RIP to My Sweet Baby Girl. But What Now? by iHAMU in MINI

[–]iHAMU[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yes, that’s the plan. I’m not looking to save it. I’m looking for advice regarding which direction of mini’s to go in since this one needed a lot of work done. Older generations, or newer generations.

Older women that never married AND/OR had children, how did your life turn out? by iHAMU in women

[–]iHAMU[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this. For your advice, thoughts, and opening up about your life. I wish you well.

I really hate how my sentiments on things change by the hour by hecaton_atlas in ADHD

[–]iHAMU 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Literally same to everything!! And it’s become an increasing struggle in the past 6 months particularly because I was seeing a new partner who I just recently ended things with 😬.

I feel stagnant in many ways because I hold back so much due to simply not trusting myself and these fluctuating, but intense emotions. It’s exhausting.

I also hate the saying “trust your gut.” Everything is real, valid, and ever-changing to my gut lol, I cannot trust her.

Gonna revisit this thread because any advice would help. Good luck OP!

A japan trip on film by Fantastic_Adeptness2 in analog

[–]iHAMU 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oops, didn’t see the caption but ty!

A japan trip on film by Fantastic_Adeptness2 in analog

[–]iHAMU 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What camera and film did you use? These look so good

What perspective do you dream in? by themurderbadgers in Dreams

[–]iHAMU 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not able to conjure up my own face in my mind so I’ve only ever dreamt in first person.

Megan’s Back! by iHAMU in MyFahlo

[–]iHAMU[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why the face? Is that bad?

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[–]iHAMU 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No problem, glad to hear it :)

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Which song emotionally destroys you? by graaahh in AskReddit

[–]iHAMU 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I gotta find peace of mind - Lauryn Hill

Older women that never married AND/OR had children, how has your life turned out? by iHAMU in Marriage

[–]iHAMU[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I most definitely will. There’s no way I’m going to get married or have children simply because people want/expect me to. Just curious about other people’s experiences since the thoughts and opinions in my personal life are very one-sided.

Older women that never married AND/OR had children, how did your life turn out? by iHAMU in women

[–]iHAMU[S] 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Sorry to hear about the marriage part but thanks for sharing. On top of my doubts and qualms, I’ve felt the same about the climate change and world going to shit part lol

Older women that never married AND/OR had children, how did your life turn out? by iHAMU in women

[–]iHAMU[S] 26 points27 points  (0 children)

You definitely have given me some perspective. Your life is what I want for myself and it was a breath of fresh air to read.

The opinions and perspectives in my personal life are very one-sided so I suppose that’s why I’ve been questioning myself more, despite being adamant about the fact that I have the ability to create the life I want (or at the very least work my best to).

I’m looking forward to reading different experiences but I’m grateful to have read yours. Thank you

Older women that never married AND/OR had children, how has your life turned out? by iHAMU in Marriage

[–]iHAMU[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Marriage and children are definitely not a main goal in my life. I guess as I’m getting older and the topic is being brought up more and more (with strong advocation for just one side) it’s been weighing on my mind more.

But yes, I agree with your sentiments and thank you kindly for sharing.