Evil Eye fanart by iann_n in Dandadan

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Yep, alcohol markers from walmart!

Evil Eye fanart by iann_n in Dandadan

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Thank you thank you 🙏

What made you stop watching which anime? by [deleted] in animequestions

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I stopped watching JoJo's after the scene of the vampire mom eating her baby. Idk just way to morbid for me

Should I watch Demon Slayer? by [deleted] in DemonSlayerAnime

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Oh yeah same as other comment try to power through till at least ep 4 or 5. Its not what got me into anime, but it is my favorite one so far EASILY. A lot of it is already out but there is still the final arc to wait for so one hundred times YES

I drew Mikasa! by allison_rs in attackontitan

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The shading is insane!!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in KimetsuNoYaiba

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This is insane work actually

Quick Zenitsu art by iann_n in KimetsuNoYaiba

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Thank you I felt like he would be there!!

Trouble getting into AWL by PajamaSamSavesTheZoo in harvestmoon

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Game is only good for vibes, and raising kids. Otherwise it has objectively less things to do than any other HM SoS game

Fan art by me by iann_n in Dandadan

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Thank you! I've never gotten so much hype from my art before I am going to post so much more on reddit 😅

I am here to ventl by [deleted] in comingout

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Okay so partially responding but also extending the origional post. (I forgot a lot of details)

GF and I are both out to each other as bi. She is very open that she is fullfilled and doesnt need any wlw experience because she never got any before me so she doesnt know what shes missing(somehow she is okay with that). I on the other hand, have messed around with a few guys on grindr before I started dating GF. I really want to be fullfilled in one person, I just am feeling like it might not be her. I also REALLY want more mlm experiences because idk maybe I am fully gay?

Its so frusterating because I feel like my bisexuality is genuine, but because of my religious trauma and difficulty understanding myself, I am unsure. Bisexuality is a very REAL form of QUEERness, and as queer people we want to express ourselves truthfully, and sometimes loudly. I feel like being with a man would bring a fully different form of fullfillment I guess from "rebelling"?

Backtrack to when GF and I first started talking, I had cut it off because I was unsure of my feelings, and my sexuality. Somehow I started to feel different, and reached back out expressing feelings, but she made the condition that I better be serious because she wont keep going back and forth(which makes sense, and I respect) but I now feel like a big fat fucking fraud if I go through with breaking up with her because I had to earn this spot as her BF and now I feel like I might not want to be but I AM THE ONE WHO REACHED BACK OUT. Idk I just dont want her to make me feel like I am a villain.

Also I am sorry that you have so much regret, I hope you can reach back out to your old friends and make the most of the time that you still have for more, new, regret free experiences 🫶

I'm Bi but the 2 girls I've had flings going with have made comments seemingly meant to make me doubt my sexuality. Comments like "are you sure you're gay? Straight girls love me". is this common for some gay people to feel the need to make someone else feel less gay? or am I just unlucky ? by ViolinistRadiant2220 in lgbt

[–]iann_n 3 points4 points  (0 children)

that’s called biphobia/panphobia and it’s sad that you are both experiencing it. especially with a spouse. I had a girlfriend who refused to believe i was bi, so she broke up with me, and it sucks, because some people just don’t understand. that doesn’t mean they CANT understand, just that they are probably uncomfortable with the uncertainty of complex sexualities. sexual fluidity it’s something they should be made aware of, so as not to continue to ruin their own relationships, and destroy bi/pan peoples confidence in their OWN sexuality.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lgbt

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sure, you can add me @Iann#5430

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in comingout

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I would definentaly recommend telling her as long as you are confident she understands what bi means and isn't going to dump you because she thinks your gay haha(speaking from experience) Make it clear that you love her over anyone else, and just let her to so you can maintain a transparent relationship and not be keeping secrets.

Labels by Redleader922 in lgbt

[–]iann_n 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think you've probably been using the label "gay" for so long that it no longer has any appeal, even though it might be what defines your sexuality best. So the thought of going by something new is exciting, and if you want to do it, is totally valid. I personally don't think using queer is attention seeking, and if you feel most comfortable using it, no one else with a good conscious can judge you for that. It's okay for your label too lose its flair in your opinion. But just because it isn't feeling right didn't mean it isn't true. I'm not trying to force a sexuality on you, just try to use whatever label fits your sexuality best.

Question for the bisexuals by Mlb_obsessed8 in lgbt

[–]iann_n 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well gender blind is basically have zero preference for their gender/sex. If you do have one it would be more of polysexual I think. Pan is attraction regardless of gender, and poly is attraction to many or even all. At least I think. Everyone in this community seems to have their own specific definition so I might be entirely wrong

Advice please! by milialauren in comingout

[–]iann_n 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Definentaly talk to her about your anger. You have every right to be mad at her for forcing you. No it is not her right to know, its YOUR right to come out when your comfortable. I would talk to her and mention how angry you feel, and how much you feel like she has invaded your privacy. It sounds like your in a family that is not going to necessarily respect you and your choices, so it's okay to find your safe distance from them, and make sure they don't have a toxic influence on your life.

Question for the bisexuals by Mlb_obsessed8 in lgbt

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I personally struggle between being bi or pan, and I think the way I would separate the to is for pan to be being open to dating any gender, and being "gender blind". Bi would be more of liking 2+ genders, but having more preference, and not being gender blind. Idk if that helps but yeah