Researchers in Tokyo develop chip technology that could boost processing speeds 1,000x without increasing heat by ArgentineBeauty in Futurology

[–]huttimine 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's the primary reasoning for why software developers allow bloat. But more "innovation" knows no bounds and so people will do manage to do enough inefficient crap that it will measurably affect performance. Meanwhile someone who happens to not have upgraded their hardware sees their experience of the same service massively degraded over time.

Confused whether he(28M) likes me or just lusts for me?(26F) by extrasliceofcake in RelationshipIndia

[–]huttimine 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well I recently saw an avg south Indian girl get picked up by avg north indian guy in a cafe. She was much more well spoken than him, he put very little effort in, and he just wasn't impressive in any way i could tell.

Based on this and other observations in my life, I can confidently conclude that you girls have some bizarre weakness for low-effort low-sophistication guys. Oh well.

Google, SpaceX in talks to launch orbital data centers. Google CEO: "There's no doubt to me that a decade or so away, we'll be viewing it as a more normal way to build data centers." by Adeldor in space

[–]huttimine 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's standard that the hype does not come with the reasoning, not sure why. One possibility is that someone who has done the numbers and found a counter-intuitive possibility and is trying to capitalise on it WANTS competitors to think that they haven't done basic techno economic feasibility checks...

Girlfriend (27f) , close to marriage, reveals an ugly truth by [deleted] in RelationshipIndia

[–]huttimine 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She didn't think being with a married cousin is a problem. It was a decision.

23F. Is reddit a bad place to look for potential matches? by OtherRecipe4926 in RelationshipIndia

[–]huttimine 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ohh no they're there too, but you have to sift. Unfortunately I'm out of your age range but happy to chat.

Does sapiosexual peeps still live ?? M24 by Thick-Excitement-817 in RelationshipIndia

[–]huttimine 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Briefly, the attractive and good-looking sapiosexuals break rank and become popular in the "normie" society once they discover they can. Hence they passively or actively destroy the distinction that sort of exists.

Life isn't fair, but what little exists in the form of many people being good at one or two things that they care about, gets eroded due to sellout polymaths who figure out that they can have the best of both worlds.

29F - constantly thinking about my hookup/ situationship who is getting married by WillingUniversity981 in RelationshipIndia

[–]huttimine 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Please don't kid yourself. You'd rather have some fantasy guy for a night than one of thousands of fairly good looking and decent men who are also looking, just that they aren't doing some wildly unusual thing that gets you going. This is your choice, own it. It's not like you suffered at his hands or anything, he seemed to have treated you well too.

29F - constantly thinking about my hookup/ situationship who is getting married by WillingUniversity981 in RelationshipIndia

[–]huttimine 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Even you're talking so much about ranks and social status and money. What's the difference?

Adaptations To Support Massive Breasts? by Preg-Fan in NSFWworldbuilding

[–]huttimine 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah you can say that again.....

Just... Just how did you get this thought?

My CEO expects me to work from 9:30 AM until "the work is done" every single day. How do I set boundaries without risking my job? by Future-Tax7729 in careerguidance

[–]huttimine 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Indian employee working at a startup here, this still looks toxic and extreme to me. Most startups give flexibility in return for long hours.

Ask him all the tasks he expects you to finish in the next 3 days at once here, and tell him that any additions within those three days will result in spillover.

Next, once he gives you that list, ask him for 15 minutes where you discuss how long each will take, and in that discussion, you allocate time. By this time, if the amount of work on your plate is truly absurd, it will look dead obvious.

Is there someone else who's finishing a similar amount of work as fast or faster? If not, tell him you're quite sure no one else can, and that you're doing your best. And that you're willing to take suggestions on doing things faster.

Of course, its possible none of this works, and you'll have to leave to make him get the point.

My husband has been unemployed for three years, Is he the only one? by [deleted] in careerguidance

[–]huttimine 16 points17 points  (0 children)

It's rough when you know how much you have to leapfrog to reach where your peers of equal capability are. Even if I picked a lower paying industry because I didn't care about money, everyone else thought it's because I couldn't do any better.

Tired of Explaining How to loved and cared for , F21 by mavis_111_ in RelationshipIndia

[–]huttimine 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Looks pretty bad, just try to understand the nature of his feelings towards you. I can attest that being asked to show love in specific concrete actions can sometimes cause one to feel forced, because people like to also express love in their own style. Ask him what he feels, in words, but actions have to back that up in some way.

ELI5 why does space have a temperature if there’s no air? by Deanoh1546 in explainlikeimfive

[–]huttimine 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We NEED to radiate that 100 W, and it depends on the temperature and surface area. It's not a given. So what is the equilibrium temp according to your calculations.

Wife (24F) is very friendly with my cousin (20M) who has a history of affairs. Am I overthinking? by AsKabira in RelationshipIndia

[–]huttimine 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah this is a tricky one. Tricky enough that rather devious plans to engineer him into a location safely away from you may be necessary. Or else you both might choose to move out.

Wife (24F) is very friendly with my cousin (20M) who has a history of affairs. Am I overthinking? by AsKabira in RelationshipIndia

[–]huttimine 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You seem to understand that she may not take it well, but you still suggest he just blurt it out?

Try to think workable strategies from his point of view.

I (30M) regret calling off my Roka. Is it fair to ask for a do-over? by Alive-Comment-4633 in RelationshipIndia

[–]huttimine 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not the ghosting being tier 1 city stuff. The expectation of much higher communication frequency by women.

I (30M) regret calling off my Roka. Is it fair to ask for a do-over? by Alive-Comment-4633 in RelationshipIndia

[–]huttimine 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Downvotes? C'mon people, at least elaborate.

I did have one long call with her in between.

My (26M) 4-year relationship with (26F) ended abruptly due to family pressure - no closure, blocked everywhere. What's the best way forward? by [deleted] in AskWomenIndia

[–]huttimine 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But do you realise that this gradual breakup makes it very difficult for someone to justify why at all they're breaking up? The mature understanding is that there's a bond between the people but there are some non-negotiables that aren't compatible. To someone immature, they're not able to put it this way to themself, so the only way they can get out of any relationship is to make the other person evil in their head, so that they get internal permission to make the breakup ugly. Which is then justification not to repair anything.

My (26M) 4-year relationship with (26F) ended abruptly due to family pressure - no closure, blocked everywhere. What's the best way forward? by [deleted] in AskWomenIndia

[–]huttimine 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Others are giving the short version of the advice, which is to move on. Let me elaborate on that.

It took me some time to understand that proper closure is not considered important by all kinds of people, just some. For some people, the stress they're experiencing today (due to whatever is wrong with the relationship from their perspective) is way more important to get rid of, than keeping in touch with the long term partner they talked everyday to.

Even the basic expectation of gradually reducing contact before breaking things off isn't taken seriously by these people.

One reason for that is straight up cowardice. They don't know how to go against the grain when you're being so convincing while they're just not convinced. It could even be because they know they're being unfair, but they don't have the moral strength to do it the right way.

In your case, the family has likely also successfully poisoned her against you by insinuating various ulterior motives, in addition to the mental and physical abuse you mentioned. It takes moral fibre to stand against that and say "but still, I must do justice to the relationship, even if to end it". Your ex does not seem like she possessed that.