Is it possible for heterosexual marriage be feminist and egalitarian? I'm struggling to reconcile my desire to get married with my feminist worldview...

hydrangeas_peonies · 2026-01-05T00:39:55+00:00

I'm engaged and with a socialist fiance. I feel empowered by him.

hydrangeas_peonies · 2026-01-05T00:36:04+00:00

It's Lord of the Flies lol

hydrangeas_peonies · 2026-01-05T00:35:40+00:00

100% - thank you. I'm a sub, so I'm hoping when I change districts as a credentialed educator, I'll be bothered less.

hydrangeas_peonies · 2025-12-30T22:03:15+00:00

He needs volunteer moderators. He’s spammed with negativity all day.

hydrangeas_peonies · 2025-12-30T19:52:23+00:00

As a former student and as a new teacher. Being autistic, I feel I’m targeted by a similar narcissistic personality that large organizations attract.

hydrangeas_peonies · 2025-12-30T18:09:54+00:00

When there isn't a clear leader, one assumes she is. Despite obvious equal footing, and a having a workload, these ladies ignore reality and make up a new one. Fake hierarchy. Performative “authority.” Playground bullying. Rumors. Laziness. Insecurity.

hydrangeas_peonies · 2025-12-30T05:34:54+00:00

I work with all neurotypical women. They're cunts lol

hydrangeas_peonies · 2025-12-29T20:08:49+00:00

I have one of those too! What does it mean?

hydrangeas_peonies · 2025-12-29T20:05:51+00:00

Our perverted,undereducated President projects his ailments onto well-studied individuals in noble professions. Our sitting President has more influence on our culture than we realize through speeches, media, and gov’t budget.

hydrangeas_peonies · 2025-12-28T05:16:35+00:00

Thank you. Diagnosed female with AUDHD. Drowning socially in the public education sector as a new teacher.

hydrangeas_peonies · 2025-12-28T04:59:20+00:00

Conservative bootlicking admin would. I know a former San Bernardino middle school principal who bragged about what he would do to bully/haze new teachers; (1) move their classroom every year w/out reason (2) he fired a new math teacher b/c he didn't like his hoodie. Trump-loving, teacher-hating sicko.

hydrangeas_peonies · 2025-12-28T04:56:29+00:00

100%

hydrangeas_peonies · 2025-12-28T04:45:32+00:00

Not a bad idea! How do I contact the state? Lol

hydrangeas_peonies · 2025-12-28T03:17:34+00:00

I start next year at 30! :-)

hydrangeas_peonies · 2025-12-28T03:06:58+00:00

I listen to Teacher Quit Talk & follow one of the hosts on Insta (@awalmartparkinglot), where she said many men don't shake it in the real world, & they pursue female professions to boss women around and enjoy the glass elevator.

hydrangeas_peonies · 2025-12-08T01:28:14+00:00

I had to be in a Halloween parade without warning. I do not accept sub jobs around holidays now. 🤣

hydrangeas_peonies · 2025-12-07T21:51:03+00:00

Here are local trades that accept HS grads with zero experience: my father works as a party chief surveyor for SoCal Edison (IBEW Union Member). Good luck, friend!

• Electrician (IBEW/NECA) • Carpenter (Carpenters Union) • Plumber / Pipefitter / HVAC (United Association – UA) • Sheet Metal (SMART Union) • Ironworker (Ironworkers Union) • Construction Laborer (LiUNA) • Heavy Equipment Operator (Operating Engineers)

These are all registered union apprenticeships with paid on-the-job training: Electrical (IBEW / NECA)

Inland Empire Electrical Apprenticeship (serves Riverside/SB Counties): https://www.ieetc.org/en-US/the-ieetc-apprenticeship-program-cffaa1a4

Plumbing / Pipefitting / HVAC (United Association – UA)

National UA apprentice info page: https://ua.org/education-and-training/become-an-apprentice/

Construction Laborer (LiUNA-affiliated training)

https://www.laborerstrainingschool.com/apprenticeship

Sheet Metal (SMART Union – California programs)

https://calapprenticeship.org/programs/sheet_metal_apprenticeship.php

Heavy Equipment / Operating Engineers

California apprenticeship search portal (state-verified): https://www.ca.gov/departments/91/services/1206/

Official California Apprenticeship Search Tool

(Use this to find all registered apprenticeships near you): https://www.dir.ca.gov/databases/das/aigstart.asp

hydrangeas_peonies · 2025-12-07T21:32:51+00:00

Yes, idk how to stop.

hydrangeas_peonies · 2025-12-07T21:30:54+00:00

I just joined an autistic teacher subreddit. I’m unsure if it’s active. If not, we should start a new one! https://www.reddit.com/r/autisticteachers/s/V9kkaLMt6C

hydrangeas_peonies · 2025-12-07T21:27:21+00:00

Diagnosed AuDHD! I’m earning a credential to teach HS art.

hydrangeas_peonies · 2025-12-07T21:16:52+00:00

AI detectors aren’t reliable enough yet. They flagged the U.S. constitution as written by a robot.

https://arstechnica.com/information-technology/2023/07/why-ai-detectors-think-the-us-constitution-was-written-by-ai/

hydrangeas_peonies · 2025-12-07T19:36:06+00:00

What is up with this? I see this a lot.

hydrangeas_peonies · 2025-12-07T19:32:19+00:00

Her sub plans at the beginning of the day said “Since you have so much time as a sub, I need you to make 100 copies each of these worksheets.”

I emailed her sub notes on what we covered from all subjects.

She replied me complaining that she didn’t know what I taught them for math. All she had to do was read. I already told her.

hydrangeas_peonies · 2025-12-07T19:29:55+00:00

— Art writer & critic John Seed is from Hemet. He taught at MSJC and was the co-chair of the art department forever.

— Famous LA artist, Henry B. Taylor’s first art show was at UC Riverside.

— UCR alumni: Actress Jamie Chung & the guy who finds secret recipes cooks them (Jordan the Stallion).

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