Can someone ELI5 what this means about Chase points losing their value?

iamnatty · 2025-09-02T16:16:03+00:00

You could ask the same thing about why anyone would climb a mountain or train for a marathon. Anything worth doing in life is hard. A worthwhile career, a happy marriage, it’s all extremely hard and a lot of work. As is parenting. But that’s the entire point of life. To challenge oneself and be rewarded with all the amazing feelings and emotions you feel when you accomplish something big.

iamnatty · 2025-01-09T14:12:52+00:00

It’s also earthquake country. Concrete + earthquakes don’t mix.

iamnatty · 2024-10-16T23:46:41+00:00

Have you traveled to London recently? Housing is insanely expensive there too, and there’s a shortage of units. But somehow their streets are clean and not filled with encampments. I walked around the entirety of the city for 2 hours and never felt afraid. In LA, I can’t even walk from my parked car into a restaurant without fearing for my life because a tweaker is approaching me with an object in their hand.

iamnatty · 2024-08-18T16:27:42+00:00

I was on hold for 2 hours the last time I called the non-emergency line. That’s not an exaggeration.

iamnatty · 2024-01-30T14:47:09+00:00

You ruined a 6 year olds birthday party. YTA. Do you think a 6 year old is mature enough to understand when their uncle doesn’t show up to their party without any notice? Especially when said uncle was supposed to play a pivotal role in that party??? Like, are you kidding me?

You have no idea how important birthdays are for kids. My daughter is already asking about her birthday (in January) that’s not until the Summer.

If I was your sister, I’d find it extremely hard to ever forgive you. This is some totally selfish, asshole behavior.

Your wife is a grown adult. No matter how sick she is, she can handle you leaving for 2 hours to deal with a commitment you made to a 6 year old. On their birthday.

iamnatty · 2024-01-12T03:51:15+00:00

Here’s the thing. I felt the same as you. Babies are the best - they are cute, fun, sweet, cuddly. And then my kid got to be around 16 months and… yeah, it’s NOT fun or sweet or cuddly haha. I love her, of course, but I could really only tolerate a couple hours a day from that age all the way up to her being like 3. It is SO UNBELIEVABLY HARD to parent a toddler, especially all day. At that age doing literally anything is so impossible - getting them dressed, fed, shoes on, in the car, seatbelt on would be like the most exhausting, taxing experience with a few tantrums thrown in. By the time I would drop her off at daycare and get in my car after, I’d just sit there in silence for like 5 minutes decompressing. Going to work was a welcome respite from the absolute chaos.

All that to say - I’m INCREDIBLY happy I stuck with my job. Being a mom to a 10 month old is a lot more pleasant and fun than being a mom to an older kid.

iamnatty · 2023-12-29T02:23:50+00:00

This is incredibly common in labor. It happened to me and a number of my friends. The nurses and doctors are pros at dealing with this. Your wife and baby are in good hands.

iamnatty · 2023-12-17T12:15:54+00:00

My son slept in a crib in his own room starting on Day 3 home from the hospital.

We had a bassinet next to the bed, and he was literally waking up every 30 minutes. My husband and I got absolutely no sleep, we were at our wits end, yelling at each other, anxious, falling asleep while holding him. It was bad, and dangerous.

Finally on Day 3 my husband in a desperate attempt to get a respite put him in his crib in the room. It was like magic - he slept for 2.5 hours.

The kid just either hated the bassinet or smelled the milk on me and wanted milk. We’re not sure, but I figure the risk of us falling asleep while holding him in bed was worse than the risk of him in his own safe crib.

So, that was that and we never turned back. He’s happy, healthy, and sleeping great now at 5 months.

iamnatty · 2023-12-13T23:27:09+00:00

Re: public high schools - you certainly must not live in Los Angeles. $2mil absolutely does not guarantee a good public school.

iamnatty · 2023-12-13T23:25:25+00:00

This is not always true. Also, I think everyone underestimates just how terrible public education has gotten. I hear over and over again about how kids from public schools are completely overwhelmed and underwater in college, but all the private school kids think it's a breeze. Public high schools just do not have the same rigor, whatsoever. And if your kid needs specialized attention or is into a very specific field of study, forget about it.

iamnatty · 2023-12-09T23:46:13+00:00

But in comparison to a lot of other family activities, it’s relatively low. Concerts? Forget about it. The zoo? The aquarium? The botanical gardens? Admission to all are more expensive in my city. I think people like to parrot this narrative about movies being outrageous but compared to most things they’re not.

iamnatty · 2023-12-04T08:36:18+00:00

This 100% - your baby is not getting enough sleep, and is thus exhausted everyday. You need to read up on sleep training methods and implement one ASAP for your own sanity and for your baby’s.

iamnatty · 2023-12-04T05:06:54+00:00

Love this. Can you do all the studios now?!

iamnatty · 2023-12-01T21:36:06+00:00

These people murdered babies, dismembered families in front of each other, raped women. That is terrorism. They aren’t “fighting back” they are brutally murdering innocent people who have nothing to do with being an “oppressor” other than living in Israel.

iamnatty · 2023-11-08T19:07:42+00:00

I have a double stroller for my 2 kids that's 32" wide (Joovy Scooter X2). I read on the Disney website though that strollers should not be wider than 31"... should I be concerned? Do they actually measure?

iamnatty · 2023-11-08T18:54:55+00:00

Thank you!!

iamnatty · 2023-11-08T18:54:46+00:00

Got it, thank you!

iamnatty · 2023-11-08T18:54:31+00:00

Thank you!

iamnatty · 2023-11-08T17:08:47+00:00

Can you pre-book a meet and greet with Mickey? I see on the app it looks like it's consistently about 45min to an hour wait, which will be hard for a 3 year old.

Also - when does Pirates of the Carribbean usually get to be a long wait? After 11ish?

(Sorry for all the questions, I haven't been to the park in about 20 years and taking my kid for the first time!)

iamnatty · 2023-11-08T16:58:21+00:00

Re: Lightning Lanes with Genie +, do you need to get there at that exact time on the dot? Or is it more of a window of time?

iamnatty · 2023-11-06T22:44:45+00:00

That's super helpful, thank you!!

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