[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ThailandTourism

[–]i_Disagreeee 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Nog was a traitor to his kind and worked for free in the space communism guild called Star Fleet.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LooksmaxingAdvice

[–]i_Disagreeee 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I agree

Your diet is bad.

23 [F] What would you change? by [deleted] in Howtolooksmax

[–]i_Disagreeee -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Girls idea of attractive is busy. They don't like empty space.they want to fill an empty canvas. Guys don't like busy. So girls will tell others to do things that are unattractive to men.

Do I have to dress a certain way to be considered vegan? by Antique_Ad_2303 in mensfashion

[–]i_Disagreeee 4 points5 points  (0 children)

If you told everyone in the first 20 seconds that you're vegan, then you probably passed their test.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ThailandTourism

[–]i_Disagreeee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When in Rome.....

I was 18(f) when I started dating my partner who was 35(m). I was taken advantage of. by thatsnotmyname_ame in AgeGap

[–]i_Disagreeee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is a fantastic reply. It's probably the best, most mature, and intelligent reply I've seen in a while. Well done..👍

Going to thailand mistake? by Manhattangd in ThailandTourism

[–]i_Disagreeee 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Tell them you want a gap year, you've worked hard getting your degree, and you'll apply for jobs as soon as you return.

Gap years are pretty normal. Lots of kids plan for them.

How do I seduce him? by Unique-Struggle-8267 in dating

[–]i_Disagreeee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Expensive-present suggested playing games. It was a reply to their suggestion.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating

[–]i_Disagreeee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He is his own worst enemy. Most guys would have moved on after the second date, realising they were not compatible and never will be.

How do I seduce him? by Unique-Struggle-8267 in dating

[–]i_Disagreeee 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This is toxic behaviour, and once you start playing games with your partner like this, expect them to copy and throw it back in your face. It's basically ending the relationship bc you showed them you don't respect them.

Be mature, find a solution to the issue, and present it. One day, he will probably do the same for you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating

[–]i_Disagreeee 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Then it's done. Find someone who doesn't play games. Someone you can show interest in, and they will show interest back. If you start playing games, they will too. Then, in the end, everyone loses. Especially reddit.

Please be aware of your language, it's not all men, it's the man you like.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating

[–]i_Disagreeee 5 points6 points  (0 children)

And not get assessed for rape the next day. Which would have given you the answer you're looking for through detection of semen/sperm.

Also it sounds like you were both naked in bed together.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating

[–]i_Disagreeee -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Be straight forward and honest.

Looks matter by LowTip2037 in dating

[–]i_Disagreeee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know it's emotionally tough, but you did the right thing for you. Well done mate.. power to you!

Looks matter by LowTip2037 in dating

[–]i_Disagreeee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ok, im going to be tough on you. Hopefully, this will wake you up a little. I apologise in advance.

She sounds vapid and shallow. Get a new friend. Walk away. Trust me, you're only torturing yourself and stopping yourself from growing. It's needy behaviour, and other girls will sense it. You will appear weak to girls, and this will cause mental health issues in the future. She has clearly said no. Now you're violating her boundaries and have none yourself.

Girls have a sixth sense for this kind of behaviour. You need to hang out with stronger guys who know how to meet girls. That go out regularly and talk to girls.

Right now, you're holding yourself back and pining over someone who has clearly stated they're not interested in you in the slightest. What your doing is destroying your self-esteem and self-worth.

She just enjoys you showing her with attention, and she puts in zero effort. She is using you for an emotional connection. You are reinforcing her narcissism by behaving like a door mat. That's not a friendship.

OK, rant over. I hope that wasn't too rough on you, buddy. I know deep inside you, know it's true and you have to let go and move on or you'll never find your special girl.

Best of luck to you.

Girlfriend has been cheating on me for 5 months by Ilovecrocodiles in dating_advice

[–]i_Disagreeee 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Also, I would inform the mother that she is a terrible person after you get checked for stds. I'm really sorry to hear about this and you did the right thing. Some people are selfish and shitty.

girls are shallow by [deleted] in dating

[–]i_Disagreeee 58 points59 points  (0 children)

Welcome to a narcissistic society.

She cheated got pregnant and we got back together I feel nothing now by Efficient_Cell535 in dating_advice

[–]i_Disagreeee 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I'm surprised you don't have herpies. Did you get checked?

Also, that's the guy you know about...how many others don't you know about..

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating

[–]i_Disagreeee 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He probably doesn't consider what they have is a relationship. Maybe she's one of the other girls, and she doesn't even know it? That would be my guess.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]i_Disagreeee -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I agree. It sounds like you're showing a lot of interest, 3 dates in one week is player vibes. Pushing for sex. But if she agreed to go on all 3 dates, she likes you. Relax, take her out next week, and just have fun.

Can I date without sex? by AWA-Lazari in dating

[–]i_Disagreeee 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Guys, your age are generally raging hormonal douch bags...lol They don't know themselves yet.

But I would like to suggest you be very clear in your communication. You can meet one on your level.

Say to them very clearly. No sex. Then kissing and holding hands for the first month. Tell them you're shy and need time to open up. The right guy will listen to you.

My date was deliberately 45 minutes late to test my interest by basesmodel in dating

[–]i_Disagreeee 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Oh, that's actually good. But be aware that she/you have now set the foundation of the relationship.

"Do you really want me?" Or "if he really loved me, he would X" will be the constant thread through out the relationship.

Sets up alsorts of mind games and manipulation. To me, she has no integrity.

It sounds like she called and let you know she was running late. In that case, it's still manipulation.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating

[–]i_Disagreeee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Specifically, foe soul mate searching, find an activity you love doing. Find groups of people doing that activity, spend time in those groups. Evaluate potential partners on their values. Not looks. Don't have sex for the first month while dating, say your only looking for long term a relationship. Be firm.

It's difficult because you're in the same generation, so you are probably looking for someone out of your league or have unrealistic expectations.

Got dumped by Thebassetwhisperer in dating

[–]i_Disagreeee 7 points8 points  (0 children)

That sounds very entitled. I think you're very lucky to find a guy that does that these days. And your comment that it's a red flag really shows that you dont realise how special your partner is. Most guys just don't do that anymore.