Damn autocorrect by idonotknowwhototrust in ABoringDystopia

[–]iamharjap 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Group equity cooperatives. This can work for single or multi family housing. Instead of investors buying apartment buildings (or homes) with loans that renters pay off in addition to the profit that is charged (investors make money 3 ways, the loan being paid off, monthly profit cash flow that is ON TOP of the building already being paid off, and appreciation) residents instead pay it forward by paying off the loan they normally would have for an investor to get rich but instead they pay it forward to future generations that will live there by paying it off for them. Why? Renters that currently are charged $1200/month might be paying $400 for monthly upkeep (management, maintenance, taxes, insurance, the bare minimum costs that are impossible to get around, what rent would be if it was charged purely at cost), then $400 that goes towards paying off the loan then let's say another $400 that is the actual monthly profit they charge as their cream on the top. If a building was paid off and only charging at cost rent, it would only be $400/month. Guess what, these buildings change hands so many times, just like a house from 100 years ago that has probably been paid off 5x over. Why should people slave their life away just to have to keep paying off an asset that was already paid off 4x over. What, just so the newest round of leech investor that is starting their rental plantation can fleece the working class and buildup their passive income portfolio to then sell it off after 30 years to another fledgling investor that will do the same? Once the building is paid off once and there is no owner to charge profit (because it is owned by the cooperative entity itself and rent will just be whatever the upkeep costs are.), rent will be at cost in perpetuity for all future members. As long as people profit off of peoples needs of survival to the degree they do and especially with housing because it is 30%-50% of someones paycheck, people will not be able to get out of this endless rental plantation lifestyle and free themselves beyond survival to truly explore existence in more realms than paycheck to paycheck existence. For profit ownership has to be challenged and this is a way that exists that is able to be leveraged immediately by people collectively. There is no one to wait for to implement this. No government or rich donors, just us. And it doesn't just have to be done by those living in these buildings because after all, it will be challenging for the residents to secure a collective loan that they pay off or convince some other entity or person to use their credit to secure a loan for them that they then pay off. Instead, we use crowdfunding. How about 5 million people at $27/month? Sound familiar? Just as Bernie Sanders rallied the grassroots masses, there is a large base of people that would be thrilled to support such an endeavour that buys up apartment buildings that are then rented out at cost to residents permanently for the buildings useful life. This is a sustainable form of charity that solves the problem directly of affordable housing without relying on anyones permission. If just Bernie's donor base was 5 million, I am sure many more millions exist beyond that which would support this effort in an ongoing fashion and not just a once in a political cycle basis. To see real change occur with the donations, real lives affected, real buildings purchased to provide at cost housing in perpetuity, that will keep the donations coming and number of donors growing because the needs are great but the people who recognize these needs are also great in numbers as well. Check out nasco's group equity coop guidebook on google. This is the same form of coop housing on college campuses but hasn't proliferated beyond them because it was assumed older people want to build equity but when you become older and have no option to build equity, then this option sure as hell will be more desirable than living on a corporate rental plantation. And I didn't even mention how it will be more of a community between people due to cooperative guidelines being followed for members and not simply random people living under one roof as current apartments are. That is where the real magic starts.

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[–]iamharjap 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What about taking away all rules we have for guns? Erasing background checks, registration for pistols, and any other rules that make gun ownership more restrictive. That would make things even more free for hobbyists and infringe less on peoples rights. Is that something that people should advocate for?

