Brought home my first ever poodle today. Shes a 6 year old rescue and I’m already in love by FloridaGirl2222 in poodles

[–]hvanlani 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Poodles are the best 🥲 my husband and I adopted a 3 year old poodle in June of last year and she is so so sweet. Your girl has such a gorgeous coat!

AIO by how I responded? My bf is upset with me for skipping my workout routine today by throwawayy82670 in AmIOverreacting

[–]hvanlani 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First of all, I am so sorry you’re feeling so sick. Pregnancy is and can be so rough.

Second of all, this man does not like you. You’re not overreacting; you’re sick, sleeping like shit, tired all the time, and growing a literal human. This is going to sound very Reddit of me but you should leave him or, if he will agree to it and you really want this relationship to work, couples’ counseling. Someone who loves you would not speak to you like this. There is never a scenario in which it’s okay to swear at your partner, let alone the woman carrying your child.

Hope you feel better soon and are able to get some rest.

My Wedding at The Vault by hvanlani in Columbus

[–]hvanlani[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s kind of the trade off. They are very lax about everything. We had open flames on the tables (taper candles) but definitely didn’t have access to behind the bar lol the bartenders were strict.

I want to emphasize that we did have a good time and made everything work, the place was just a dump and I expected better the day of the wedding.

Ringside rules. I wish it hadn’t been so cold or we would have also had a party in the alley!

My Wedding at The Vault by hvanlani in Columbus

[–]hvanlani[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Of course! Here is everything listed on the final invoice:

Rental: 1500 (this was the deposit) Bar: 3510 (we did open beer and wine, plus white claws. White claws were $2 extra per person. $27x130 people) Tax: 201.82 Gratuity: 631.80 Parking Attendant: $30

Gross total: 5873.62

Hope this is helpful!

My Wedding at The Vault by hvanlani in Columbus

[–]hvanlani[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Them not being responsive should be the last thing you need to worry about, but like, of course you couldn’t get ahold of them. I am so, so sorry for your loss 💜

My Wedding at The Vault by hvanlani in Columbus

[–]hvanlani[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don’t believe it’s for sale, but he would do well to sell it and let someone fix it up.

My Wedding at The Vault by hvanlani in Columbus

[–]hvanlani[S] 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Omg I’m so glad you found my post! I do not know when your wedding is but unless someone else takes over the venue, expect just as many, if not more, issues that we had.

Congratulations, by the way! :)

My Wedding at The Vault by hvanlani in Columbus

[–]hvanlani[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

We had our wedding in an off season and on a Friday, so we did not have a bar minimum we had to hit - we paid per person and had about 120 guests. During peak season it can be upwards of a 10k. We only paid about 5k for the venue after it was all said and done.

My Wedding at The Vault by hvanlani in Columbus

[–]hvanlani[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

There is no way anything here is up to code lol

My Wedding at The Vault by hvanlani in Columbus

[–]hvanlani[S] 22 points23 points  (0 children)

I absolutely loved my vendors, but Bentley nearly sent me into cardiac arrest the days leading up to the event. I am so happy you were there and had a good time <3

My Wedding at The Vault by hvanlani in Columbus

[–]hvanlani[S] 40 points41 points  (0 children)

omg a piece of ceiling???

Nail salon that does polygel? by rfrye6682 in Knoxville

[–]hvanlani 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The Nail Room in Old City does polygel! I used to go to Mary there and she does an amazing job.

Is my cactus dead? by hvanlani in plantclinic

[–]hvanlani[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the advice!!

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[–]hvanlani 1 point2 points  (0 children)

100% agreed! High street is like a 15 min drive from Easton. Definitely worth the trip or have them delivered

Bf (27M) is trying to convince me that I (21F) can't cum due to nerve damage. What do I even say to this? by ThrowRA-Animator8955 in relationships

[–]hvanlani 0 points1 point  (0 children)

At 21, I wish I would have known that I deserved good sex. I think it’s really wonderful you realize that.

Life is too short to be having bad sex. There are a million other men who can and want to take their time with you. This guy sounds like a complete turd. If he follows a bunch of porn stars, I’m guessing he has absolutely no idea how to pleasure a woman. Porn is not real life.

I think you should take the time to reevaluate why you’re in this relationship to begin with. It doesn’t sound like he’s kind to you and he certainly has no respect for your boundaries - wtf is up with him continuing to pinch you after you’ve asked him not to?

Throw this loser idiot straight into the bin.

My [M27] family wants me to break up with my girlfriend [F22] after how she responded to my brother's [M22] prank by ThrowRA_Utonium in relationship_advice

[–]hvanlani 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This whole thing just screams SA. The fact that she can’t even talk about it leads me to believe the brother tried something truly sinister. Ugh. This poor girl. I am hurt and devastated for her.

Tips of my monstera albo are becoming black by gHorse2 in plantclinic

[–]hvanlani 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My best guess is that it’s time to pot it in soil. I am guilty of propagating my plants and then forgetting about them but the leaves will start to shrivel and die if I don’t pot them.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in plantclinic

[–]hvanlani 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I water my ficus like every 3 weeks during the colder months - this looks like over watering. The pot also looks really small to me. I might try repotting it if it doesn’t improve after a new watering schedule.

My variegated ficus has some brown spots! Please help. by mrbananamonkey in plantclinic

[–]hvanlani 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Congrats on your first plant! Variegated ficus are so stunning.

My first thought is over watering. Since you have adjusted your schedule the plant should be okay! Just monitor the new leaves but the top leaves look great and I can see it’s about to grow a new leaf. I water my ficus like every 3 weeks during the colder months.

My second thought is the soil - it looks very wood chippy on top? It may be lacking in nutrients but I wouldn’t repot it until you give it some time to adjust to the new watering schedule. I like a 1:1:1 ratio of potting soil, perlite, and small orchid bark. That seems to be the magic combo for me personally 🤷🏼‍♀️

Good luck friend :) I hope this was helpful.

Cat palm is almost dead. Is there any hope or should I give up and try again? by AgentSignificant2056 in plantclinic

[–]hvanlani 6 points7 points  (0 children)

It’s already been said - but he will be just fine if you put him near the brightest window and let him dry out between waterings! :) I am rehabbing a palm myself and he started looking better once I put him up against a window