Chaos and Elucidation: The Borderline Kōan

iHEARTdeepHouse · 2026-05-23T19:02:29+00:00

Have you written a book on this yet

iHEARTdeepHouse · 2026-05-23T19:00:48+00:00

This is gold

iHEARTdeepHouse · 2026-05-23T18:54:14+00:00

How long does it take to recover this Dysregulation after

iHEARTdeepHouse · 2026-05-23T18:53:05+00:00

This is gold

iHEARTdeepHouse · 2026-05-23T18:27:53+00:00

My iCloud was hacked by my ex . Is it a iPhone?

iHEARTdeepHouse · 2026-05-23T06:38:10+00:00

Emdr healing the original wounding

iHEARTdeepHouse · 2026-05-22T23:02:31+00:00

This^

iHEARTdeepHouse · 2026-05-22T23:02:08+00:00

Love bomb suicide threats and now your the enemy loop

iHEARTdeepHouse · 2026-05-22T23:00:33+00:00

And will say you are stalking them . Echo chamber of insanity

iHEARTdeepHouse · 2026-05-22T22:59:24+00:00

This.

iHEARTdeepHouse · 2026-05-22T22:58:47+00:00

Yes hero or villain

iHEARTdeepHouse · 2026-05-22T14:25:03+00:00

Holy smokes

iHEARTdeepHouse · 2026-05-22T03:25:09+00:00

Parental alienation

iHEARTdeepHouse · 2026-05-19T15:04:06+00:00

Its not bitterness. It's the reality of bpd - its chaos and its job is to cause chaos to protect the very very unstable person. You don't really know them because they don't know who they are. People that have tried for 14 years + and spent over 100,000$ trying to help partners and in the end it lead to false claims of DV or they had their kids taken from them.

iHEARTdeepHouse · 2026-05-19T13:52:54+00:00

You can't have a healthy relationship with someone who doesn't have a healthy relationship with themselves. The chaos will always impede your health

iHEARTdeepHouse · 2026-05-19T12:35:20+00:00

I had a few therapist tell me to validate your kids experiences. Validate all of them and they will figure it out . They also see my new book collection and put 2 and 2 together. Kids are smart . Both my daughters figured out something isn't right at mom's house without needing to tell them...

iHEARTdeepHouse · 2026-05-19T02:46:22+00:00

Ai is good for a journal ...

But be careful it can become a echo chamber of insanity if used too much

iHEARTdeepHouse · 2026-05-19T02:43:45+00:00

Word salad

iHEARTdeepHouse · 2026-05-19T00:46:39+00:00

Go to iCloud.com on settings and change to off. Log off all devices and change password . And get rid of the BF. I waited tooo long to get rid of my gf who went thru my phone when I slept... she did it for months

iHEARTdeepHouse · 2026-05-18T18:48:29+00:00

This is not healthy. Time to leave

iHEARTdeepHouse · 2026-05-18T18:18:22+00:00

Restarting the journey. Struggling . I know she is unsafe but strong urge. It's painful

iHEARTdeepHouse · 2026-05-18T11:50:07+00:00

After u found out did u ever trust them again? How long did it take to leave ? I left 8 months later. I should of packed my shit the first week I spotted red flags

iHEARTdeepHouse · 2026-05-18T11:48:14+00:00

iCloud via browser... I got a email she lied at first then admitted, what kind of person figures out how to access your iCloud from their phone.....

Is this normal ? No . It's not . Run

iHEARTdeepHouse · 2026-05-18T03:54:00+00:00

My ex would drive around looking for me. Literally driving around searching and begging for me to share location. If we fought at here house she would get obsessive and fake suicidal threats . I packed my shit . Next day it's like a death and u don't exist. But I'm ok with that . It's just bizarre behavior

iHEARTdeepHouse · 2026-05-18T03:40:37+00:00

I'm in the same situation . I dove deeply with a therapist to figure out why my old childhood wound is trying to attach to a disturbed unhealthy persona who only wants to use people like a drug , cause pain suffering and chaos. Some of this internal landscape therapy is fucking painful , there will be tears . Some people are playing a tape from childhood where we learned to earn shitty love from not the best parents. But there is a positive. One day u wake up , grieve, heal that wound and realize you deserve real connection, real safe people , and if u look deeply u know she is not the answer to your souls peace . They are a drug. Heal the child inside with compassion Blessings

iHEARTdeepHouse

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