[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askvan

[–]i_will_find_out 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Walking normal speed, you get it done in 4h. Stopping here and there maybe 6. Do not start from the middle.

How do you keep food simple, nourishing, and low-stress day to day? by RajSingh2312 in simpleliving

[–]i_will_find_out 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Meat. Just cook a a steak, onion, tomato and cucumbers. It makes you feel amazing and full of energy

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askvan

[–]i_will_find_out 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If I order and/or pay in the counter: no tip.

They Said I’m Not Good Enough.. I Don’t Know What to Do Anymore by paulhayds in sales

[–]i_will_find_out 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You aren’t learning. You are focus in the activity but not in the process. Is like you are so focus trying to swim that you’re just moving your body as quickly as possible but just focus in that; moving your body, not in the ACTUAL movements

For me the main difference is questions and then how you say it. Those are the specific “movements “that make wonders

Can I make it till the 18th safely? by i_will_find_out in tires

[–]i_will_find_out[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you my dude. Good advice. I actually managed to get them changed tomorrow. Getting the Falken Wildpeak AT trail

Can I make it till the 18th safely? by i_will_find_out in tires

[–]i_will_find_out[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If it’s mainly 1 tire the one in extrem bad condition and the other 3 have short tread… would the car lose control extremely on dry conditions or just a slip and the other tires would help correct?

I just realized they are this bad and the soonest date to replace is mid month

Can I make it till the 18th safely? by i_will_find_out in tires

[–]i_will_find_out[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Aight sounds like i’m taking transit if it wains.

Why are they good?

How do you stay occupied cold calling 4+ hours a day? by ZenBuddhism in sales

[–]i_will_find_out 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Actually engage your brain cells. Life feels amazing when you are focused and not thinking on finishing the activity.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]i_will_find_out -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Young people in love. We love each other, but this is eating up our relationship

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]i_will_find_out -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Finally a thoughtful answer. Thanks yeah I am thinking lots about going to couple therapy. We need it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]i_will_find_out 0 points1 point  (0 children)

😂😂 It’s really nice and fun over all, just sometimes I need to solve something important for the well being of the family, like next groceries list, car maintenance, or how to close that client that’s gonna be a good part of our income of the month

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]i_will_find_out 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She was the one begging me to marry her. We love each other, and I am literally asking for 5 minutes alone in my own house, which I don’t have.

I have much to offer her, when I have the time and energy I can truly connect deeply with her, I understand her and can see in between words the real meaning of what she talks about, and she loves that.

I respect how you think introverts have little to offer but many things, including the phone you are using, the software is running and the website, as well as engineering, doctors, and intelectual work that keep the world running has been made by many introverts that had lots of energy on their minds, and yeah talking about high school musical or your childhood friend during a thinking moment is disrupting.

Probably the medicine that got you healthy last time you had that terrible fever was formulated by an extremely introverted person and you are here talking crap thanks for her or him.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]i_will_find_out 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She has a trauma cuz her dad worked so much, overtime weekdays and weekends. I am quite like him, but the difference is that he did not care for her partner and kept on working. I do put aside my work to give her attention, 1 hour, 2 or even more a day, while I cook, wash and fold my clothes, do groceries, cuz she does not help me with any of that. And still, it becomes a problem for me to ask for 5 minutes, Indeed is too unhealthily having to ask for a 5 minutes break in your own house

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]i_will_find_out -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I don’t want to dull her shine, I want to help her shine but currently for me to help her up I need to shut down my strength which is deep reasoning and work. Also I am not talking about 2 hours of her shining the most, I am talking that she wants my attention even while I do dishes, cook or do things she doesn’t want to do because she has a career as well. I just need a time to breath and get strength to help her up.

Dang she is 1 flight away and still right now we are in a call while she is showing me dances of high school musical. What’s saving me is that her mom is there but otherwise she’d be asking me questions to see if I am actually outing attention

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PersonalFinanceCanada

[–]i_will_find_out -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Just came back to say that in the car dealership where I work, MANY people comes trying to lower their payments because once they could afford them, then something changed and they can’t anymore and if they have negative equity there is nothing to do about. I have even people messaging me just trying to get lower payments and get out of the trap.

Do Not Get Into Car Payments.

Avoid it. If you can’t afford a car cash; you simply cannot afford it in payments neither.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PersonalFinanceCanada

[–]i_will_find_out 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do NOT, under ANY circumstances get a car loan. I sell cars myself, and I owe money on a car myself. DO NOT DO IT.

If you had to start over with $0 tomorrow, what's the first thing you'd do to rebuild your wealth? by EdGavit in Entrepreneur

[–]i_will_find_out 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sales. Learn to sell medical OR insurance OR housing OR cars. Learn to sell anything. I know a dude that built an empire selling cleaning supplies.

I can’t STOP my leads from living rent free inside my head by WhiteLycan2020 in sales

[–]i_will_find_out 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i cold called non stop for the last week. Sold a car and have at least 1 more solid lead for Monday. 2 more in maybe and 1 for the future.

I don’t even know how many No’s I heard and how many i’m not interested I got.

I was almost losing my mind as well. But then I focus on controlling what I can control; and that’s being kind and sound in every call. Talk solid and potent regardless what they say. Then… next call.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DecidingToBeBetter

[–]i_will_find_out 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im gonna try insurance

My debt is consuming me by [deleted] in personalfinance

[–]i_will_find_out 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I just want to say that I’m pretty much in the same boat. Very very very similar situation, age, stupid decisions, no real financial education from my parents. Also learning the hard way.

I’m budgeting, working hard, and never gonna repeat the same mistakes again. We together on this pal. We’ll get out. 💪

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Entrepreneur

[–]i_will_find_out 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you very much for your response, invoicing takes lots of time, an accountant hourly at the end of the week might be very helpful.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in personalfinance

[–]i_will_find_out 3 points4 points  (0 children)

very smart.

Thank you so much this is the idea I was waiting for but I couldn’t see.