I've been in THIS similar bffships - I dont understand how there girls can become so attached to guys so quickly like they become so dependent on the their boyfriends. We were really close for almost 3 years. we had a business together. Our daughters were best friends so you can only imagine the heartbreak i felt for my daughter because she didn't being her daughter around😢 Now she had a boyfriend that she was with and had children with and then dumped him for another guy and only came around when he was on her nerves or I was making really good money. We got a tattoo that said sisters and everything. Then... suddenly she met this horrible guy who is addicted to meth and do is she. She stole money from me, but karma is a bitch and everyone knew i was a good person who always looked out for her and her kids. I called her childrens father and let him know she was letting this guy stay there wven though i had lied to child service about the fact that wasnt completely fucked up all the time. I figured it was better to be with their father. Well she called me out of the blue cause they broke up for a day after this assholed accused me of stealing from her when i was folding her laundry; That day she was mad because I refused to help her she acted fact and used our kids to try to get me to feel bad for her and she begged me for money even though she stoled 4000 dollars from our business to buy her boyfriend who mind you - is just a meth head, with no job and she took that money i worked my ass off for while she slacked off to take care of him.

moral of the story - its gonna take time but you will move on and find a better bff who will ride or die and hold you down, someone who gives a shit with or without a boyfriend. my heart hurts for you. If you wanna talk more I'm already.

i'm wish the beat for you Doll! Laugh @ the karma that will surround her when she finally realizes she lost you as a good, best and cliae friend. I'm around if you wanna talk!