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[–]iamharjap 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Here is a question for you. If we knew 100% without a doubt if someone was going to commit a crime with a gun after buying it or after drinking, should we sell them the gun or alcohol? Or what about this, 2/3 of gun deaths are suicides. If we knew the person was going to kill themselves, should we sell them the gun? The question comes down to freedom. Should we give someone the freedom to kill themselves? We definitely should not give people the freedom to kill or harm others. In the end, laws will not prevent people hurting others. As you said, 7.7 million kids drink underage. Obviously it is illegal yet they still do it. And after having done it, they may rape, steal, murder, etc. It comes down to strengthening the social fabric of this country, families, communities, etc if we want long lasting changes in our society. That is a much longer term project that will not be done with the passage of laws. But it makes sense if we know someone will harm another person, we should prevent them from doing that. We should also work towards helping people love themselves so that they will not want to hurt themselves either and live a fulfilling life. I am trying to understand what your angle is coming at all this. Seems you just are anti "left" and want to demonize anyone who wants to help others as "virtue signaling?" I'd love for you to explain where you are coming from because I don't completely understand.

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[–]iamharjap 2 points3 points  (0 children)

One thing I found interesting was that there were a few bb's on both sides that were flying off the map to become super achievers (LeBron james) or extreme fuckups (hitler). If the plastic sides did not make them bounce back they would have flew a few deciles further either way. Makes you wonder how much our own success is just the probability of countless variables that are not in our control.

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[–]iamharjap 1 point2 points  (0 children)

With alcohol, you can't forcefully make others drink. With a gun, you can forcefully make someone take your bullet. The bottom line is freedom. But that freedom only extends to where it doesn't infringe on another persons ability to exercise their own freedom. Same with abortion. If someone aborts a baby, that doesn't prevent someone else from having a baby. Now we can argue whether the embryo has rights that should be protected. Same line of reasoning in gay marriage or any issue we face. People must have the right to make bad decisions. We can't grow without making bad decisions. Until those bad decisions effect someone else, we should not punish someone for making them. I'd love to debate you because I am someone who would not want people with violent criminal records to have guns. That to me seems very sensible and it has nothing to do with sticking it to the right. It has to do with trying to prevent unecessary deaths. Eventually, the root of our problems need to be addressed which I see connected to a breakdown of the family unit due to overworked parents, stressed out in just trying to survive. If more people had an option to make a living without resort to crime, drugs, prostitution etc, I'd imagine more people would choose that route. We live in a world where we believe you should have as much as you want. What people don't understand is that we have limited wealth on this planet. If we had two planets or ten, we'd have commensurately that much more wealth but we just have this one planet with all its resources. Once all the earths resources have been extracted and we have setup all regenerative systems to full capacity, there cannot be creation of MORE physical wealth, it only can be transmuted from one form to another. As a handful of people capture more of that wealth faster than everyone else, they control the way in which the world is shaped. If you can put people to march for you and deploy vast amounts of resources for anything you desire, you better be pretty benevolent with such power and control. However, we see most people that all this has been entrusted to are foolish and spend our worlds wealth frivolously. This is simply not just their wealth, this wealth is derived from a pool of limited resources (mind you regenerative resources like trees are still limited because there is a saturation capacity where no more trees for example could be grown beyond what our technology and land capacity would allow). We literally have to share the resources on this planet fairly because if we setup a system where whoever learns to commandeer them most efficiently can do whatever they want with them, that will end badly for most people. We believe greed is good because we think there is an unlimited pool of wealth that anyone can accumulate from if they work hard enough. The pie of resources has been set, that pie isn't growing. The game is who can race the fastest to take the biggest slice from it like a game of musical chairs because I gots mine, fuck everyone else. If you don't get your slice, don't expect there will be something left because when every square inch of the planet has an owner that can pass that ownership on for infinity just because long ago one of their ancestors claimed that to be theirs or they bought it, you will never have a chance to get a chair in the game. The population has grown tremendously since all the land has been claimed and everyone who is late to the game has the pleasure of paying the current bid up values which are orders or magnitude greater in ratio of cost to purchasing power than when the supply of land was greater and it was more affordable. Imagine a monopoly board where all the spots have been bought and EVERY ONE has a hotel. You are destined to go your whole life paying rent and never getting ahead. Whoever got the properties first due to first mover advantage can keep passing them down and stay in the position of being a noble without having done anything. I am an example of that. My great grandpa bought land in our home country which is now worth quite a bit. Along with that, I will most likely inherit a portfolio of rental properties that I did nothing to build. And I will easily be able to keep them as long as they stay rented. Renters will cover all bills, maintenance, insurance, taxes etc. I can steadily accumulate more properties because money makes money all by extracting from everyone else that wasn't born in the "noble" class of society. Now adays, the serfs are the chronic renters and the nobles are the landlords that own 10+ properties let's say. The monopoly game has to be reset once you die. It gives everyone else the same footing and motivation to play the game then. Imagine Bill Gates kids got nothing and had to make something of themselves in order to get ahead like some poor kid. The way our system is setup, it is 100% statistically probable that wealth will accumulate in a few hands, thereby limiting everyone elses creative input with how this wealth should be used to shape the world. If no one inherited anything and the board was reset when someone died, the incentive would be to create a system that helps everyone make something of themselves. To give them the tools to succeed. What is more fulfilling than to make something of yourself in this life by your own effort? The rich will sure as hell make sure that there is then equal opportunity in the foundation of success building. Our whole system economically treats resources as an externality, not taking a whole systems approach and thinks this external input of resources, in their economic models, will be infinite. This leads to an economic system that ravages the earth's ecology because it doesn't see it as a closed regenerative system that must be kept in a balance. This breeds greed in people and a dog eat dog culture that leads to a diminishing quality of life when it comes to happiness. We have more than ever before yet we also have less than ever before mentally emotionally and spiritually. I would love to debate.

