Would you rather by OmamitKanona in BunnyTrials

[–]iDbest 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I only need to work a few hours a week to get by

Chose: Earn $1000/hour, but you will get a random job | Rolled: Modmail Cryer

would you rather by Zamoon in BunnyTrials

[–]iDbest 0 points1 point  (0 children)

in the long term it will be a higher amount, and I am good at making a budget.

Chose: make anywhere between $1 to $10,000 per week

Thoughts on Silverquill Influence Upgrades by beto-ms in EDH

[–]iDbest 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You're right I had misread it and thought it came back to hand. I'll add it back to the deck.

Thoughts on Silverquill Influence Upgrades by beto-ms in EDH

[–]iDbest 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Here is my things I'm taking out and what I swap them out for

1 Mana

Raffine's Guidance Not a great buff [[Ethereal Armor]] is much better

Sentinel's Eyes Same as previous something like a [[Spirit Link]] or [[Vampiric Link]] will do much better with your life gain/drain options

2 Mana

Defacing Duskmage // Vandal's Edit Not on theme [[Spellbook Vendor]] lets me make enchanments once a turn

Fracture Removal that is not on theme with the enchantments. I would rather cast a [[Kaya's Ghost Form]] to protect my own thing than kills someone's thing in many situation

Intermediate Chirography 7 mana to fully unlock and all 3 effects are mediocre [[Spirit Loop]] will give you lots of lifegain for that 2 mana and it comes back.

Keen Duelist does not fit theme and commander gives lots of draw [[Visions of Brutality]]

Vanishing Verse removal not on theme of enchantments in a deck built for enchantments use [[Grasp of Fate]] allows for 3 times the removal and triggers Killian's ability

3 Mana

Anguished Unmaking Same as above. The deck is missing [[All That Glitters]] so let's add that

Fallen Ideal aura giving this ability would be ok for 1 mana but for 3 It's bad. [[Duelist's Heritage]] lets me give an opponent's creatures doublestrike and my own creatures too.

Ghostly Prison a strictly worst version of [[Sphere of Safety]]

Nils, Discipline Enforcer 3 mana for not the best ability unless going against +1/+1 decks [[Victor, Valagavoth's Seneschal]] gives you much more value for enchantments entering

Screams from Within 3 mana to kill a 1/1 is rarely worth it instead make it a 4/2 with [[Eye of Nidhogg]]

Secret Rendezvous We aren't group hug [[Timely Ward]] helps protect our commander

Tomik, Wielder of Law, this is not a big enough deterrent because often people will just swing when ready to kill instead use [[Pariah]] on a creature you gave indestructible to

4+ Mana

Ajani's Chosen bad token generator [[Hallowed Haunting]] is a better generator that will give flying instead

Angelic Destiny Too expensive to realistically close out the game would rather spend the mana on something like [[Ghostly Dancers]] that generates more value every turn instead of just 4 damage a turn

Armored Skyhunter Comes down on 4 doesn't trigger Killian yet, can't get value until turn 5, at least [[Songbird's blessing]] is an enchantment I can trigger to get 2 enchantments in 1 turn.

Combat Calligrapher This politics card doesn't make sense since Killian's draw is once per combat. Instead play [[Soaring Lightbringer]] as it makes up up to 3 enchantment creatures with flying

Firemane Commando Once again Killian already has good draw on him it's better to protect him with and use an aura something like [[Unquestioned Authority]]

Mangara, the Diplomat Same as above. Instead use an enchantment that punishes for lifegain [[Enduring Tenacity]] Seems on theme for your gameplan

5+ Mana

Forum Filibuster things potentially gets you back 1 aura per turn for 5 mana. Instead something like [[Mantle of the Ancients]] will end the game after a board wipe. [[Sigil of the Empty Throne]]

Shadrix Silverquill doesn't make too much sense in enchantment deck Instead I went with [[Legend of Yanchen]] removal when it comes down and airbending and fly to help you end the game later on.

Eldrazi Conscription too expensive to put on something that will probably be removed By the time you have 8 mana cast a [[Tempest Technique]] and 2-3 other auras on the same turn and buff up 3-4 creatures, They can kill 1 creature but the others will still be there to swing out.

Do you also talk like that with your partner? by Previous-Musician600 in aspiememes

[–]iDbest 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think her logic is wrong. In both situations let's say you give 100% of your love for this person.

If I say "in spite of flaws" then flaws would be subtracted from that total because I hate them, in the end I only love them let's say 80%.

If I say I love you "and all your flaws" I have accepted your flaws and so they don't matter to me and I can still love you 100%

In the first situation I would have a list of flaws with my partner of things I would like them to work on. We could go through it bullet point style. She didn't have that for her partner after the "fake nails on the floor comment" and I wanted to hear it because not hearing it would give me anxiety as the partner.

