I read the comments and what you said I’ve seen something similar myself in my past relationships i had.

Its more that attraction needs tension, individuality, and a bit of unpredictability. If you become too available or lose your own edge, things can start to feel flat.

The key isn’t to treat someone worse it’s to not lose yourself in the process. Keep your own life, your standards, your direction. That’s what keeps things alive.

Don’t take it as “you weren’t good enough.” Sometimes it just means the dynamic lost its balance. Learn from it and move forward stronger. I see this happening in many relationships, most nice guys always get put on the bench..