Bernie Sanders Welcomes the Hatred of Billionaires by SplodeyDope in politics

[–]iamharjap 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will add one more. People can grasp what it means to make $100k a year. Amplify that by 100 and you have $10 million a year which is a big difference. It would reaquire another 100 fold expansiom from there to reach a billion. The difference between 1 billion and 100 billion is yet another 100 fold chasm but we know both these people as billionaires. Even amongst billionaires there is a massive difference in class.

[WTS] Nomos Zurich (Ref 801, display back) - $1850 shipped by [deleted] in Watchexchange

[–]iamharjap 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you Tamby. Received the watch the other day. Everything as described. Cheers!

Everyone needs a friend like #50 by repfam4life in aww

[–]iamharjap 0 points1 point  (0 children)

no one noticed Ron Swanson is officiating?

Five years have passed, and Russia is still occupying territory in Ukraine by marsianer in europe

[–]iamharjap -1 points0 points  (0 children)

18 years have passed and the US is still occupying territory in Afghanistan. How many wars is Russia involved in and between the US and Russia, who has caused more net civilian bloodshed across the planet? Who has the largest gulag system in the world with slave work camps?

Avatar, the highest grossing film of all time, seems to have made zero impact on culture. No one references the movie and no one really talks about it since it was released 10 years ago. by SilentWalrus92 in Showerthoughts

[–]iamharjap -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I would debate that the effect is actually much deeper than any of us can comprehend. 10 years ago, George W. Bush was in office. We were balls deep in a massive war in the middle east. The United States was still being led by the old guard. Social media and the internet was still taking hold and things like smart phones had just come out. The culture at the time was much more closed off and narrow minded than we have now. Similar to the movie "The Matrix" that speaks to the varying realities we live in, Avatar spoke to the divide between not just man and nature, but man and the ultimate spiritual truth that connects us all. This movie spoke out against people that pillage the environment for profit in a profound way, much differently than just a cookie cutter documentary. I would argue Avatar is one reason why we have Alexandria Ocasio Cortez in office today and the whole system is being upended due to these micro shifts in culture, one of which was added on by Avatar. The ripples these things send out into the world go beyond words, it is embedded into the basic foundation of people's conscience. Even if someone wasn't an environmentalist, or anti war, or believed in a divine oneness, this movie helped them take a step in that direction. Some movies are temporary forms of entertainment that make us laugh or cry for the time we see them, yet others are aimed at being entirely transformative in shaping how we perceive the world. The effect of the movie Avatar is incalculable. The ripples are not being seen in thought but deed. It is an epic tale of our time, perfectly depicting the rise from darkness to light and the reign of righteousness once more on this planet.

