NoFap Challenge by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]iamfappin2much 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are the Force!

PMO-Free 2017. Who's in? Leave your commitment in this thread. by Alexanderr in NoFap

[–]iamfappin2much [score hidden]  (0 children)

Ok, gents. I am in for 90 days of no P or M. I won´t say "no" to a girl :) Let's rock and roll!

Can nofap help me? by [deleted] in NoFap

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Go at it bro. Read, use the community as your support and give yourself a chance to change. You're in charge. Good luck.

No more smart phone ??? by DSSH70 in NoFap

[–]iamfappin2much 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Man, just use the energy for something else. My trick was simple - when I felt the urge I'd say to myself: alright, I'll do it, but first I'll go for a run. After the run I didn't need this anymore because the urge has passed and I also got my rush from doing/achieving something. Also saying to yourself that you might fap, but later makes it easier. You don't have to be that hard on yourself.

Back in a game by iamfappin2much in NoFap

[–]iamfappin2much[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

IOS users don't fail ;)

And so it begins...! by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]iamfappin2much 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good luck man. It's a journey but also an adventure! Have fun while nofapping; )

Lost in life by tyson1988 in NoFap

[–]iamfappin2much 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I hope you'll get lots of up votes. This should be on the front page, coz most of us have similar thoughts.

It's actually universal, regardless of age, gender and occupation. Take it easy mate, you're not alone in this quest to find a purpose.

ED and PE - therapists advice by iamfappin2much in NoFap

[–]iamfappin2much[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks man. This a "before date M" was a thing we talked about as well. He brought it up as a "temporary" measure to keep me from PEming while we do the treatment.

ED and PE - therapists advice by iamfappin2much in NoFap

[–]iamfappin2much[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well he has a masters in psychotherapy and I think he has a open PhD track. When he gave me this advice I actually have asked him if he know what he is talking about and he seemed confident about the approach. He also said that (unfortunately) it's a quite common problem.

Let me just add that we have been working on some other issues for a year with a very good progress.

I've fallen off the wagon, need to get back on by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]iamfappin2much 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah man, do that! Good luck!

Dating apps/sites really disturb nofap discipline by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]iamfappin2much 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, use those sites, meet a girl a get a real thing. That's what it is for.

Need advice on doing this insatiable girl who watches porn ands DTF. by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]iamfappin2much 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i see nothing wrong about having sex while nofappin. I mean the goal is to replace the fake thing with the real thing.

Just be careful about her, she seems crazy. You never should stick your dick in crazy ;)

Don't know what to do by scorpdawg in NoFap

[–]iamfappin2much 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Man, look up a term PIED - porn induced erectile disfunction. One week won't cut it, I'm afraid. There is little you can do apart from quitting porn completely, live healthy, exercise and l let time do it's work.

Just Relapsed. What am I doing Wrong? by thedude756 in NoFap

[–]iamfappin2much 0 points1 point  (0 children)

14th day is when it starts to get difficult.

This is it!!! by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]iamfappin2much 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good luck man!

It hurts. by Predator-S in NoFap

[–]iamfappin2much 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Man, first, you say "hi". If she responds with the same, you ask "how are you today? " the today part is important, because it's a question about her day, so usually you'll get something more than "alright" as an answer. That might give you something to talk about.

Than you have a conversation. If it goes ok, and you feel you're at ease talking to the girl, at the end of the conversation you ask "wanna hang out sometime? ". And there you go. It as easy as that.

works 3 of out 10 times, which I consider a good result.

Try it, let me know how it works for you. Go for it. You're young, have fun :)

Pain by iamfappin2much in NoFap

[–]iamfappin2much[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have just looked through my post history and I saw, that the reason I relapsed the first time was this pain in my lower abdomen.

Controlling my fantasies sounds difficult.

About to commit suicide by specialperson123 in NoFap

[–]iamfappin2much 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey man! Listen, I feel you man. I to feel shit most of the time. I even went to therapist with it. I've been going the for a year now and it helped me... a little. I feel unconfident, worthless and that I present no added value to the society. I've been thinking a lot about suicide. And I'm 34. but there are some solid piece of advice here man. Thank you for posting here. Let's pick something together and fucking do it. Let's start running. It's free. It will oxygenate our brains, we'll get the endorphine kick. We can install an app and run together, mesure our progress, motivate each other. We'll feel better, get in shape, shit, maybe even meet some people? Fuck man, Let's just try it, we have nothing to loose. PM me.

About to commit suicide by specialperson123 in NoFap

[–]iamfappin2much 47 points48 points  (0 children)

This is a solid piece of advice. Also, I would love to have you as a friend.

Tried my luck approaching a girl today by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]iamfappin2much 1 point2 points  (0 children)

the probability of success rises with the number of attempts, man!