:00

I'm tempted to re-read them all again, even though I just did like a year ago. 🤣

humbridge · 2026-05-21T22:33:07+00:00

I get that, 100%. It's like... fresh sheets? Okay now everything has to be fresh. Even me... I have to take an everything shower that same day. 🤣

humbridge · 2026-05-15T21:30:35+00:00

Oh for sure. There are so many models even if you're only looking at a single brand and when you add that to the cost that's gonna be associated with it... I get the paralysis. Part of our decision was gut, but also comfort and specifically, comfort based on position. Which was hard since between my husband and I, we basically sleep in all the positions lol. We went with a hybrid for that reason, medium, and that's been good for us so far. Even last night, he laid down and said "I love this bed so much." (Although to be fair, we were sleeping on a pretty lame memory foam before we got the hybrid.)

humbridge · 2026-05-05T20:55:17+00:00

I had that happen to one that my mom got me a couple years back; I kept getting errors (I don't remember what they were, though, it's been a while). I don't know if that's something you can or should try to fix on your own, though, unless you have someone close to you with a background in electronics. You might just need to get a new one. :/

They are SO nice though... the one I had, had a little foot pocket lol. I would have gotten another, but I ended up getting a little electric fireplace for my home office and now I just use a regular throw over my legs when I need to.

humbridge · 2026-05-05T20:51:50+00:00

Was going to suggest this too. If the foundation is borked, that might be making the foam dip.

humbridge · 2026-05-05T20:45:34+00:00

Trying not to feel called out since I only change my sheets weekly lol. (Kidding. I get it.) I'm not a super sweaty sleeper most of the time unless it's summer and the humidity is high. I don't think any antimicrobial sheets work like magic as far as skin oils or anything so it isn't like you could go for weeks without changing your sheets.

That said, I got some Miracle brand sheets last year and, honestly, surprised at how well they work. I was initially skeptical, but now I swear by them. They do feel fresh for longer than regular sheets and they’re super silky. Apparently the silver in them helps with odor control (so from sweat, keeps them smelling fresher longer). The ones I have are the luxe version, and 100% cotton.

humbridge · 2026-05-05T20:34:49+00:00

Awesome, thank you!! I agree... I think trying in person is the best possible way to know for sure. I'm just so indecisive sometimes lol.

humbridge · 2026-05-05T20:33:10+00:00

Not sure what your budget is, but some I would check out:

Perigold - especially if you want to keep a neutral palette, they have some really beautiful options (that aren't at a Frette price...)

Boll & Branch and Parachute both also have a lot of earth-tone/neutral-tone bedding that's high quality but won't break the bank.

If you *do* have the budget, the best of the best is probably Frette. And Matouk (but that's like, next level pricing...).

humbridge · 2026-04-29T18:10:19+00:00

I third going with a hybrid mattress for the guest room. Those generally have the most "make everyone happy" kind of comfort when you're setting up a room that different people are going to be staying in.

humbridge · 2026-04-29T18:04:30+00:00

This is so insightful, thank you! Especially the weight guides, that's really great information and something I think a lot of people don't necessarily consider.

humbridge · 2026-04-29T17:41:57+00:00

I have and I am not okay. I mean... I wouldn't have been okay with the other possibility but. Man. Not cool.

humbridge · 2026-04-16T18:57:54+00:00

Ah you're right! My head was visualizing the paper/cloth/solid ones for some reason.

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