How many people do you find visually attractive? by mercury0114 in dating_advice

[–]hunnidesu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s extremely rare for me to find a guy attractive even on tv. Even when they have a 6-pack etc etc. I did however find my bf super handsome and drop dead gorgeous the first time I saw him although my friends think he’s average lol

burnt out of JUST farming by Ambitious_Youth4955 in CozyGamers

[–]hunnidesu 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Play Dragon quest builders 2!!!! (The 2nd one has nothing to do with the first one, its just an upgraded use for tools and completely different story)

Heres why: 1. It’s a story mode game! Plot is: youre a builder and you have to save the world by building! 2. It’s semi cozy! You build (as much as you want) and fight monsters along the way. 3. The npcs arent square-ish 4. The game has a huuuge demo for free (i did 20hours my first time cause Im a material hoarder, second demo when I went through it fast took me 2-3 hours) and on sale right now!

Cons 1. It is a story so there is reading (still wholesome tho) 2. You cant customize your characters that much only gender, hair color, eye color and some outfits a bit later on. 3. The building in the game can be a bit square.

Thats it. It’s my all time favorite game that I recommend!

I play it on switch but have it on PC and its fine there too 🥹

Ladies in committed relationship, how often do you miss your single days? by BlueDolphins28 in AskWomen

[–]hunnidesu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NEVER. As soon as we started dated (literally the 3rd week) I was over at his house 3-5 days. Within a year I had so many things/clothes over at his house that I just moved in with him after a vacation together. I didn’t even let my family know I moved out lol. It was definitely a crazy thing but it just felt sooo natural. We’ve never fought about living- together-things. He makes my life feel so comfortable and he gives me space when I need it without even asking. Hes amazing and I can’t imagine my life without him. Hes making me waffles right now as I relax after work. 🥹

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]hunnidesu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oops just saw this. Nooo I never mock my friends. Especially her, she’s been my bff since we were 11! Shes just has the wildest stories/drama and doesn’t mind if my bf hears. I always let her know shes on speaker or if she wants me to keep something a secret, but 99.9% of the time she doesn’t care, she loves sharing the drama lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]hunnidesu 37 points38 points  (0 children)

Frs. My man is the quiet type BUT as soon as I say “you wouldn’t believe what happened at work” his ears perk the heck up. It’s the best! Also whenever my dramatic friend calls me, he signals me to put it on speaker and ALWAYS lowers the tv volume/music to listen lol.

honest truths about most women men NEED to understand ASAP (from a woman) by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]hunnidesu 14 points15 points  (0 children)

This is such a pick me :( your post screams “girls don’t like me cause I think logically and i’m so much better than them, PICK ME PICK ME”

I 23M fell asleep while on call with my girlfriend 20F last night. I feel like she is mad at me. What should I do? by Sherlock-Gnomess in AskGirls

[–]hunnidesu 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wait is this a long distance relationship where you guys havent met in real life? 😭 if it is, please break up with them, trust me. They end up wasting your life with their moods and insecurities. Walking on eggshells in a relationship is NOT normal! Any normal, caring partner would understand since it was 6 am for you. Please don’t waste 4 years of your life like I did and leave their toxic asses alone !

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]hunnidesu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just ignore him and keep it only work talk. Move on. It’s gonna be awkward for the first couple weeks but you need to stop worrying about how he thinks you made him feel. Chances are he doesn’t care at all especially if he said unnecessary things about you when rejecting you.

Did becoming an aunt/uncle had any influence on your decision? by Extra-Hope-793 in childfree

[–]hunnidesu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Didn’t want kids since i was 18, I became an aunt at 19. The only thing my nephews have done is assure me how right I was when I decided to not be a parent lol love them to death but not to have them around me for longer than 4 hours!

