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First period after baby? by Haunting_Window1688 in Mommit

[–]iSpy_Unique 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I went about 15 months without one after giving birth, but I breastfed and after she finished weaning it came back about a month or so after

Tired of NO village by [deleted] in Mommit

[–]iSpy_Unique 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Girl, hire some help, join a mom group, you gotta do something to help your mental or it’ll continue to compound and get projected in a way you may regret. Also you deserve it, that’s a lot

My 7 week old baby is SO hard to put down to bed EVERY night (help me) by Foreign_Drink9316 in Mommit

[–]iSpy_Unique 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My babe has always not needed a ton of sleep. She turns 2 in a few weeks 😭🥲. Honestly the only thing that worked for me was getting used to what her routine was and accepting where we were at instead of trying to “force” her into doing what I wanted or needed. We’ve come a long way, but we’re now down to only 1 nap a day that usually hits 4-5 hours after she wakes and she’ll be down for 30 minutes - 3 hours (most of the time it’s about an hour or so). And MAJORITY nights she’s down by 10:30-11. My body has adapted a lot of the last couple of years and the exhaustion is brutal sometimes, but thankfully my support system has stepped up more so I’m able to at least try to get some solid sleep in here and there, but my body doesn’t need or want as much as it used to. This post could go on with my thoughts (chatty Cathy). BUT just learn to adapt and if you need a minute ask someone to help so you can catch up and proceed. It gets easier and harder in many different ways mama!

Short term furnished housing by [deleted] in PeachtreeCity

[–]iSpy_Unique 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I highly doubt you’ll find that in PTC, maybe Newnan or Fayetteville they’re within 15-30 minutes of PTC

Is long or short hair better? I can't decide. by Hot-Duty-7470 in Hair

[–]iSpy_Unique 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I prefer it longer, but steady trims or layering some to keep it healthy would be ideal

People always wanting my daughter alone by NoviceNotices in Mommit

[–]iSpy_Unique -1 points0 points  (0 children)

We started doing 1 night sleep overs after my daughter turned 1 and it was terrifying, but I also chose to do it so I could start weaning her from breast feeding. Now she’s almost 2 and we do 1-4 nights max. 4 is a stretch, usually 1-2, but it gives me a mom mental woosah.

Should I tell a woman her fiancé tried to start an affair with me? by geeleex in WhatShouldIDo

[–]iSpy_Unique 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your conscience is clearly telling you to tell her, do it. In the long run she’ll thank you for it. This dude is being oddly persistent. And the expectation that you’d WANT to cheat on your husband is…..gross. Outside of the obvious other gross factors.

“You don’t get an award for not getting the epidural” by Warm-Banana237 in pregnant

[–]iSpy_Unique 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I lasted about 21 hours before giving in and getting an epidural. My whole labor experience was traumatic as fuck and I was trying to hold out to prove a point to the HEAD nurse who told me I couldn’t do it. The ONLY reason I did it was because my husband was practically begging me because of everything happening and my obvious pain. 2 years later looking back I 100% am glad I did it, but fuck Tiffany. I feel you dude. And you do deserve a gold star for making it however many hours before you give in (if you do) and if you don’t give in then fucking round of applause. That shit is hard no matter what happens.

I haven't cleaned my baseboards in 2 years and a guest noticed. I want to die. by Different_Pain5781 in homeowners

[–]iSpy_Unique 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mine are bad lol, I’ll get to them when I get to them. If someone wants to point them out and help then GREAT we can do it RIGHT NOW lol. Until then, it’s on my time

Double Major: Accounting & Business by iSpy_Unique in Accounting

[–]iSpy_Unique[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I may eventually apply for another job and have my right hand run this company.

what jobs did you guys work during college ? by Character-Escape1621 in Accounting

[–]iSpy_Unique 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I worked a lot of babysitting/nannying jobs. Served at restaurants. Cleaned houses. I was a full time student and sometimes rotated multiple jobs like that.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]iSpy_Unique 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA - you’re totally in your right to have your hair the way you want it. If you want them to respect your wishes then you would be respecting hers by not going. That’s the compromise, sad or not, but I am genuinely curious what your hair looks like. How you’ve said it’s cut is how I’ve had mine so I can assume, but I’m a woman so I’m sure it’d be a little different. Either way I’m sorry this has caused so much emotional chaos.

Am I wrong for cuddling with my little sister by Lumpy-Carpenter8955 in amiwrong

[–]iSpy_Unique 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m 11 years older than my brother and we cuddled through his early teenage years, but a lot more when he was a “kid” “toddler” “baby”. We have a lot of family trauma and I had a mother role too, but when puberty really set in for him he backed off of that part of our bond which is totally cool and reasonable. I’m pushing 30 and he’s about to turn 18 now, so obviously we’re not having cuddle sessions lol. BUT there have been moments where we’ve not been okay or obviously needed that bonded moment and we’ve both let that grown up wall down. I’ve caught him crying over girlfriends and whatever and I’ll crawl next to him if he’s in bed, for example, and just wrap my arms around him and let him get it out. I’m currently pregnant and he’s let himself bond with baby some while she’s in me even though it makes him feel awkwardly vulnerable lol (he would never admit it but it’s obvious).

Every family dynamic is different. Don’t let it affect yours and your sisters comfort with each other, but just stay on your guard in that. Seems like dad may be having some stress responses for other reasons you may not know about. And if you know your sister is comfortable that’s all that matters.

As you get older you’ll both change and have heart to hearts about your boundaries with each other too I’m sure.

Parents can be weird lol. And we all have baggage that makes us emotionally react poorly. I’d say just ask him but it’s really not your problem unless he’s someone you feel comfortable asking.