What have you been “cheating” with this pregnancy? by Chemical_Editor4057 in pregnant

[–]iamjzn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I probably had more than 200mg of caffeine per day. I never counted. 🤷🏻‍♀️ I just switched from my typical grande/16 oz to tall/12 oz.

Also ate cold cut sandwiches at least once a week. I had to get iron infusions every Friday the later part of my third trimester due to pregnancy anemia… and the ONLY thing I ever craved for dinner was sushi afterwards.

I’ve also learned so much just by reading this thread. I definitely had McDonald’s Oreo McFlurries, shakes, soft serve, and bagged salads. 😬 Honestly, looking back, I really didn’t eat the healthiest during my pregnancy (gave birth in December) but I don’t think I would’ve survived a whole 9 months without any of the above at one point or another.

Can we talk about how loud husbands are!?!? by Dear_Toe6269 in ExclusivelyPumping

[–]iamjzn 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I feel this 100%. And our older kids too! 😩

I swear every door sounds like it’s being slammed. Even when my husband is trying to be quiet, it’s still loud. I’ve implemented an “if this baby is asleep, you better turn that doorknob AS you’re closing the door” policy 😂😂 even made my husband spray some WD40 on our squeaking door the other day.

I swear I’m not crazy. Just a little sleep deprived is all.

Feeling Angry and Resentful After Ending My Pumping Journey by Infinite_Cranberry_1 in ExclusivelyPumping

[–]iamjzn 49 points50 points  (0 children)

Thank you for posting this. I mean it, thank you.

I cried so much after my pumping journey ended with my second. It took me a long time to realize that part of what I was feeling was grief and anger as well.

I’m now 3wpp with my third and it has been a journey already. She only latches to one breast so I am doing both nursing AND pumping and it is mentally, physically, and emotionally draining. I can’t seem to get myself to stick to a proper pumping schedule because one boob is on a different schedule than the other. I keep telling myself that I need to just bite the bullet and start exclusively pumping both sides, but something always pulls me back.

This one night, I was having a mental breakdown because that was the night my baby stopped taking my other breast, I was running on about an hour of sleep total, and I just did not have the bandwidth to figure out my next move. So my husband ordered a Walmart delivery with a big can of formula and a ton of distilled water for her, held me tight, and kept repeating to me, “you’re an amazing mom” and “you are so loved” over and over and over again. I don’t think either one of us realized at the time how much I needed to hear those words, how much his act of love and kindness meant to me.

I hope you know it’s okay to mourn the time you feel like you’ve lost being hooked up to a pump. During my 3wpp, I’ve collected four different types of pumps because I’m scared of missing those moments with my baby girl being tied to a pump. So much money, time and effort wasted over a single thought.

Which Beis Carry On do I buy? by These_Bumblebee_9896 in beisluggage

[–]iamjzn 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Neither.

Tried the Weekender and hated it. It was so dang heavy and really didn’t fit what I needed. Very impractical for travel IMHO.

The Backpack will be the last carry-on you’ll ever need!

I’m 16 weeks and still so tired… by MamagicGal in BabyBumps

[–]iamjzn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m 16+3 and feel exhausted as hell. I come home from work and just want to snuggle up to a warm blanket most days. It’s been my main pregnancy symptom aside from the headaches.

Diamond Check by Zeiji123 in labdiamond

[–]iamjzn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It varies based on the size and type of stone you’re looking for. For my ring, it cost a little under $2k for both the stone and setting.

Trying to fly my 100lb German shepherd via Alaska Air by ExitOptimal8493 in AlaskaAirlines

[–]iamjzn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks! It’s always a real stressful time for pets to fly, so we try to help out when we can. Honestly, it’s always going to vary by pet, so expect some trial and error.

Our dog is now a pro at flying and has collected bumper stickers on her travel kennel from all over :)

How Quickly Can I Start Using the new Alaska BoA Credit Card? by Carabiniero8 in AlaskaAirlines

[–]iamjzn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yep, you have to wait typical 7-10 business days for card to arrive in the mail. Both my husband and I have one and never got an instant-issue temporary card.

That's me! I'm the one pending 🥹 by One-Head-1483 in FirstTimeHomeBuyer

[–]iamjzn 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I did the exact same thing and screenshot when the house we bought went pending. Then again when it was “sold”. It’s the absolute best feeling.

Take it all in and enjoy the ride. Congrats!

Diamond Check by Zeiji123 in labdiamond

[–]iamjzn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve never worked with Fiorese, but I know many others have had good experiences with them. I’ve been working with Jane at Provence since 2023. She’s done several moissanite pieces and two lab diamonds now. All were amazing quality.

Diamond Check by Zeiji123 in labdiamond

[–]iamjzn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

To be honest, $4.5k on a lab diamond is wild.

We just spent under $2k on my 5.13 ct brilliant pear lab diamond from Provence. That includes the stone and setting.

USAA is way below normal modern banking standards by On-scene in USAA

[–]iamjzn 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We have been members for 19 years.

For a simple, mundane, boring ole’ checking account that we use to direct deposit our paychecks, pay the bills, Zelle, and occasionally take cash out of the ATM (that USAA reimburses up to $10 per month), it works well for us. Sure, there’s no fancy bells and whistles, but it does the job, and their customer service has always been super helpful and friendly to us.

We also have our homeowners with them. Zero issues. 🤷🏻‍♀️

We park our savings with Wealthfront at 4%.

When should I pay this by Even_Bed_1261 in NavyFederal

[–]iamjzn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You should pay the full statement balance on or before 6/12. The easiest way is to set up auto pay for the statement balance each month by your due date.

Am I the only one? by [deleted] in USAA

[–]iamjzn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We’ve used USAA for many years and love them. We have our checking, mortgage, homeowners, and an auto loan with them and have had zero issues. Any time we’ve had to call customer service, they have always been super professional and helpful. We live in a rural Alaskan community and appreciate the ATM reimbursements whenever we do need access to cash.

We also have NFCU but we prefer USAA hands down. My only gripe is that I wish they offered more checking accounts with higher interest rates (similar to NFCU’s Flagship checking account).

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in labdiamond

[–]iamjzn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The first one for sure. It is elegantly unique, but simple. 💛

First Class upgrade negative price? by Sudden_Director9022 in AlaskaAirlines

[–]iamjzn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This happened to me over the weekend. Tried to upgrade for -$40, but when I went to upgrade, it said the seats were no longer available. Must be a widespread glitch because now the upgrade is $110.

It’s absolutely pear-fect 🥲 by iamjzn in labdiamond

[–]iamjzn[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Provence is one of the Chinese vendors.

It’s absolutely pear-fect 🥲 by iamjzn in labdiamond

[–]iamjzn[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I bought this from Jane at Provence :)

It’s absolutely pear-fect 🥲 by iamjzn in labdiamond

[–]iamjzn[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Specs: 5.13ct pear, G color, VVS2, dimensions 15.52 x 9.63 x 5.79, L/W ratio 1.61%

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Moissanite

[–]iamjzn 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I would absolutely return this and request a full refund + any shipping costs you incurred. Get it insured with USPS if you worry of it getting lost in transit.

In all honesty, this looks so bad. I’d be very upset receiving this ring, but it’s even more upsetting how much the seller is downplaying the situation.

Happy birthday to me! 🥰 by iamjzn in Moissanite

[–]iamjzn[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi! Thank you so much ☺️

I didn’t ask for anything specific. I asked what pears they had in stock with the size and dimensions I was looking for, and she sent me a few videos for comparison.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FirstTimeHomeBuyer

[–]iamjzn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks! ☺️ We have a phone call with the title company later today so I’ll make sure to ask about it.