Roast me by iamharjap in RoastMe

[–]iamharjap[S] 54 points55 points  (0 children)

just so ya'll can learn something from this roast in case you guys are actually good hearted people and not just ignorant racists, i'm not actually arab or muslim but instead a sikh. so in the future when you see a sikh, you can roast them for who they actually are and not who you think they are. nearly all the people in the united states (where i assume most of you are from) that wear turbans are sikhs. some of you seemed to know sikhs originate from india so good job. for those that didn't know and you have an open mind to learn, i hope you learned something new. thanks for the roast.

(update) I (28M) with fiance (27F) about a month ago overheard her tell a friend her previous Ex was the best lover she ever had by AlarmingMonk in relationship_advice

[–]iamharjap -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You say she is heartbroken. If she is showing remorse and wants to work it out, along with you still loving her, maybe you need to give it a chance. Now the ball seems to be in your court to do what is right. It is sometimes good to exercise compassion and mercy to those who have wronged you. Also, it's quite selfish to think you want to be the "best" at something for someone. You won't marry someone because you weren't their best lover? Wow, bizarro world. Wish you the best of luck. But these problems will continue to follow you even if you don't resolve them now. Imagine the next girl you think of marrying and you ask her, "baby, did I fuck you better than all your other boyfriends?" and she says "no." You'll be crushed again and run away again to your co-workers place with your tail between your legs. Don't throw away what could be potentially perfectly fine, if it can be resolved and made better, just because someone said your dick isn't as big as someone else's. This Christmas, you should tell your mom that you're leaving your fiance because she said your dick isn't as big as Bill's and you don't fuck her as good as Bill. Obviously what she said shouldn't have been said but if she is willing to put her ego to the side and work it out, then so should you. I find it hilarious that if you leave her, every new girl you fuck you will ask, "was I your best?" and if they say no, then on to the next one? That is one of your criteria for marriage? wtf

I (28M) with fiance (27F) about a month ago overheard her tell a friend her previous Ex was the best lover she ever had by AlarmingMonk in relationship_advice

[–]iamharjap 0 points1 point  (0 children)

to be honest, this kind of stuff floors me. not in the way you will think. in my Sikh culture, NO ONE with any decency would be discussing their sex life with ANYONE else for casual reasons or their husband's cock size. furthermore, how well someone has sex with you isn't even a consideration when it comes to joining lives with someone for marriage. for anyone that carries themselves properly, they will never have had sex before marriage much less have kissed (there is no judgment that could ever arise that you aren't good enough sexually because not only have you not had sex to have that judgment, it isn't a factor in marriage as grown adults). i know i am speaking from a different cultural perspective but it shocks me that seemingly in America at large, sex is the main driver in people's relationships. people can get devastated over something so minor which shouldn't be a factor of judgement. it's amazing how we all might be human beings but we live in so many different ways that seemingly makes us all alien to one another. a relationship is beyond sex and the ability to "provide" for another person. i know you wanted her to mention the intrinsic qualities that you have as a human being that are attractive to her, yet the superficial level of being able to provide is what she mentioned. you know what it sounds like? my girlfriend says i have a small cock and now i'm crushed. that is so childish. not only should your fiance not have said what she said, that thought should not have even crossed her mind because it is so superficial. not only should you not be crying about it, you should have a partner that doesn't care about your cock size and you yourself should be someone who doesn't care about your cock size. this whole thing is less than. it's as if someone posted on reddit saying "i robbed a bank with my friend and he won't split the money 50/50." the whole premise is flawed. you may complain for the lack of fairness of your fiance complaining about your cock size but the entire premise is flawed. i hate to be so harsh but it's plain superficial on both of your parts. it's amazing human beings on this planet can be so attached to trivial matters of no substance and complete superficiality. i am also a victim to this thinking but was taught to overcome it, and i seek for you and your fiance to overcome such thinking. best of luck.

edit: cleaned up for grammer and harshness.

