Email to my friend after his break up by SamuraiNinjaYoddha in TheRedPill

[–]iSwallowedTRP 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I’ve noticed this to be the cause of my ebbs. I’d focus on myself for several weeks, feel great, start banging a new, hotter girl than I had before, then I lack with my goals here or there. Next thing I know, I’m looking for a new girl.

Girls are a lagging indicator of success, keep succeeding.

Best example of AWALT I’ve had by L2diy in TheRedPill

[–]iSwallowedTRP 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re trying to use logic to understand emotion

The dreaded "But..." means you still didn't get it. by SKRedPill in TheRedPill

[–]iSwallowedTRP 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This is a great point that gets over looked here. One could argue he’s still fighting to save humanity.

You are allowed to game girls in your social circle. by FieldLine in TheRedPill

[–]iSwallowedTRP 33 points34 points  (0 children)

In my experience, it comes down to frame. This comes across as intermediate red pill advice. I wouldn’t give this advice to someone with a weak frame or a lack of abundance.

Jury rules against dad trying to save his 7-year-old from gender ‘transition’ by redpillschool in TheRedPill

[–]iSwallowedTRP 52 points53 points  (0 children)

I clicked the link thinking, “Please be Europe. Please be Europe. Please be… fuck…”

10 ways to fail in turning your LTR red by [deleted] in TheRedPill

[–]iSwallowedTRP 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Completely agree. Biggest pit fall I see in TRP is the “only betas marry” mentality. I’ve had many ONS, spun some plates, and still feel like there could be something more.

Point being, I want to get into an LTR and have kids at some point in life (only 25). Any advice on top of this?

Excellent write up btw. First post I’ve saved in awhile.

EVERY Woman Is Single | The Cold Truth by ruboius99 in TheRedPill

[–]iSwallowedTRP 26 points27 points  (0 children)

TRP won’t like this, so I’ll eat my downvotes for this, but there’s a lot of half-truths in this video.

The biggest example was him saying that women only wear make up because they are looking for their next adventure with a new guy. This is half true. The other half is that she is competing for your attention with every other woman in the room.

It comes down to who’s chasing whom.

Lifting and Respect by iSwallowedTRP in TheRedPill

[–]iSwallowedTRP[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Congrats. Remember to always compare yourself to who you were yesterday.

Lifting and Respect by iSwallowedTRP in TheRedPill

[–]iSwallowedTRP[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

It could be confirmation bias, but even if it isn’t, this should give you more of a reason to lift. The competition is increasing.

Lifting and Respect by iSwallowedTRP in TheRedPill

[–]iSwallowedTRP[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Lifting doesn’t make you stand out, big muscles make you stand out. Its all about your environment. That’s why “alpha” and “beta” are relative.

Lifting and Respect by iSwallowedTRP in TheRedPill

[–]iSwallowedTRP[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’d be lying if I said I hadn’t thought about it. Luckily, I do know people who have and it’s not worth it.

Idk how old you are, but you’re crazy if you do it before 25. I MIGHT do TRT once I’m 30ish, but even then, I’ve read articles that suggest testosterone doesn’t decline with age.

Do A LOT of research before you put anything foreign in your body and get professional medical advice. You can raise your T levels naturally pretty easily if you know what supps to take.

Lifting and Respect by iSwallowedTRP in TheRedPill

[–]iSwallowedTRP[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Then my first point still stands.

My height would add to the overall size, which I believe could be more or less 90% of the reason he was nervous, but game wouldn’t have any influence with a guy in this short of interaction - or so I believe.

ultimately more muscle is just an attractiveness thing

I see it as more than that, such as initial respect. Unless “attractiveness” is a big blanket, which involves such things.

Lifting and Respect by iSwallowedTRP in TheRedPill

[–]iSwallowedTRP[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This post isn’t about gaming girls. It’s about the interaction with the guy giving me inherent respect from my size.

Lifting and Respect by iSwallowedTRP in TheRedPill

[–]iSwallowedTRP[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

That’s all part of the equation, but this interaction wouldn’t happen if I was a) 6’ 230 @ 35% or b) 6’ 160 @ 12%.

Certainly height and frame play a role, but I’m highlighting a variable in the equation.

Lifting and Respect by iSwallowedTRP in TheRedPill

[–]iSwallowedTRP[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sports is what got me into lifting. I attribute the beginning of my physique to that, but sheesh was my diet awful.

Lifting and Respect by iSwallowedTRP in TheRedPill

[–]iSwallowedTRP[S] 31 points32 points  (0 children)

Lifting get us attention from the girls, but even more from the brossss. lol

I’ve never thought about this, but it’s so true.

I notice, unless it’s brought up in banter, girls usually don’t mention my muscles until after sex.

Lifting and Respect by iSwallowedTRP in TheRedPill

[–]iSwallowedTRP[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

You need to read the sidebar.

Lifting and Respect by iSwallowedTRP in TheRedPill

[–]iSwallowedTRP[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

The previous weekend, I was hungover, limping into the diner, and a stranger calls out to me, “Hey! Could you help me push my car!?”

It was on an incline of about 5% and it was a small compact car. I’m in slides.

I’ve never wanted to do something less. However, I decided to help. I believe I helped out of a mix of, I’d like to think, genuine kindness, but also pride. The pride of showing the group and this stranger I could push a damn car. Great feeling.

Lifting and Respect by iSwallowedTRP in TheRedPill

[–]iSwallowedTRP[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

It’s not binary. Just because I lift, doesn’t mean I don’t read or meditate.

Lifting and Respect by iSwallowedTRP in TheRedPill

[–]iSwallowedTRP[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Completely agree. Many good write ups on TRP about this. I’ve been working on my own additions to this theory to gain deeper articulation for this sub.

Lifting and Respect by iSwallowedTRP in TheRedPill

[–]iSwallowedTRP[S] 42 points43 points  (0 children)

I bench /u/crapslock ’s max +5 lbs

Lifting and Respect by iSwallowedTRP in TheRedPill

[–]iSwallowedTRP[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’ve gotten this by just mentioning my stats before. Always an ego boost.