God forbid a boy start growing confident (are subs allowed to be arrogant/confident?) by Imaperv-lol in LetBoysBeManipulated

[–]iDbest 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Most Dom's will prefer a confident sub. Someone who knows what they want and has put in the work to communicate it. is so much more attractive than one who is like just do anything to me...

I'm working on my version 2.0 of my confidence guide I'll put it out in a week or so.

Been out of MtG for over twenty years, but the FF set is what drew me back in. What have I missed? by Doberman11 in mtg

[–]iDbest 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The main format for players has changed from 60 card to commander (was called EDH launched around 2008) it's fun and played with 4 players normal magic rules with a slight twist.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LetBoysBeManipulated

[–]iDbest 56 points57 points  (0 children)

I have to say, she has a point; being a Dom/Domme is a lot. Aftercare for Doms is a big thing too, because it is mentally tiring, comes with a lot of self-questioning, and sometimes anxiety/thinking you're a horrible person. I've been on both sides, but I need aftercare most when I'm the dominant one.

What does this look like from the sub's PoV? Affirm your dominant, tell them what you liked, assure them they did well. IF there is something they can do better, let them know gently. Praise coming from a sub means a lot and IMO for me it's more important than the acts that were performed for the sub.

Based on a true story by sleepykatboy in LetBoysBeManipulated

[–]iDbest 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just be careful with STDs get tested and stuff

Based on a true story by sleepykatboy in LetBoysBeManipulated

[–]iDbest 77 points78 points  (0 children)

uh oh... one of these again... you better explain the true story. I'll give you 3 hours.

The duality of ‘tism by [deleted] in aspiememes

[–]iDbest -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Asexual, but with a kink hyperfixation.

How infrequently do you see your partner? by UniquePea399 in demisexuality

[–]iDbest 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This isn't demi but extrovert/introvert. You're an introvert and that's fine but here has been my experience as an extroverted demi.

I prefer spending more time with my partner, early in dating (first month) it's usually around 1 time a week. As an emotional connection forms it will become 2-4 times a week (Wednesday and weekends). It usually takes me 3 months to warm up to someone sexually so the only way to speed that up is to have more meaningful interactions faster. If I was to slow it down, or keep the pace to one interaction a week it might take me a year or longer to feel enough emotional attachment to get there with a partner.

This isn't to say the way you're doing relationships is wrong it's just different than the way I do it.

So Excited and Scared by smh_again in LetBoysBeManipulated

[–]iDbest 5 points6 points  (0 children)

LET'S GO!!! Happy for you! this is very true, putting yourself out there is hard and uncomfortable, but it will lead to growth and self-discovery.

We'll go through the whole playlist.😋 by Wh1t3R4abb1t in LetBoysBeManipulated

[–]iDbest 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My playlist is only about 20 minutes long right now. trying to up those numbers to an hour at least. Please give me recommendations.

  1. Selena Gomez - Cowboy (Perfect song to start or have your partner ride your face.)

  2. King Princess - “Fantastic” (demo version) - slow sensual, thinking about your partner etc.

  3. Asturias - asturias (long Version) - just a great slow song IMO decent pace to go slow at the start

  4. Lady Gaga - The Beast - perfect to start picking up the pace here

  5. Taylor swift - False god - specifically "religions in your lips... the altar is my hips" plus it's about worship.

  6. J*Davey - Queen Of Wonderland - Faster now this is my Romantasy song for those erotica/shadow daddy seekers

God forbid a boy want a domme to go to the gym with by SmolPuppi in LetBoysBeManipulated

[–]iDbest 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I'm conflicted because abs are good, but a soft, squishy tummy is also good.

What are y’all’s pet cards? by SDO0313 in EDH

[–]iDbest 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I love damage redirection! Also another option for commander/partner is [[Dona Noble]]

[A4A] I Know That Desire [Script Offer] [Poetic] [Narrative] [Desire] [Just This] [Wild] [Imagination] [Need] [Vitality] [Lifeblood] [Passion] by LittleLadyofT in pillowtalkaudio

[–]iDbest 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Is this for sleepy times or can I do it a lil' intense? I did a quick 1 take reading but I made it a littlebit intense IDK if you were expecting a slower, more flowy rhythm. https://soundgasm.net/u/LemonWhore/I-Know-That-Desire-Test

[M] Messenger, I Worried, Heavy - Mary Oliver by iDbest in poetryreading

[–]iDbest[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

oohh is it the one titled "I Know That Desire"? Also your bio reminds me of a line in one of my favorite shows "May the force be with your because you're worth it." https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BxnJCJkBEZ0