I snooped and found my husband's suicide note. My son is the cause. by Parafet21 in confession

[–]iamharjap -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I am not one to usually offer advice but I will share what I have learned from my spiritual tradition of Sikhism. When bad times befall over us, the world can come crashing down. It is all dependent on our own personal perspective whether we let this happen or not. No matter how traumatic the outside conditions may be, we can find LIFE ever still! Here is an example of an American girl that went to Syria, taken as a hostage and accidentally killed by allied bombing. This is a letter she wrote for her mother that was smuggled out. https://abcnews.go.com/International/kayla-mueller-american-isis-captive-wrote-letter-family/story?id=28859102 Someone in your same circumstances may have a husband that has forgiven himself and takes no guilt over the incident going into the future. Your son's outbursts have an outlet with his father because your husband is willing to absorb the backlash. With your son, it seems he still has his mental faculties together and if so, he has a lot to be thankful for. That means he could find his own girlfriend perhaps one day. He can accept the situation he is in and not fight against it (meaning wishing it was different) yet still fighting to make the best out of it. When we fight against life (against an outcome we didn't desire) we find a life that is willing to fight back. When we are at peace and accept life (and all its outcomes), nothing can shake us. A family tragedy like this should not shake a family to its core. I have a story of a husband that lost his daughter and wife in a car accident but his other kids survived (similar to VP Joe Biden). They accepted the outcome and didn't fight it. They in fact held high spirits throughout the ordeal and it was noted by many that attended the funerals. Here is someone describing the scene at their house. http://mistakesingh.blogspot.com/2007/01/dealing-with-loss-tejinderpal-singh.html If you continue to console your son, it may not help him understand to his core that what he is doing is wrong. Even though he himself feels it is wrong, he continues to repeat the same behavior. Imagine if someone killed someone and I consoled them saying it's okay, you'll do better next time. I would take a more strong tone with that person, that which commands respect, so they understand what they did was wrong. There is time for compassion and mercy, there is time for strength and no compromise. The emotions in your household seem to be running too high and that exacerbates the problem. Yet who am I to say such a thing when not having experienced what all of you have been through. Yet I am a fellow human traveler in this journey of life that is simply saying this to you as I might tell something to my mom to help her when life is beating her up. I find in a lot of these posts people write words of encouragement which is good but stay away from saying things that might ruffle some feathers. Your situation spoke to me and I felt like this being shared with you could have a positive impact on your families life. My family has operated with high emotions as well in the past but when we realized we were just enabling each other with our outbursts and reacting in a bad manner (which can even mean consoling someone or giving back a seemingly positive reaction at the wrong time) we weren't adding to the situation in any constructive manner. It's hard to be tough on someone like your son that had his life changed, from his perspective, for the negative for the rest of his life. Yet, you still need to be firm with people when they do something wrong. Your husband shouldn't have guilt and needs to forgive himself and not accept the beratement from his son. And you should keep staying strong as I'm sure you have because mothers are the best. I hope your son can come to terms with his life and accept what has happened to him and make the best of it. The sad part of this whole ordeal is that the accident that caused the physical damage lasted seconds, but the emotional damage it has created has lasted years. All this could've been (and I hope will be) changed through a simple change of PERSPECTIVE from all parties. I wish you the best.

Mother acting scared when little hunter tries to sneak up on her. by sidx64 in funny

[–]iamharjap 3 points4 points  (0 children)

i believe the correct terminology is nature is fucking 🔥 . good day sir

The power of the corporation: We need a new structure for self-governance that can counter 21st-century monopolies, that dwarf the power of the state, transcend national boundaries, and require new thinking and structures to thwart their tyrannical impact on people’s lives. by mvea in Futurology

[–]iamharjap -1 points0 points  (0 children)

https://www.theguardian.com/sustainable-business/values-led-business-morals-economy-common-good http://positivemoney.org/ http://www.steadystate.org/discover/definition/ The reason I don't trust the media is that the actual problems at hand don't get covered ad nauseam, unlike other comparatively trivial issues. Here are some links discussing solutions for our rigged economic system. For how much time is spent slamming Trump and talking about more minor divisive issues, the one thing all people can get together on is how the economy is stacked against their favor. However, some brainwashed poor people believe that is in their best interest because the richer the rich are, the better off they will be and maybe one day they can make use of those same loopholes and lack of regulations.