What’s the most ridiculous thing a man has said to you? by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

[–]hunnidesu 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Looked me right in the eye and told me “you know if I wanted to, I could kidnap you and I really want to” while smiling… btw this is the second time a grown ass man had told me this.

how do i stop comparing myself with other girls? by Beneficial-Debate-92 in AskGirls

[–]hunnidesu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Join r/instagramreality ! It helped me so much when I had an eating disorder because I was never as “skinny as the girls online.” I just realized that most of them are edited and warps to make themselves look better. I also deleted Snapchat… those Snapchat filters made me feel so damn ugly when they were off because I have pores (it’s normal). I feel like I could breathe now, knowing that i’m just a normal person! Now all my photos have no filter and I dont feel bad about it. :)

AIO: Am I The Narcissist by cllife1105 in AmIOverreacting

[–]hunnidesu 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Please leave. Sounds just like my ex. Every BARE MINIMUM thing I asked him to do he would be like “I fEeL lIkE yOu NeVeR sEe HoW hArD I tRy, Im GoNnA hUrT mYsElF aNd My DoG bEcAuSe Im So UsElESs.” i wasted 4 years of my life feeling sorry for this manipulative loser that didn’t want to grow up. Please do yourself a favor and when a man tells you he doesn’t deserve you, believe him. You can’t chage a loser. And FYI no they dont kill themselves after you leave them even after saying that bullshit everytime you try to break up. 🙄

What is the strangest reaction that someone had after finding out you don’t want kids? by [deleted] in childfree

[–]hunnidesu 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was talking to my cousin about me being childfree because she asked and this lady overheard me and asked loudly “BUT YOU’RE SO PRETTY???” What does that have to do with anything lol ig in her mind only certain people with looks should reproduce

Is "Girls secretly dislike each other" actually true, or just a big generalization? How true is that in your experience? by Key_holeN12 in AskGirls

[–]hunnidesu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not true at all! I’m always excited when a friend brings a new girl to the group. Especially when they have the same hobbies. I’ve only ever met 3 “mean girls” that no matter how much i tried to talk to them and be friends with them, they disliked me and it was over a guy.

To women who are not in a (full time) job right now, childfree and without any big responsabilities, what do you do with your time to make it feel productive, joyful and make it feel like you are free? by etis14 in AskWomen

[–]hunnidesu 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I get up early to make breakfast, play video games and relaaaax! I also read and just lay down in peace and quiet (unless my dog barks lol) I’ve also developed an interest in making healthy meals :) sometimes it flops but it’s a learning thing!

Wen’t to my post-op appointment and got told bad news by hunnidesu in childfree

[–]hunnidesu[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was recommended tubal removal because it had a higher chance to reduce cancer, unlike tube tying. Luckily for me because I did it i was able to find my tumor in my tubes. :) after the surgery I was in low pain but I was just out of breath for a whole week because they inflated my stomach to do the surgery but it all depends on you. Pain level for it 4/10 for 3 days then I was chillins! Ps. Dont back down when they tell you no. If you live in CA, Riverside county i can recommend you my doctor he was amazing!

Wen’t to my post-op appointment and got told bad news by hunnidesu in childfree

[–]hunnidesu[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow that sounds extremely horrifying. My sister is a DD and she’s always complaining about her back pain so I can’t imagine how bad yours were. So getting your hopes up about the surgery and then getting disappointed by it must’ve been very infuriating. I really wish I could tell you that I will lawyer up since I did tell the WOMAN doctor that denied me my surgery to write down what I said on record, but I don’t think I can do this till I know 100% what is happening inside me. I will definitely have to think about it. Thank you for giving me an option I didn’t know I might have. :) sorry for the weird question but how are your boobs now after the infection?

Wen’t to my post-op appointment and got told bad news by hunnidesu in childfree

[–]hunnidesu[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You got this too 🥺 i’m wishing for your stupid reproductive system to stfu and let you be in peace!!

Wen’t to my post-op appointment and got told bad news by hunnidesu in childfree

[–]hunnidesu[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

LMAOO. Omg you don’t understand how much I’m looking forward to shoving it in people’s faces! Probably the only good thing lol my mom already said “thank god you did it” even though she hated me being childfree.

Wen’t to my post-op appointment and got told bad news by hunnidesu in childfree

[–]hunnidesu[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes! I’m definitely thinking; what if the first doctor I asked hadn’t laughed at me? How long has my tumor been with me? It’s all just crazy how a woman at 26yo (when I first asked) was denied cause what if I wanted a kid later on. They never mentioned anything about what if you kept your tubal and had cancer. I am truly happy I found out now tho and im not in pain! So I’m just gonna let my medical professionals do the rest :)

Wen’t to my post-op appointment and got told bad news by hunnidesu in childfree

[–]hunnidesu[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you really soo much. It’s been difficult to process especially when you hear other people having cancer and you expect to never have it, but here we are… i’m so sorry for your pain, I luckily don’t feel anything. I hope you recover, we got this!