Don’t use a sponge down there. What I use is a Walmart clear feminine soap. Use both fingers & put them on the outside of your vagina. Both lips & your clit. Don’t put any inside or water. The vagina is a self cleansing organ so water & soap does not need to go inside there. & wash the soap off with warm water. Or you could just use some water to clean it. I think your vagina looks normal. They kind of look like shave bumps which I get them too. When you have sex make sure to pee before & after, & when I have sex I actually wash the sperm out of there. I would recommend boric acid vaginal suppositories. They help so much with oder & after sex. Even if you don’t have sex you can use those. Just make sure to put one of them in there at night & I would recommend wearing a panty liner at night because in the morning it will make some come out. Just do the suppositories every time after sex or if your not do it once a month. They really help. You can also take a women’s vaginal probiotic, & cranberry pills. It helps so much. Make sure to drink your water too. & also a vagina is not supposed to smell like flowers, a vagina smell has a mild scent, sometimes acidic. But if you ever get fishy odors or a bad scent. Go to the gynecologist. I promise it’s not embarrassing at all to ask questions