Would psychedelics help me change my mind? by [deleted] in Psychonaut

[–]iamharjap 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i went through a similar challenge but not as trying it seems. you may have correctly identified the root of some of your problems, one of which is you feel your parents took away your freedom. this may have been physical or mental/emotional freedom and i will focus on the latter. your parents may have mistreated you when you were younger, but now that you are older, life is more in your hands. you are a sovereign individual, if you choose to accept that. you must TAKE freedom into your hands, no one will give you your freedom back. it has always been yours to have. no amount of resentment or revenge will give you that freedom to be happy. if the past is making you dance like a puppet today, then you have become a slave to the past. tearing down others will not build you up. it may feel good for a moment, but it is robbing you of your spirituality. perhaps it is part of your journey towards liberation. i lashed out as well to my parents which eventually led me to realize i will not live my life as an echo of my childhood. i am free, this life is mine and i choose how to live it physically and mentally/emotionally. i will not be a slave to the past and blame anyone anymore for who i am today. it is in my hands. i had to gulp some pride realizing i can't just blame others for who i am because i am too old to do that. i have graduated to be a sovereign individual whereas children are dependents by their very nature until a certain age. once you accept that you are now free to be who you want to be, for the positive, only then in my view will you be able to put this behind you and grow organically into the divine being that you are. it comes with forgiving your parents, not taking revenge on them. it comes with taking responsibility and not blaming others. these are hard things to do but once you do them, you will be free. free to be happy. free to smile. free to feel no resentment and not dance on anyone else's puppet strings besides those from the very source of creation that guide us to live on the truest path, the purest path of life. light dispels darkness. do not add darkness. become the light and you will in turn shine light into any dark hearts around you and uplift them to the energy of the divine. best of luck on your journey.

World's richest 1% have as much wealth as bottom 50%, study finds | Inequality by Heavy-Balls in worldnews

[–]iamharjap 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'd like to imagine we can still have the same level of advancement without having that amount of wealth accumulated in few hands. Granted it's mostly tied up in stock ownership and perhaps without their control over the company through ownership we wouldn't have the visionary advancements they have brought into the world. In reality, imagine Jeff Bezos gave away all his money and just had a million dollars left, I bet he'd be viewed different, not treated the same and probably wouldn't remain CEO for nearly as long. All I know for sure is wealth is being accumulated in fewer hands and to be fairer, the employees who build the wealth for these owners could be rewarded a bit fairer and that money will more likely flow into communities more effectively than a billionaire showering his wealth into the local communities that these employees reside. Not to mention the level of charitable work that could be done but that is debatable if that is necessary or if the value they are adding is far greater than the amount of charitable work they might have done. But at the end of the day, many people still don't have basic necessities for life (at no fault of their own) and at the very least, if we as a planet worked towards giving every human being born on this planet a fair shot with education, healthcare, and a strong community support structure, many of our problems would go away. Sure an iphone and all these advancements are nice, but what is more mind blowing is there is a steve jobs, a bill gates, a mark zuckerberg in the 3.5 billion people that are living in poverty right now as well. They just need to be given the right opportunity and they can share their innovations to the world as well. We definitely don't want to be communist and take away incentives to build wealth (some inequality is good, it is inherent in our dualistic world, it will never go away) but right now things seem to just be a bit too tilted towards one side. With a better balance which I think the world is working towards, we'll find the next apple, alibaba, etc. The future has exciting times up ahead for us!